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15 hours ago, Ballerina said:

https://www.ilrc.org/sites/default/files/documents/document_gathering_for_self-petitioning_under_the_violence_against_women_act.pdf

 

There is a very good one there that you can use as a guide but ultimately, you need to tell your story in your own voice. 

Hi,

It's hard to live with my crazy husband because I kept crying every other day. He kept yelling crazily and terribly without reasons or ridiculous reasons. I tried to record his crazy audio tapes and I have few in  my phones now.  He is kind of mental man. I'm his 3rd wife and now i can understand why 2nd wife left him without reasons. He lied to me about his past  relationship . I'm married him for true love and he came to VN 6 times to see me. I graduated college and had a good job in my country. I thought we could build a happy family in the US. But he turned out to be very  verbal abusive husband. He yelled at me in public that made me so embarrassing and people looked at him and i told him to be nice and kind to me in public but he didn't listen and kept abuse me verbally using bad words like f**#######, and f***er, ###, #######. He often called me ####### even when we were at the public .  I loved him and didn't want to call the police every time he abused me verbally.  His crazy yelling woke up all neighbors at the RV park and they had to call the police. The RV park manager was my witness . He often threatened me for the green card if I didn't listen what he wanted me to do. He didn't allow me to talk and told me to shut up with loud voice. He is very controlling and manipulating. I was scared and depressed. Verbal abuse is sometimes hurting you a lot same as  physical abuse. So now I'd like to apply green card by myself without his threatening. 

For the proof of abuse, I have gathered evidences of verbally abuse as below. I'm not sure if you guys can help to review if I need more evidences.

Written personal statement of abuse by self-petitioner
Police report from Mohave county Sheriff’s office

Statement letter from Mohave county Attorney’s office

Determination of release conditions and release order from Kingman / Cerbat Justice court

Affidavit of witness from Trade-wind RV park manager

Affidavit of witness as reporting party who was living at Trade-wind RV park

Screen shot of emailing the audio tapes of verbally abuse to Mohave sheriff’s officer

Screen shot of messages calling spouse as gross disgusting vulgar names from abusive spouse

Screen shot of threatening green card from abusive spouse

15 hours ago, Ballerina said:

https://www.ilrc.org/sites/default/files/documents/document_gathering_for_self-petitioning_under_the_violence_against_women_act.pdf

 

There is a very good one there that you can use as a guide but ultimately, you need to tell your story in your own voice. 

Hi,

This is really helpful. Thank you 

55 minutes ago, Apple90 said:

Yoy need to write down your own statement with you own words about the courtship and the abuse you suffered if you claim vawa baesd of only emotional abuse you will need to get a psychological evaluation done from a professional therapist

Thank you for your advice. I'll write by myself as my English is not so much perfect. The reason i need a sample  form so I can see the way how you write down. I'll check and find therapist next week before i fill self-petition. 

54 minutes ago, Ballerina said:

https://immigrantjustice.org/for-attorneys/legal-resources?keyword=vawa&sort_bef_combine=field_last_updated_value DESC&sort_by=field_last_updated_value&sort_order=DESC&page=1

Thank you so much. Do you have any sample of written personal statement as VAWA ? 

Hi everybody,

would you like to share the cover letter for form I-360 ? I'm also a victim of domestic violence.  And I'm filling it by myself because I don't have money to pay lawyer

Thank you. Let me check.

Dear All,

I come here by K1 VISA on  7/17/2019. I have applied green card and now i receive the EAD.  However, my husband had abused me verbally a lot. He often yelled at me the public that made me so embarrassing .  I recorded many audio of his yelling crazily and terribly without reasons or ridiculous reason like doing chores not correctly like he wanted. He treated me like a slaver.  He said that he would feel better if I let him yell at me. One night, he yelled and screamed at me so hard that all whole RV park heard that they called  police and he was in jail . He is convicted as verbally abusive. Now I left him  because I'm afraid that he would hurt me. I would like to apply green card by myself without his threaten.  I have police records, audio that he often yelled and screamed. I also have witness statement from RV park where I was living.  I'm going to apply form I-360 and I have a question regarding on the checklist " If you are 14 years of age or older, your affidavit of good moral character accompanied by a local police clearance, state-issued criminal background check, or similar report from each locality or state in the United States or abroad where you have resided for six or more months during the three-year period immediately before you filed your self-petition ". Does anybody give me instruction how to get this ? I'm never arrested and have good background.