So, unfortunately we had to do the 3 year rule; we where going to wait for 5 years, but applied early due the current climate. I was expecting a long wait, so getting the interview letter today was surprising.
The green card interview was very easy, since we already had one child together. However, I was able to attend that one.
I will see about babysitting; We have no family in the area unfortunately; I'll also check with my Mom if she can help us out, but she lives about 1,500 miles away and its not easy for her to visit us.
-thanks,
Brian