Kimberlyanne

I dont know your case or details but i wouldnt hurry this decision, sometimes there are things that can be done to change the outcome of a first denial

we have weighhed all options , this is the last resort. something else happenned in germany thats on his police document but that was 8 yrs ago , my husband has never done drugs but he was in a vehicle with friends that 1 was in possession of marijuana ,, thats another thing on his police report , so we have made the decision that we are going to marry there in morocco , and then do the visa process again in 2-3 years when he will possibly be eligible again .....insha allah . but he is a wonderful man with a kind heart , and he cant change what happenned 8 yrs ago , so we must sacrifice to be together . i didnt mean to go into detail regardding the incident in germany , i only wantted to make it clear . thx again

I wish you peace with your decision. You don't have to say goodbye to your daughters, just see you later. You can visit and they can visit, so it is not goodbye. It will be hard on everyone and a big adjustment, but you can make it work.

As to your husband's situation, under current laws any drug related conviction with the exception of a single conviction for possession of less than 30 grams of marijuana is not waivable for an immigrant visa. There is no waiver and it is a permanent inadmissibility.

If it falls within that exception, he would be eligible to file a waiver NOW, no need to wait. If it does not fall within that exception, without a change in the law, he would never be issued an immigrant visa but he could potentially receive a non-immigrant (like B2) with a waiver (212(d)(3)/ I-192). That would require him proving he did not have immigrant intent and showing ties to his country.

I am not aware of any case where a deportation from a foreign country would require a 10 year wait for a US visa. More likely, it is the drug related incident, which I am assuming resulted in a conviction of some kind appearing on his record, that is causing the problem.

Beyond that, the work American Families United is doing with lobby efforts in Congress to change the way waivers are handled for spouses of citizens and LPRs would help, once we get it passed. If you are interested in helping that effort, check out www.americanfamiliesunited.org.

I with you luck and happiness in whatever road you choose.

salam allaikum ,,, i tysm for the information you sent me , it helps tremendously . alhamdolillah .... also it was a very small amount and not on his possession but on the possession of 1 of the friends in the car . but , they chargged all 3 of them with it . he did mention to me as readding the letter about the 212, so i know that you know what your talkking about . plz keep my email address lhoussine_kimberly@yahoo.com , and lets add 1 another , as i will b leavving to morocco mid-july or 1st week of augaust.my passport was stollen so i have to go tomorrow for a new 1 , and tie up my personal matters here in USA . my daughter is doing much better for now . and they will also be able to call me and see me by cam and computer . my fiance has computer and internet in the home . they have a nice home for where the village he lives in is . its in khemisset morocco . it will only be , him ,. his mother , and i , in a 5 bedroom home. my husband wants me to bring all my documents there with me , so we can marry there and wait to do the cr-1 or the k-3, if for any reason this applying for waiver dont work . insha allah it might.....i emailled him what u wrote , and im sure he will start the process NOW .....plz keep in contact with me as im here and in morocco once i leave , insha allah .... shukran bezaf ....thx alot , beslama , bye

I dont know your case or details but i wouldnt hurry this decision, sometimes there are things that can be done to change the outcome of a first denial

Oh, KimberlyAnne, i'm so sorry to hear this news! But i am inspired by your strength and matter-of-factness, and of course, knowledge is power... at least you KNOW something now, and you can make decisions based on this...

i do, however, agree with the rest of the bunch. Are you sure you just want to up and move to Morocco? You can still overturn this decision, especially if it is just the case of a misplaced waiver.

Also, i do believe, (please someone correct me if i'm wrong), that if you are denied, you need to address the denial in some written form before you let the K-1 petition expire? i believe you need to address the denial, so if, some day in the furture, you decide to re-petition with a K3 or CR visa, you will not be denied again. Has anyone else heard of this, and if so, can you help elaborate because i'm not explaining right?

Whatever you decide, i wish you the best of luck. Stay strong. Inchallah, everything will work out for you and your habeeb.

M3 asalaama,

hz

salam , and tysm for your wonderful reply i am a muslimah , subhan allah ,, and i will be strong knowwing that this is my destiny . i only wish the best for you and all others ..........beslama

I dont know your case or details but i wouldnt hurry this decision, sometimes there are things that can be done to change the outcome of a first denial

we have weighhed all options , this is the last resort. something else happenned in germany thats on his police document but that was 8 yrs ago , my husband has never done drugs but he was in a vehicle with friends that 1 was in possession of marijuana ,, thats another thing on his police report , so we have made the decision that we are going to marry there in morocco , and then do the visa process again in 2-3 years when he will possibly be eligible again .....insha allah . but he is a wonderful man with a kind heart , and he cant change what happenned 8 yrs ago , so we must sacrifice to be together . i didnt mean to go into detail regardding the incident in germany , i only wantted to make it clear . thx again

salam allaykum all, i postted in the new topics and im postting here now . i have been with VJ for 1 year , but with my fiance for 4 .. he was just interviewwed for the 2nd time and was told sorry , but NO ...... so , im off now to morocco , it wasnt hard to make this decision for me . i have been packked and ready to join my husband for a long time now . its just sayying goodbyes to my family and to my 3 daughters and grandson .my daughter ashley is takking it the harddest . she is 21 yrs old and has a 5 yr old son . i am tryying to find the most comfortting words to say to her , but this is 1 of the harddest choicces of my life. the reason my fiance was denied is that he overstayyed his visa in germany and was deportted . that makes it impossible to get a usa visa for 10 years .its been 8 . i havent said anything yet to my parents or my sisters and many many neices and nephews , cousins , aunts , and uncles , and grandparents .i am italian , and have a very large family .lol ... but i think this is a sign of ALLAH (swt) . my destiny is my husband and of course my family is very important to me . they will have my # to call me . but as for my daughters and grandson , how do u find the right words to say goodbye??????????????i wish all of you the best , and i pray that this dont happen to you as it did for us .ill still like to speak to you from morocco , insha allah .. take care all and good luck again , masalama.....

salam allaikum all ,,,, my fiance was denied , due to his police background in germany where he stayyed for 7 years . he over stayyed his visa and was givven 72 hours to leave . that was 8 yrs ago . so , im now all packked and will be leavving soon to join my fiance in khemisset morocco . everyone thought that since he didnt break any american immigration laws, and that he left when he was told too , that all would be good here . its ok though , alhamdolillah . i believe ALLAH (swt) has intentions for us all . and his mother is very old and needs her son and i to care for her .maybe this is our plan . our destiny.....i wish each and every one of you the best and ill keep you all in my prayyers , as well as in my heart . and , to all my friends i met here ,, bon voyage ...lol ,, its ok , really , i do feel at ease finally with theyre decision .....the only hard part is sayying goodbye to my family . i have 3 kids they r oldder , im most worried about my daughter ashley whom, is 21 years old . she has my grandson armani , whom is 5 ....i may never see my parents again , since my father is a diabetic and had a stroke 2 yrs ago . but they have much understandding for my fiance and i . only my 3 daughters feel they r loosing theyre mom ...any advise for me to give to my girls and grandson will be much appreciatted , insha allah ,,, ill still talk with some of you from morocco , and again ,, GOOD LUCK ON YOUR JOURNEYS .......... masalama

Stay positive and have faith insha Allah he will come with good news

i ty so much anyways but my fiance was denied for 2 more years . so im off to morocco to be with my husband . i wish u the best and may ALLAH (swt) b with u on your journey.....masalama

You have God on your side and all these MENA gals behind you - We are all rooting for you!! I can't wait to see the post that he's got good news for you!!

Awwh sweetie I've been doing the same thing for the last three days- And what's worst Tunisia was having some kind of mobile network problem so I just kept getting the same message, first in Arabic and then in French that Tunisiana Network was not available and please try my call again later - I know it is sooo frustrating but I really hope that he will be out soon and have great news to share with you!!! I'm praying right now at work - Just breathe and I"m sure it's going to be just fine, Inshallah.

I'm hoping that all goes well!!!

tysm ,,,,, that means alot to me ,, im sitting here calling his phone over and over .....he is still in the interview ...... i do congratulate u

i truly thank you with all my heart . my best wishhes to u , plz pray for us .....insha allah ,

he was denied ... from an incident that occurred in germany where he over stayyed his visa after a divorce ..... so im headded to morocco ,, thx anyways . may god b with u , insha allah ,, and take care ,,,, masalama

I hope you hear good news soon!!!

salam allaikum ,, tysm ,, good luck to u as well.. masalama..

Awwh sweetie I've been doing the same thing for the last three days- And what's worst Tunisia was having some kind of mobile network problem so I just kept getting the same message, first in Arabic and then in French that Tunisiana Network was not available and please try my call again later - I know it is sooo frustrating but I really hope that he will be out soon and have great news to share with you!!! I'm praying right now at work - Just breathe and I"m sure it's going to be just fine, Inshallah.

I'm hoping that all goes well!!!

tysm ,,,,, that means alot to me ,, im sitting here calling his phone over and over .....he is still in the interview ...... i do congratulate u

i truly thank you with all my heart . my best wishhes to u , plz pray for us .....insha allah ,

Good luck, KimberlyAnne!

it sounds good, just "normal" processing...

Inchallah, you'll hear some good news from him today!

salam allaikum ,, i thank you for the message . im a nervous wreck right now , i cant focus on anything at the moment . im calling his phone and hes still in the embassy ... lmao .. i am a nervous wreck ,, well , vcant do nothing but wait for the call . good luck to u as well,, masalama

I'm hoping that all goes well!!!

tysm ,,,,, that means alot to me ,, im sitting here calling his phone over and over .....he is still in the interview ...... i do congratulate u

salam allaikum ,,, CONGRATULATIONS ......... ,,,,,, U DID IT GIRL , GOOD FOR BOTH OF YOU

AP/AR would be normal in these circumstances, but the MENA forum would be better.

thanks so much . i dont know how it didnt go on mena board , i workked 12 hours and was tirred , so i must have misread where i was postting , thx again

sorry this was meant to go to new topic discussion .. not sure why it went here sayying im from russia .. lol ... but any advise is glad to have been gotten ,,,,,lol

salam allaikum ,, well today is the day we should know something . insha allah . my fiance had his 1st interview on mar 13 08 , he was told at this time that he must get a police document from germany since he livved there for 7 years . we didnt think he needed 1 for germany, he had his 1 from khemisset morocco.well he then went on to the german embassy and applied for it , they said 2-3 weeks , it took 6 ... then he returnned the translatted form back to the us embassy in casa . he was told to leave his passport , which we thought as an approvval . ok , then approximately 5 days later was called to come back on may 7 th , today at 230pm his time and answer a few more questions . not that he was going to pick up an approvved visa . well , now the wait is on . he will b leavving for casa at 9am . hes takking the bus this time.last 2 times was a taxi ...... grrr anyways we dont know y they would want to ask anything more , he supplied so much evidence , the woman origuinally told him his interview went terriffic ....he only needed this form . plz anyone who cares to leave me any type of reply , id like to hear what u think . insha allah .... i met him 4 yrs ago in an islamic chat .although i took 3 years to go there , lol .. i was nervous and it was so comfortable getting close on the computer . i had never left the usa or my family before . but finally i took the chance , and immediately , we knew it was our destiny to be reunitted here in this life . alhamdolillah....plz pray for us and send back any feedback . it will all be appreciatted ,, shukran bezaf , beslama

salam allikum ,, i really hope the best for you both , insha allah . you were very fortunate to be able to be there for his interview . it seems that ALLAH (swt) has his hands on your shoulder . alhamdolillah ... I PRAY YOU GET YOUR CALL SOON TO PICK UP STAMPED VISA , INSHA ALLAH.. GOOD LUCK , BESLAMA

Don't worry hun everything will be just fine. My fiance is from Egypt and he also had to attend a 2nd interview after we were on A/P for 13 months. He passed the second one and is now awaiting for his visa. They will tell him what he needs to bring to his second interview and they will ask him a few questions, and make sure they have everything that they need and it should not take much longer for him to recieve his visa after although the time frame for each case is different. When my love went to his 2nd interview he had to bring proof of our ongoing relationship from the 1st interview until now and he had to bring more passport size pics, redo his medical, and his police certificate again because those things had already expired, but in your case he might not need all of that because he is in Morocco but they will tell him what he does need. Everything will be just fine try to relax yourself and stay as calm as you can because you want to be well, and healthy for when your man gets here!!! Hugs, and i will keep you in my prayers that he will get his visa soon. Don't wory sweety it will come ( for you hun)

AJ1

Good luck, KimberlyAnne,

it might be that they just want to ask him a few more questions with any new information they acquired. at least you know they are working on his case. and May 7th is right around the corner! stay positive, and inchallah, he'll have the visa stamp and be good to go!

hz

salam allaykum, to sara and hg shukran bezaf ,,, i am tryying so hard to keep on with my responsibilities here in USA ,,and havving people like you , and others here on VJ has made things eassier for me . i truly appreciate your comments .. and good luck to all on theyre journies as well ,, im not sure i would have stayyed sane doing this alone without seeing others that r in the same predicament . i thank u so much .. subhanallah ... beslama

hi again its kim ,, i need advise plz .. anyone can u help me? if u look at my homepage and my timelijne u will see what ive been going thru . my fiance is in khemisset morocco , and we had everything we needed we thought , well, he livved in germany for 7 yrs , we didnt know we needed a police cert. from there . he had his interview mar 13 , and they said it went very well only he needed the cert from germanu since he livved there so long . well he applied for it , they said it would yake 2-3 weeks , it took 7 ... then he went thru the trip back to casa after translatting papers . they kept his passport , we assummed he would get visa , they called him 1 week later and set a 2nd interview . many have said its to go over full set of documents again . my health is getting bad , and im workking while on disability , just to do as i must . but i want to b with him so baddly . i almost went 2 x already . he says if it dont go thru he wants me to bring all my documents and get married there . i dont care where we live as long as its together . plz advise me on anything u think can be of help . or your opinions of what this 2nd interview will do ... i need all your help plzzzz.... thx

Oh, thanks.

but I'm still lost!

lmao ,, thats cute

can someone please help me to understand all this ???? im kimberly anne , my fiance is lhoussine elamine , lhoussine had his interview on mar 13 08 , since he livved in germany 7 yrs they wantted a police background check , he went immediately to german embassy , and he applied , they said 2-3 weeks ,,,,, well......low and behold 6 weeks later they sent it . the next day he returned to the usa embassy with the translatted forms , and the woman kept his passport, and made sure to have his phone number/ i was sure all was ok .. hes still nervous . well , now today tuesday the 28th they called him to have a 2nd interview on may 7 08.... would anyone know why this would be? im so nervous again , please please help me if you can , has this happenned to anyone else ? and if so what happenned?or if u know of this happenning to anyone , can you please give me some insight????? tysm ,, kimberly

To all my friends

I WISH YOU ENOUGH

My God, you got straight to my heart.

I want to be with my baby so bad, but how horrible will be the day i leave my family.

My heart gets so small when i think of that day.

My mom allready wakes up in the middle of her sleep with her heart bitting so fast, cause she's got the dream that tomorrow is the day that i leave...

that is so beautiful , it brought tears to my eyes rememberring the time i left my family . i wasnt sure if i was going to take residency there and apply for k-3 . my moms health is bad too , and i didnt want it to b the last time i seen her . thx for sharring this

hi rachbel

as for my case my fiance US citizen was a little bit crazy before we met he went to jail twice but not for the crimes listed in the I129F petition that's why we didnt mention anything, but after they checked on his record they sent us the RFE for police report and all court convistions to show me at the embassy in case he didnt tell me !!

but i can't hide that from u i am worried i am still waiting NO2 my timeline says it will be adjiducated this month!!!!

please pray for me and wish me good luck !!

good luck to u and to everyone who desire something

salam

hi Herolmounia;

thanks much for your message , and yess I and my fiance pray for you , and wish you the best , i know VSC is a bit fast, so i expect you'll get your NOA2 soon , and we'll be so happy for you. when you are in love , you'r in God's heart, so trust in him .Thanks&good luck.

yes my fiance also livved in germany for 7 yrs , no matter the time , they still require it . my fiance interview was march 13 , he immediately went to german embassy to apply for the document of police report , they chargged him 70dh , said he would recieve it in 2-3 weeks , it took 6 weeks , then he immediately had it translatted from german to french then english, and took it to USA embassy ,,, we are going on now 1 week of waitting . they did take his passport , verified his phone contact number and said we will call u , insha allah ...good luck to you .. kimberly

i truly thank all of you that replied to my queston , its been such a long haul , but , much worth it . alhamdolillah ,,,, thx all

hi its been a very long time since ive postted anything here. ny fiance lhoussine had his interview on mar 13 08 , well since he livved in germany for 7 yrs they wantted a police background document . they said 2-3 weeks he would recieve it . on the 6th week mhe did reieve and took it translatted to the us embassy. he said his interview went great except only needing this document . today he took it in , and the interviewer took his passport and made sure she had correct telephone number to reach him . does anyone know if this means he will be called to claim his visa now?plz help me, thx

sara tysm ,,,,, that helps me alot .