CharlieAndFernand

Hello,

My i129 case was recently approved. However I also found out my fiancé was not being honest with me about many things. So I sent a letter to the NVC asking to withdraw the petition. However I received an email saying that they had sent my case to the embassy in Bogota and the day letter I received a letter in the mail asking for more information. At this point I called them asking what I should do and they said that I now had to deal with the embassy in Colombia since they no longer had my case on hand. I then called the embassy in Bogota to ask what they need and where to send it. The 3 times I tried to call to get a direct answer or another number they directed me to an email which they said is the only way I could contact the immigrant visa department of the embassy. I sent an email about 2 weeks ago and another today and have not received any response as to how I should proceed. Between the infidelity and the many other lies I am afraid that I do not know the person I thought I did. I worry she may have only used me for the paperwork and am wondering: Is it possible for her to go through in the process without my involvement? If I don't cancel or withdraw will it hurt her chances for future immigration cases (if she meets someone new or her mother puts in a petition for her)? do I even need to cancel it since we never began the actual k-1 visa petition as I understand we only had the i129 approved aren't they different. If anyone has any information it would be greatly appreciated especially if you know what I need to withdraw the case. I would really like to cancel it because I don't want to do her any harm or have her be able to do me any.

Thanks,

Charlie

My fiancé and I met on Meetme.com and in our letters describing our meeting in person we both described our relationship and both her and my letters started with "I met... on a dating site". So I'm sure we will be receiving an RFE . However we both closed our accounts and don't have any of our correspondence from there because we only spoke shortly before moving on to facebook. We didn't start dating until months of being friends via Facebook/Whatsapp. If we get an RFE what should I do to respond. Are the TOS for Meetme enough? Should I use Facebooks TOS? Should I give notarized personal letter saying we did not meet on an imb? Any advice would help. Thanks.