paul_ryan

12 minutes ago, kris&me said:

not knowing your state some of this may not apply but the baby is eligle for WICK as all babies are and that is not considered public  charge / the mother can get vouchers for Milk and cheese and eggs , etc

if she is living with another person,  his income must be taken into account for any assistance she gets and probably not eligle unless he is complete deadbeat and not working 

some states you need to be seperated a year before a divorce is final (like NY State) your lawyer knows the law for your state

Do the DNA and prove child not yours

don't worry so much when she says she will not sign/ she moved out (prove that) and the lawyer will work on the rest 

sorry it happened to you

She sent me the DNA result that she did between child and her child’s father. The paperwork shows clearly they are son and father. They will not marry together as far as I know (99% confidence interval).  I am living in Orgeon and she is in Florida. It is frustrated that she came here under my sponsor and now came back to ask for money where she cheated. It is my fault to choose the wrong person to marry. 

27 minutes ago, CEE53147 said:

If you were married when the baby was born, the child is assumed too be yours, and you are responsible for child support.  If this is the case, be sure your divorce attorney takes proper step to disestablish you as the father.

This is correct that baby was born when we were married. My lawyer is working to remove my name as her son’s father on Birth certificate.

Just now, Roel said:

You don't give her any money. 

You only need to pay money to the government if she starts using benefits and become a public charge. 

The way she sounds like she will try everything to make me paying that. What is the limit that government will allow her to apply for. I cant just pay whatever she asks the government for. 

Hello everyone,

I ran into the situation that I never thought it would happen to me. I am USC who filed I-129F K1 visa for my fiance back 2013.  She came to US in 2014 and live with me since then.  She cheated and have a baby with that person. She left the house already with her greencard. I talked to her that I am filing divorce right now so she will expect to receive the paperwork really soon and she needs to make the decision whether she signs it. She replied back to me that she will not sign it and she will ask for support due to I signed I-864. I do know that I have to support until she becomes USC or 40 credits of working. Here is the story of financial from beginning to now:

She was self employment for 2 years and she made just about 12-14K per year. I was student at the time and worked 20 hours per week.  She and I filed income tax for that 2 years around 40k per each year. I got the full time job last year and I filed income tax with her where she did not work due to baby. Hence, I filed 3 years income tax with her.

 —Is any of the working credits that she and I stayed together 3 years contributing to 40 credits work requirement and how do  I know how many years left that I need to support her?

—How much will I support her financial per year? is it 125% proverty line or depending the money that I make ( I make a quite good number)? Do I need to support her son as well as she now has two people in her household (her son(not my son) and herself)?

I do know that I am not asking legal advices here but I just want to ask whether someone who went through this situation and can give me the feedbacks. Thanks