Mike2234

8 minutes ago, CASTIEL said:

 

Hi Guys, 
 It's Been a while I just came back from vacation. I used again my advance parole and enter with no problem.
 I Hope your doing great! Just an update on my Case. 
  
VAWA Notice Date: August 4, 2017
Received mail: August 12, 2017
My Name was Updated: August 16, 2017
Previous I-485 Transferred from another office of  Processing: September 1, 2017
EAD and AP Renewal Exp Feb 2018: November 3, 2017 
Additional Evidence of Abuse sent: November 3, 2017 
EAD and AP Renewal Received:November 6, 2017 
EAD and AP approved:November 24, 2017 (So Fast but Thank you!) 
EAD And AP Card Mailed: November 28, 2017 (letter received they used my first biometrics) 
EAD And AP Card Received in mail : December 2, 2017 (The start date is the approval date not the expiration date of the first card which is feb 2018)  
Travel to 3 different Countries: May 1-30 2018 using Advance Parole.  LAX port of entry. 
EAD And AP Renewal: August 4, 2018 
EAD and AP Card Production: August 30, 2018
NEW CARD PRODUCTION: Under I-360 VAWA - January 4, 2019 Best Birthday Gift Ever!!! 
WE MAILED YOUR NEW CARD:Under I-360 VAWA - JANUARY 9, 2019 
 EAD C31 CARD IN HAND: JANUARY 12, 2019  

APPROVED VAWA I-360- JANUARY 31, 2019

AT MY LOCAL OFFICE I-485 - FEBRUARY 22, 2019

 

  
SO I'M JUST WAITING FOR MY INTERVIEW. 

  
NO RFE, NO PRIMA FACIE, NO LAWYER only this site helps me and SANDRA.  

  
Thank you GOD for everything!!! 
Thank you all for your help, support and information especially SANDRA. 
  
Almost there guys just pray and have faith. If you have question just pm me.   
  

Can you pls advise if I need to pay for AOS again if VAWA is approved? Because I paid originally when applied after marriage...

Guys,

am I paying for AOS one more time if I am approved for VAWA ?

17 hours ago, Damara said:

I am very sorry for what has happened. Unfortunately as explained already cheating is NOT grounds for VAWA nor is your depression/mental issues from the cheating/breakdown of the marriage qualify you for VAWA. Please be cautious about an attny that encourages you to file based on that. 

I was told by 2 different lawyers already that thread of immigration status (if you do not sign divorce papers right now, then I will call USICS and kick your ### out of the country like tomorrow)  and other threads (if you do not sign divorce papers right now I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state) qualify me for VAWA together with my broken psychological state due to cheating. What do you think?

Hi guys, as I posted before I was recently cheated by my wife and she is filing divorce. I spoke with one lawyer and she asked if my wife was treating my immigration status or did she ever say anything abusive to me, etc...So yes, my wife said me things like if you do not sign divorce papers right now, then I will call USICS and kick your ### out of the country like tomorrow as well as if you do not sign divorce papers right now I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state...also she said things like it was easy to lie to you because you an idiot. She said much more...this is just what I remember now...Also I am seriously psychologically down by this and even my wife suggested me to see a therapist because of my mental state. So I am going to visit a therapist.
My questions are: does everything I said above make sense for applying for VAWA? and one more question...does this VAWA petition affecting my wife or not? Just want to ask her mom and sister to write a statement about what happened and to confirm that she cheated. I will not ask them if it is affecting my wife, because obviously they will not do anything against their family member. So...

6 minutes ago, geowrian said:

* Moved from AOS from K-1 Progress Reports to Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits *

 

I suggest reading through and asking questions on the VAWA thread. The individuals there would be well suited to provide good input as well.

The cheating is not sufficient for a VAWA claim. The subsequent remarks and actions/threats may or may not provide a strong basis for a VAWA abuse claim. I'll defer to others there.

 

Thank you!

Hi all,

My wife cheated on me and I found out that recently. She is now filing divorce because she is actually going to marry that another guy. Situation is very crazy and unexpected.
I will briefly describe the story and in the end pls advise advise if I am eligible for VAWA because I called a lawyer today and they advised to file VAWA after I told my full story.

So, my wife told me around 1.5 month ago that she is not sure she wants to be with me, I thought maybe she i just stressed by something or idk...so we have been talking about it and her family have been talking to me and her (separately)...no one was getting what's going on and why she is telling that...Her family (mom and sister) was on my side and they know everything. During all this time she was coming home with very expensive gifts (she was saying it is from their Gen Manager...he is getting it for everyone), she was coming with sticky notes with words like I love you, I want to be with you, etc (she told me it is someone random secret admire at work and maybe it is a joke, she said she does know), also once I found her panties in her car...and she just told some bullshit again...like I forget them there dont remember when. So I was truly in love with her and was planning to have babies and live happily, this is why I didn't question that a lot, I trusted my wife. I thought it is normal to trust.
Then like 1 week ago she told me that she is sleeping with someone from work, she is moving out ASAP and moving in with him, also she is filing divorce, also all that gifts was from this guy and that secret admire was that guy. So, she lied me and her family for a long time. After she told it to everyone, her sister and mom stopped talking with her and cancelled their planned vacation together (they told her, we dont want you to come and be with us). They all dont communicate for a week already, but her sister and mom are talking with me and supporting me, they agree she cheated, they agree she acted inhumanly and very dissrespective. She filed divorce today. During this week we were fighting a lot because we still live together...while this fights she told phrases like: "You are an idiot and it was so easy to lie to you", "I will destroy you, test me and watch", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will call USCIS to withdraw my petition and kick you out of this country like tomorrow", "My future is brighter then yours".....etc. Her mom and sister agreed with me that she is doing this because of money (that guy is rich)...she was proudly saying like he will get me a ring for 40k...I will not be able to say NO (after saying to me that she does not want to marry again)...he will pay for my plastic surgery and he will pay for business I want to start, and I dont need to work at all, I am leaving my job in June...because he has a lot of money and he will pay for me. I didn't record her saying any of that, so it is only my personal statement.

During all this is happening she realized that I am very psychologically distressed...I am really down by this. I can't believe my wife cheated on me and how she is acting towards me now - very aggressive and with no pity. So, she said I need to go to therapist because I need mental help. I agree with that because I was never so much down in my life, I really need help. So she will take me to the doctor I guess, or I will go alone. I will probably need multiple visits because situation with my mental state is very hard. I do not even believe what I am typing now here for you. I want to believe that this isnt my story...but it is. 

So after saying all of this to random lawyer I called today...lawyer said that apply for VAWA. I am thinking is there any sense in applying or it is just a chance for lawyer to make money and this is why she is telling so?
Please advise what are the chances of getting VAWA approved, especially for man.
P.S: I am now pending AOS from K1, interview was not scheduled yet. I have an EAD and AP (will it be cancelled and when in case I am applying for VAWA and not applying?)
Thank you and love each other, people.

Hi all,

My wife cheated on me and I found out that recently. She is now filing divorce because she is actually going to marry that another guy. Situation is very crazy and unexpected.
I will briefly describe the story and in the end pls advise advise if I am eligible for VAWA because I called a lawyer today and they advised to file VAWA after I told my full story.

So, my wife told me around 1.5 month ago that she is not sure she wants to be with me, I thought maybe she i just stressed by something or idk...so we have been talking about it and her family have been talking to me and her (separately)...no one was getting what's going on and why she is telling that...Her family (mom and sister) was on my side and they know everything. During all this time she was coming home with very expensive gifts (she was saying it is from their Gen Manager...he is getting it for everyone), she was coming with sticky notes with words like I love you, I want to be with you, etc (she told me it is someone random secret admire at work and maybe it is a joke, she said she does know), also once I found her panties in her car...and she just told some bullshit again...like I forget them there dont remember when. So I was truly in love with her and was planning to have babies and live happily, this is why I didn't question that a lot, I trusted my wife. I thought it is normal to trust.
Then like 1 week ago she told me that she is sleeping with someone from work, she is moving out ASAP and moving in with him, also she is filing divorce, also all that gifts was from this guy and that secret admire was that guy. So, she lied me and her family for a long time. After she told it to everyone, her sister and mom stopped talking with her and cancelled their planned vacation together (they told her, we dont want you to come and be with us). They all dont communicate for a week already, but her sister and mom are talking with me and supporting me, they agree she cheated, they agree she acted inhumanly and very dissrespective. She filed divorce today. During this week we were fighting a lot because we still live together...while this fights she told phrases like: "You are an idiot and it was so easy to lie to you", "I will destroy you, test me and watch", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will take everything from you because they favor wife in this state", "If you do not sign divorce papers right now, I will call USCIS to withdraw my petition and kick you out of this country like tomorrow", "My future is brighter then yours".....etc. Her mom and sister agreed with me that she is doing this because of money (that guy is rich)...she was proudly saying like he will get me a ring for 40k...I will not be able to say NO (after saying to me that she does not want to marry again)...he will pay for my plastic surgery and he will pay for business I want to start, and I dont need to work at all, I am leaving my job in June...because he has a lot of money and he will pay for me. I didn't record her saying any of that, so it is only my personal statement.

During all this is happening she realised that I am very psychologically distressed...I am really down by this. I can't believe my wife cheated on me and how she is acting towards me now - very aggressive and with no pity. So, she said I need to go to therapist because I need mental help. I agree with that because I was never so much down in my life, I really need help. So she will take me to the doctor I guess, or I will go alone. I will probably need multiple visits because situation with my mental state is very hard. I do not even believe what I am typing now here for you. I want to believe that this isnt my story...but it is. 

So after saying all of this to random lawyer I called today...lawyer said that apply for VAWA. I am thinking is there any sense in applying or it is just a chance for lawyer to make money and this is why she is telling so?
Please advise what are the chances of getting VAWA approved, especially for man.
P.S: I am now pending AOS from K1, interview was not scheduled yet. I have an EAD and AP (will it be cancelled and when in case I am applying for VAWA and not applying?)
Thank you and love each other, people.

Hi all,

I am a foreign citizen who came to the US on k1 visa and married with US citizen while 90 days. We applied for AOS in September 2018, it is still pending. I already got EAD and AP, I am working now.
I found out that my wife is cheating on me with her coworker - info is 100%. So, the question is...what do I do in this case? If I tell her that I want to divorce right now...then do I need to leave country because AOS was not approved yet, correct or not? Please let me know all info and details about options I have in my situation. Thank you!