roxy

Who knows - maybe she WILL move to Mexico during the three years. But in the meantime, she's just looking for some guidance.

Understood, here is some more guidance.

http://www.freenewmexican.com/news/54929.html

THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH FOR YOUR REPLIES I REALLY APPRECIATE IT FINDING THIS IS HELPING ME TO NOT FEEL SO LONELY

AND PUT SOME THINGS INTO PROSPECTIVE!

------------AND JOHN YOUR RIGHT IT IS A HORRIBLE THING FOR ME TO TELL MY DAUGHTER THAT ITS THE PRESIDENTS FAULT BUT I DONT TELL HER THAT EVRY TIME I SAID IT TO HER MAYBE ONCE BUT YOUR RIGHT I SHOULDN'T B/C THEN I MIGHT BE TEACHING HER TO HAVE NO REGARDS FOR AUTHORITY AND I SURELY DONT WANT HER THAT WAY ITS BEEN ENOUGH WITH HER FATHER I MEAN I DIDNT INTEND ON MAKING THAT MY EXPLANATION FOR EVERYTIME SHE ASKS MOSTLY I TELL HER THAT I WILL DO EVERYTHING WITHIN MY POWER TO BRING DADDY HOME AND HE WILL COME AS SOON AS HE CAN

Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

Again, he is NOT in the US. He was NOT deported. And yes, he was probably working illegally in the past, but again, given that USCIS forgives illegal work via marriage to a USC, this is NOT an issue in this case. You certainly have no proof that he didn't pay his taxes via an ITTN - which is legally available to anyone regardless of immigration status.

YES, he was RIGHTFULLY denied due to drug use. She is now simply trying to understand what the correct next steps are. He has three years to get through rehab and get his life back on track so he can be a father and wife. He will also have to file a waiver to forgive his illegal presence. He is doing everything he needs to do to straighten this out - why on earth do you have to continue to kick his wife when's she's already down?

Why does she not move to Mexico?

Oh yeah Immigration is much stricter there.

Sorry, I am with John on this, 22 is not a child. phhh

But I also understand she is trying to figure out the next steps. Would moving to Mexico be the next step? Is she really going to wait 3 years and hope he is in Mexico getting rehab?

But reading the post got to me too. Cant help to vent.

HE Thinks he's still a child i've been trying to explain to him that from the momment we decided to have our baby things changed. I mean i know for gods sake he's a grown man and i dont understand what in the world makes him think he's still a child. lets move now thinking about this is making me mad

i hope for the sake of his daughter he will stay clean and learn.

IM NOT GOING TO MEXICO MEXICO IS NO PLACE FOR ME and my daughterI HAVE MY MOM MY SISTERS are HERE. i know that with time this feeling of him not being here will ease but sometimes im to mad at him to even think about im not its about my and my daughters survival here.

Its ok i dont mind but i just dont like when john confuses me along with him im not asking for acceptances for what he did im asking to see what needs to be done next so that hopefully he will come back the right away and hopefully within the 3 years that hes been given and if not he'll have to wait it out

but everyone is right he needs to come back with the idea that the law is above him and not him above it

Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

Again, he is NOT in the US. He was NOT deported. And yes, he was probably working illegally in the past, but again, given that USCIS forgives illegal work via marriage to a USC, this is NOT an issue in this case. You certainly have no proof that he didn't pay his taxes via an ITTN - which is legally available to anyone regardless of immigration status.

YES, he was RIGHTFULLY denied due to drug use. She is now simply trying to understand what the correct next steps are. He has three years to get through rehab and get his life back on track so he can be a father and wife. He will also have to file a waiver to forgive his illegal presence. He is doing everything he needs to do to straighten this out - why on earth do you have to continue to kick his wife when's she's already down?

right thank you

Why does she not move to Mexico?

Oh yeah Immigration is much stricter there.

Sorry, I am with John on this, 22 is not a child. phhh

But I also understand she is trying to figure out the next steps. Would moving to Mexico be the next step? Is she really going to wait 3 years and hope he is in Mexico getting rehab?

But reading the post got to me too. Cant help to vent.

Who knows - maybe she WILL move to Mexico during the three years. But in the meantime, she's just looking for some guidance.

John yes, you've exercised your "American" right to run your self-righteous mouth. Now STFU.

OP--why are you standing by a man who knowingly destroyed your entire immigration process by smoking pot? I could not forgive this.

You comment that I am self righteous, but you comment on it as well? I agree with your comment, but maybe you too need not express yourself and STFU. Neither of them have any respect for the law or consequences for breaking it. Read her profile, she tells her daughter that she cant see her daddy because of the president and the immigration laws!!! Be real! Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

WAS HERE HE'S NOT ANYMORE AND HE DID PAY TAXES AND WAS NEVER ABLE TO CLAIM ANY OF THEM BACK BECAUSE OF HIS SITUATION. It was his parents who made the decision for him not him. I don't think its fair to hold someone responsible for something that was out of their ( he was 7 when he came) control. I guess he just didnt have good role models to show him the proper way but if you've been parent you should understand that after kids turn about 13 they seem to think they know it all.

John yes, you've exercised your "American" right to run your self-righteous mouth. Now STFU.

OP--why are you standing by a man who knowingly destroyed your entire immigration process by smoking pot? I could not forgive this.

You comment that I am self righteous, but you comment on it as well? I agree with your comment, but maybe you too need not express yourself and STFU. Neither of them have any respect for the law or consequences for breaking it. Read her profile, she tells her daughter that she cant see her daddy because of the president and the immigration laws!!! Be real! Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

DUde, she is not asking for loopholes! She wants to know what the *legal* steps are. I understand you feel strongly about drug use and illegal immigration, and you are absolutely entitled to. But surely you must also understand that she is frustrated because she cannot be with the one she loves. However you may feel about what you perceive as the "character" of her fiance, you are only likely to irritate and anger the OP by expressing you approval of the government process that is keeping them apart. And this only makes the OP disagree even more with your point of view -- which is poor rhetoric and probably not what you want.

"NOT ASKING FOR LOOPHOLES" THANK YOU I'M GLAD THAT THE REST OF YOU GET IT

John yes, you've exercised your "American" right to run your self-righteous mouth. Now STFU.

OP--why are you standing by a man who knowingly destroyed your entire immigration process by smoking pot? I could not forgive this.

You comment that I am self righteous, but you comment on it as well? I agree with your comment, but maybe you too need not express yourself and STFU. Neither of them have any respect for the law or consequences for breaking it. Read her profile, she tells her daughter that she cant see her daddy because of the president and the immigration laws!!! Be real! Now she is asking for loop holes and blaming everything and everyone but her husband selfish behavior. To add to it all, he is here illegally, working under the table and not paying taxes!!! We want this in our country? Righteous? If thats what you want to call it.

NO comment you dont know me i hope you read the replies ive posted

Roxy, the system definitely worked right in your case. I'm not going to coddle you at all, because we got the same ban that you did for something my husband did almost a decade ago, coupled with a mistake in judgment by a "panel physician" who is likely receiving some kind of kickback for every time they can call someone a drug addict, whether it be true or not. And my government, when given the opportunity to fix that mistake, decided not to. If your husband is currently smoking marijuana, he needs to stop immediately, seek counseling as well as a drug re-hab program, and have regular drug tests performed throughout the duration of the 3 years, so that he may present all of that evidence to the same physician he saw the first time, to show that he has been clean for 3 years. He can get this information at his local state-run medical center (I can't remember what they're called). If all that sounds extreme to you, imagine how we feel with my husband who hasn't used drugs since his mid-teenage years (and he's now almost 27); we are doing all of those things, for no other reason than to satisfy the requirements and to get his Visa after our 3 years are up. You may not file a Waiver for drug abuse. You will have to wait until the 3 years is up, go to his interview at that time, and file your I-601 Waiver. With any luck for you, by the time 3 years is up, either the processing times for Waivers will have gone way down or immigration reform will have passed eliminating the waiver from the process.

your right and i wasn't looking for sympathy on that part at all what i meant by worthless is the time and money i invested into the whole process because it didnt work in my favor so it was the money and time that was the worthless part. it's not the systems fault why my husband made the choices he did and maybe god is doing me a favor by what happened but i just dont see it yet

Roxy, the system definitely worked right in your case. I'm not going to coddle you at all, because we got the same ban that you did for something my husband did almost a decade ago, coupled with a mistake in judgment by a "panel physician" who is likely receiving some kind of kickback for every time they can call someone a drug addict, whether it be true or not. And my government, when given the opportunity to fix that mistake, decided not to. If your husband is currently smoking marijuana, he needs to stop immediately, seek counseling as well as a drug re-hab program, and have regular drug tests performed throughout the duration of the 3 years, so that he may present all of that evidence to the same physician he saw the first time, to show that he has been clean for 3 years. He can get this information at his local state-run medical center (I can't remember what they're called). If all that sounds extreme to you, imagine how we feel with my husband who hasn't used drugs since his mid-teenage years (and he's now almost 27); we are doing all of those things, for no other reason than to satisfy the requirements and to get his Visa after our 3 years are up. You may not file a Waiver for drug abuse. You will have to wait until the 3 years is up, go to his interview at that time, and file your I-601 Waiver. With any luck for you, by the time 3 years is up, either the processing times for Waivers will have gone way down or immigration reform will have passed eliminating the waiver from the process.

I forgot to "thank you" for the info THANKS

I'm with Alex...Did you say he doesn't treat you well or did Ir ead that wrong?

No, you read it right thats another question I ask myself everday also after being with him for almost a decade it makes it hard to walk away no matter how much i want to. I'm hoping that he will wake up within the next three years.

John yes, you've exercised your "American" right to run your self-righteous mouth. Now STFU.

OP--why are you standing by a man who knowingly destroyed your entire immigration process by smoking pot? I could not forgive this.

YOUR RIGHT I ASK THAT MYSELF EVRYDAY. I guess only time will tell how my daughter will handle so i feel like if i have to for her?

This is your brain on drugs

THAT WAS COOL LIKED IT BUT I HOPE YOUR NOT SAYING I DO DRUGS TO. LET ME MAKE THIS CLEAR TO EVERYONE THAT JUST BECAUSE HE DID I DO BECAUSE I DONT I MEAN I COULD ONLY IMAGINE WHAT MY POOR CHILD WOULD HAVE TO LIVE LIFE LIKE IF SHE HAD A MOTHER WHO WAS A DRUG ADDICT

I am not one to get on a soap box, but this really got me pissed off. This all started with her calling the process worthless, its not, IT WORKED!! It kept an undesirable out for three years. It is also obvious that he is an illegal alien as well as his parents. If I am wrong, then I appologize. So, illegal alien, probably him and his parents never paid taxes, used our over-exhausted system, uses drugs and everyone here thinks we should accept it, because its just a mistake and I should be tolerant. Dont think so. This country has a long list of people who want to enter here and be law abiding, taxing paying citizens. But we have many, like above who waste the quota space. The process worked, and she called it worthless????? I challenge her to post a forum and see how many LEGAL AMERICANS would support this or support a person who has no regard for the laws and proper immigration laws to allow them another chance and calls our system worthless.

OK - agreed. She called the system worthless when in fact it did exactly what it was supposed to do. No one said his situation should be accepted or even tolerated. But this was not a discussion about illegal aliens in the US. It was a request for assistance regarding the next steps to make things right.

Ok - agreed Like I said, I dont usually get on a soap box, but our system is not perfect, and when it does right, we should appreciate it, especially Americans. Not call it worthless. And it also appears he is out of the country now because he and his family were here illegally. Again system worked. We know in America, there is a huge tax burden on us Americans because of illegal aliens as well as issues with drug issues. This person is both. So system worked, punishment is just, except my personal oppinion, dont let them ever enter. MY AMERICAN RIGHT TO EXPRESS THIS.

She is in Mexico. Make a life there since neither show any respect for our laws and if broken by stating our laws are worthless, and me, the American should be tolerant? Dont think so. I also support the IMBRA law. It protects woman from other countries entering into an abusive relationship. Maybe if the guy only beat upon one or two woman in his early 20's, we can say he was just childish and should forgive and tolerate and call the system we have as worthless and give him another chance?

WHAT ARE YOU TALKING ABOUT WHOS IN MEXICO AND WHO SAID IM MEXICAN ANY WAY WHAT ABOUT YOU HOW COME YOU DIDNT STAY AND LIVE WHERE EVER YOUR WIFE IS FROM, HOW COME YOU BROUGHT HER HERE AND IF THERES SO MUCH YOU DONT LIKE HERE WHY ARE YOU HERE ANYWAY. I'D HAVE TO BE CRAZY TO TAKE MY CHILD AND LEAVE WHERE SHE COULDN'T RECEIVE PROPER TREATMENT IF SHE GOT SICK. I DONT EVEN SEE HOW YOU MAKE SUCH ASSUMPTIONS. IM AN AMERICAN CITIZEN JUST LIKE YOU AND IVE PAID AND IM PAYING MY DUES INTO THE SYSTEM SOMEBODY GIVE YOU AN EMMY FOR THE TAXES THAT YOU PAY

he was here illegally in US since 7 yrs old

Do you really believe that at age 7 HE was the one who made the choice to come to the US illegally? In fact, illegal presence in the US before the age of 18 holds NO ban. USCIS does not hold children responsible for the actions of their parents

USCIS catches him, sends sends him back to Mexico. since he got deported

NOWHERE did the OP say that he was caught and sent back or deported. He left on his own. . . you might consider giving him an ounce of credit for that.

So working here illegally as well

Obviously this was the case. But the US government forgives illegal work when married to a USC so it's not exactly the biggest issue in this case.

when his time is up for banning him from coming here, hopefully by then he has grown up and realized there are laws to follow in this country,

That's why she posted in the first place -- she is trying to plan appropriately for the next steps when his ban is up.

I am not one to get on a soap box, but this really got me pissed off. This all started with her calling the process worthless, its not, IT WORKED!! It kept an undesirable out for three years. It is also obvious that he is an illegal alien as well as his parents. If I am wrong, then I appologize. So, illegal alien, probably him and his parents never paid taxes, used our over-exhausted system, uses drugs and everyone here thinks we should accept it, because its just a mistake and I should be tolerant. Dont think so. This country has a long list of people who want to enter here and be law abiding, taxing paying citizens. But we have many, like above who waste the quota space. The process worked, and she called it worthless????? I challenge her to post a forum and see how many LEGAL AMERICANS would support this or support a person who has no regard for the laws and proper immigration laws to allow them another chance and calls our system worthless.

THE WORTHLESS PART WAS THE TIME AND MONEY I INVESTED. I SHOULD'VE THOUGHT TWICE. IF THE PROCESS CAN WORK FOR OTHER PEOPLE OBVIOUSLY ITS NOT WORTHLESS BUT ON MY FAVOR IT WAS BECAUSE IT CAME BACK TO BITE ME. I AGREE WITH SOME OF YOUR VIEWS BUT I WASNT ASKING FOR YOUR OPIONION ON ILLEGAL IMMIGRATION EITHER AND DONT MAKE ME HAVE TO DEFEND WHAT IM SAYING EITHER BECAUSE IN A WAY IT DEFENDS HIM AND HE DOESN'T DESERVE IT.

LIKE I SAID MY NUMBER ONE CONCERN IS MY BABY MISSING HER DADDY!

thank you so much for your reply, how do i find Heina, well i'll figure it out im new at this so im still learning whats where. I know I will need to file the waiver but im wondering what the chances of it being denied are. The immigration officer had told him he should be fine as long as he comes back clean but who knows how truthful those immigration officers are. Im reluctant to get a lawyer because the lawyers around here are hungry coyottes. I dont trust any of them out here because there aren't any with good reputations.

Use the advanced search feature to locate Heina by name and send her a private message.

I would at least go to Attorney Laurel Scott's free chat on www.visacentral.net - Wednesdays at 11 am central time. She is very well respected and you need legal advice in your situation.

If you hardship letter is strong with documentation, your waiver will be approved. But that would be after the 3 year ban.

Good luck.

THANK YOU SO MUCH

Hello Roxy!

Welcome to VJ!

Be positive, everything will be ok then. Love will find the way..

Have a nice day!

THANKS !

I'm more in the writing mood when I'm heartbroken...it's therapuetic. After taking a poetry class in college, I found out that most poets were tormented souls... Sylvia Plath was brilliant as she was troubled.

This one I wrote a few years ago after my last long term relationship ended...I was in a real funk over that one.

With The Sun On My Back

Goodbye my wayward fisher of man,

goodbye to my sun,

I'm walking back now

retracing footsteps

leaving other ones behind,

Shipwrecked, deserted, and empty in thought

The afternoon blows a chill of terror across my back,

screaming silently but urgently

The time is now!

When every greeting veils another goodbye,

And that look you have

burned into memory as deep as the trouble you left,

Faint cries from lonely children sing to me

inside the dark center of your eyes

betraying that generous smile,

But i'll go along and greet you

with hope -

The sweetest charade

diguising our forgotten familiar dance,

God! how he made you beautiful!

And,

for a moment I thought I reached you,

For a flickering moment

and then you were gone,

They say each lashing is a lessoned learned,

Well I say

I'm enlightened enough to know

no amount of lashings that I endure

will bring you any closer

when your eyes are fixed at chasing,

always chasing after the moon,

I only need to touch the lines you left

to know you steered this ship to a desolate place

searching for some bounty on the moon,

Tell me fisher of man,

did you finally catch the moon?

'cause I haven't gazed up into a night-time sky in awhile.

- Steven

THATS AWESOME. i write to when I feel distrubed i dont think any of mine are as good as yours.

Hello eveyone im just new in this site. I read some of the topic here and im sure its really help alot to get some idea and things what to do during the process of the visa..Well i have some problem year 2005 me and my husband met one of the website dating that time im having vaction here in Philippines i supposed to be back to abroad for worked but He really dont want me to go back there and he promise me that he will come here to marry me. I dont know about the marriage law cos i've neverbeen to anyone so we make a fast and bad desicion we got married 2005 while his divorced papers is not yet finalized.. In year 2006 we got married again and make the things right and our second marriage certicate my husband used for petitioning me...My question if incase the 1st marriage comes out during the interview it is possible that i can get denie? Please i need some advice in this matter thank you very much in advance....

are you for REal?

I want to take the righteous extreme on this because I feel so strongly about this. I have met a couple of woman that are dating friends of mine from other countries. They married an american to get their VISA's here and now they live seperated from them because it was an arranged marriage for purpose of VISA. This bothers me. If you want to enter my country, then follow the rules. Its a selfish act to smoke, not a childish act. As well it is illegal! Personally, I show no sympathy to what happened, there are too many people who are willing to follow laws and be good citizens to enter our country, and cannot because of long waits or restrictions. Also we have enough drug problems in america let alone to introduce a possible new one or a person who feels they are above the laws. And if he is here illegally, I hope he gets caught and shipped back. My taxes should support legal, law following people.

You are of course entitled to your opinion. But the OP was asking for information regarding what will happen in their quest to get him legal going forward. At least she has tried to do the right thing - she filed the petition, he went to the interview, he was denied due to drug use, and would have been denied due to his illegal presence. She is now looking for help on the next steps on how to make things right. He is in Mexico - he's not in the US illegally. And nothing she posted implies it was an arranged marriage or someone married to an American trying to get a visa - this is a totally different situation.

Your oppinion, the illegal marriage is just another scenerio of abuse to immigrate to US. She tried, of course, dont blame, but the process did exactly as its suppose, keep out the undesirables.

your so narrow minded and immature. It's to bad that you weren't taught tolerance. the fact that people tolerate each other differences is what makes this country great

Drug use is grounds for denial:

Classes of Aliens Ineligible for Visas or Admission.-Except as otherwise provided in this Act, aliens who are inadmissible under the following paragraphs are ineligible to receive visas and ineligible to be admitted to the United States:

(iv) who is determined (in accordance with regulations prescribed by the Secretary of Health and Human Services) to be a drug abuser or addict, is inadmissible.

It appears you would still need the waiver after the three years due to his illegal presence in the US after the age of 18 which is a ten year ban (based on more than 365 days of illegal presence). It's impossible to know if this will still be necessary or how long processing will take - a lot can change in the world of immigration in three years. (Last year 601 waiver approval was averaging 4 months in Ciudad Juarez, now it's 10 months, and they are trying to reduce it back to 3 months).

I would contact a lawyer to be sure you are clear on the next steps and the requirements of the consulate - I believe they require proof of rehab. after the three years have passed.

Also contact member Heina who is in similar situation at CDJ.

thank you so much for your reply, how do i find Heina, well i'll figure it out im new at this so im still learning whats where. I know I will need to file the waiver but im wondering what the chances of it being denied are. The immigration officer had told him he should be fine as long as he comes back clean but who knows how truthful those immigration officers are. Im reluctant to get a lawyer because the lawyers around here are hungry coyottes. I dont trust any of them out here because there aren't any with good reputations.

my husband came here when he was 7 he has resided here since then he never left the country. He is now 22 I filed the I 130 went through the whole worthless process he was rejected and got stuck in mexico. He was rejected for 3 years because they found marijuana in his system from the medical exam. he isnt addicted hes just stupid n childish he smoked it occasinally. i think it would have been maybe a year and half to 2 years if it hadn't been for that. DOES ANYBODY KNOW FOR SURE IF HE WILL GET MORE TIME even after he's done the 3 years. we went to mexico for the interview most people were getting about 1 to 2 years and sometimes less. the immigration officer told him that all i need to do is send form I-601 and then he can call and reschedule another interview after its been sent off but doesnt I - 601 have to be approved first before he can even be considered for another interview. somebody PLEASE ANSWER ME.

I want to take the righteous extreme on this because I feel so strongly about this. I have met a couple of woman that are dating friends of mine from other countries. They married an american to get their VISA's here and now they live seperated from them because it was an arranged marriage for purpose of VISA. This bothers me. If you want to enter my country, then follow the rules. Its a selfish act to smoke, not a childish act. As well it is illegal! Personally, I show no sympathy to what happened, there are too many people who are willing to follow laws and be good citizens to enter our country, and cannot because of long waits or restrictions. Also we have enough drug problems in america let alone to introduce a possible new one or a person who feels they are above the laws. And if he is here illegally, I hope he gets caught and shipped back. My taxes should support legal, law following people.

that was rather bold of you and shows a lack of empathy, i feel sorry for you. I agree with you all the way on your feelings of it being selfish your right it's selfish not childish because he's a 22 year boy( doesn't believe he's grown) he's a grown man and should no better. I think its rather prejudice and bias of you to make your comments without knowing facts. What about the people who are born here and are murders and rapist, does it justify it because their americans by birth. the only thing about this whole thing that hurts me is that theirs a three year old little girl who asks where her daddy is. He may not have been the nicest person to me but he was a good father to her and she was crazy about her daddy. We didn't get married for his visa I married him out of love and so that hopefully he will be the one bringing the bread to the plate rather than it always being me because i am to god damn tired. when i met him I was a foolish 15 year old girl i was looking to finish high school not looking this much into the future. Sometimes your heart thinks for you ( im guilty of that ) but not marrying for a visa why do it for free when you can make money out of it.

Any others interested in joining our CDJ club feel free to post anything here. I'm thinking about karakmitchell, luvinmb, anyone else out there?

I am ya'll sound like cool people my husband is from oaxaca mexico, how do i join?

hi roxy.

hang in there. everything will be fine. maybe u can go for a visit soon until everything works itself out.

donna

thank you donna i was glad to see your reply it made my day end on a good note

my husband came here when he was 7 he has resided here since then he never left the country. He is now 22 I filed the I 130 went through the whole worthless process he was rejected and got stuck in mexico. He was rejected for 3 years because they found marijuana in his system from the medical exam. he isnt addicted hes just stupid n childish he smoked it occasinally. i think it would have been maybe a year and half to 2 years if it hadn't been for that. DOES ANYBODY KNOW FOR SURE IF HE WILL GET MORE TIME even after he's done the 3 years. we went to mexico for the interview most people were getting about 1 to 2 years and sometimes less. the immigration officer told him that all i need to do is send form I-601 and then he can call and reschedule another interview after its been sent off but doesnt I - 601 have to be approved first before he can even be considered for another interview. somebody PLEASE ANSWER ME.

I can't even remember what happened when all i remember is

we married march 23 2005 were were a couple for about 8 years and married one

around april/2005 sent I 130 to uscis

7/2005 petition approved

received package from nvc sent it off

package forwarded to juarz mexico

8/2006 notified of final interview

12/6/2006 traveled to mexico for interview denied and banned for 3 yrs

denied because he had been here illegal for about 12 years and also because he smoked weed occassionally

after september 2009 he can return after i file the I-601

Hello, I am new here. My fiance and I are just getting ready to send off our K-1 petition. He is from the Netherlands and we are hoping things will go smoothly. We have both been looking at your site and have found so much useful information! I have started a timeline and will be sure to keep it up to day.

Wish us luck please.

Elena

I wish you and your fiance luck and i hope everything goes smoothly i'll pray for you

My name is roxy my husband is from mexico. We have known each other for about 10 years. We were couple for about 8 and then married about 1 year. I filed the I-130 went through this whole thing and he got stuck in mexico. he isnt the nicest person in the world but still i love him and miss him very much. I have a 3 three year old daughter who asks where her daddy is i almost break down in tears when she asks. I just tell her that our president is punishing us. somebody please send me something back

lonely sad roxy in jersey