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    Documents with husband s name?

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    Hello everybody,

    It has been a long time I don't post here. Please apollogise my abscense.

    I have read the guides of VJ, but I still have some questions.

    This week I am going to send my Remove of condititions and as I looked for my evidences I couldnt find any other bill with my name, except the tax return and the car s insurance (which both have our names).

    The other bills have only my husband s name (I have fought during these two years with him and his mother about to have my name on the bills which I pay them with my work and job.

    Now the only thing I really can count for is the letter that my husband s friend will sign and holidays cards.

    I have only 3 friends that they don`t know my husband, because I dont hang out with them for lack of time and money.

    What should I do then? What should I send?

    Sicerely, Mona Lisa

    Renew SSN or will it renew automatically?

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    Hi everybody,

    I got my EAD and my SSN while I was pending in my AOS, after my AOS was aproved I received a residential card that expire 2 years from the date I received it.

    My question is Do I need to renew my SSC? or will it renew automatically?

    If I was with my EAD card it would expire in april 2009, then if I need to renew my ssc I need to do this month.

    Thank you for your time.

    Is my husband taking advantage of me?

    in Off Topic

    Posted

    Thank you all,

    The problem is my mother in law is responsable to pay our bills, it's her that makes grocery, it's her that goes to the bank, she has the acess all my husband bank account. I just have a bank card that it isnot authorized yet, i dont have drive license yet. I feel so miserable. I have told him to pay me just 5 dollars a day, he told that to her and she made a "desdem" smile and it NEVER HAPPENED. I feel so miserable with this situation: another person take care about our bills. What Should I do?

    Mona Lisa

    Is my husband taking advantage of me?

    in Off Topic

    Posted · Edited by Mona Lisa

    Hi everybody,

    I love my husband soo much, but this situation has cold our married after the fight with his mother.

    I am married 2 years and I have been here 1 year and few months, I dont have job yet but as my husband is a owner of a little company I have been working with him since I arrived here. After some months I realized that his mother (the secretary) was hidding some bills of me, I didnt know how many bills we had and I asked and asked her several time, she said everything was ok and he always said that everything was ok and she did agree with what he said. I have worked so hard and never saw the money, I have shame to ask for money to my husband to buy essential things for woman, I have working soo hard even in our aniverssary, sundays and holydays, I was working without know what I was working for and one day I got sooooo furious I fougth with her and let the thing very clear: I wanted to see every bill that arrived at home. So time past and I discovered that his bill is $50 thousand dollares and I realized that was her bad administration that let us deeper in bills and to get more drastic, today I called to the phone company to add my name in the bill and guess: the woman told there was two names there are HER NAME and his name, then I acessed anothers counts and the big surprise every bills are in his name and Her F*&^K name together.

    She has a daughter that is not married yet and they keep telling her that if her and her boyfriend split up, everthing that she worked and paid for will pertence to her boyfriend because everything is in his name. With this example I mirror myself.

    What Should I do with this situation? Talk with Him? Talk with her about this? Please some advice.

    Mona Lisa

    Primeiro Emprego

    in Mexico, Latin & South America

    Posted

    HI,

    Acho que nao estou sozinha nesta busca! Estou aqui ha um ano e nao tenho emprego ainda, no Brazil eu fui professora por 5 anos e nunca precisei dirigir, quando cheguei aqui percebi que sem carro voce nao vai a lugar nenhum. Este mes estou batalhando para conseguir minha licensa ( o uso do esse em licenSa 'e proposital porque meu laptop nao tem opcoes para portugues- sooo bad) de motorista, espero que como todos, eu consiga um emprego. Boa sorte a todos.

    Sincerely,

    Mona Lisa

    Permanent Resident Card: Is it a error? or not?

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted · Edited by Mona Lisa

    :wacko: Hi, everybody:

    I received my Permanent Resident Card yesterday, I have noticed that below my picture my name lacks a letter like this:

    Carvalho Smith, Mona Lis

    On the letter they sent to me my name is wrong too, it shows like this:

    Carvalho Smith, Mon

    I dont know if this is a error or it s because my name is lengthy and they didn t have space to write this.

    What do I do? Send the card back?

    And what I do with my EAD Card? send after I receive the card with my name right?

    Please answer me, I need a answer before I aply for a job today in the evening.

    :blink:

    Thank you for your time

    Typographical Error on Greencard

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    I received my Permanent Resident Card yesterday, I have notice that below my picture my name lacks a letter like this:

    Carvalho Smith, Mona Lis

    On the letter they sent to me my name is wrong too, it shows like this:

    Carvalho Smith, Mon

    I dont know if this is a error or it s because my name is lengthy and they didn t have space to write this.

    What do I do? Send the card back?

    And what I do with my EAD Card? send after I receive the card with my name right?

    Please answer me, I need a answer before I aply for a job today in the evening.

    Thank you

    10 april Interview: aproved or denied?

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    Helloo everybody,

    I had my interview in 10 april, the officer took my I-94 and said in 3 or 8 months we ll receive a card. Before she said this we didnt have a paper of his tax return (401K) which she requested. And we spend about 10 minutes more in that room.

    The enterview: she made us some questions, we answered all of them (we trained at home)in the right way, she asked me if I was working, I said "no", she took my passport, work card, ssn, I-94 and the last tax return to make copies. She just return the work card, passport, ssn and the tax and said when I receive a letter it is to send my work card in the address she gave us.

    At the end she said our interview WILL BE APROVED, it doesnt mean " it is aproved". I dont know really if we are aproved or not.

    How could we know if it is aproved or not?

    Sincerely, Mona Lisa

    Omnia Vincit Ano

    in Off Topic

    Posted

    Omnia Vincit Ano (o Amor Vence Tudo)

    I pray every day.

    I chose to marry with my soulmate. I chose to promise with myself and with my husband in good and bad days. I left my Unforgettable family, my friends, my single life, my job and my country to live my married life, and since I made this choice Lord, very things changed. I researched. Without experience to live as married, I came to a country the most people use credit card instead of installments, the healthy insurance is for those who work 40 hours a week and in few companies 20 hours weekly. I came to a state is coldest than the last I lived and my first winter is being the worse of decade. I came without work authorization, a dime in the pocket and the fright. I trusted.

    I saw the leaves fall and the money short. I saw my husband disappointed with himself because he couldn’t pay the bills in time. I couldn’t crumble. I said “yes” when I wanted to say “no” about to leave the English course to save money and help my husband with bills. I cried.

    I saw the snow for the first time in my life. I believed. When the Christmas season came my immigration process was 2 times more expensive and we didn’t have a dollar in the jar. I saw my husband sad because he hadn’t money to purchase the AOS to me. I cried. I cried again when I felt the “Cultural Shock”. And I heard “I have never been in this situation before!.” I heard January and February were coming and the things could be harder than it was. I saw my husband get sick and shake of fever and I tried to pretend that was nothing, at the same moment I remembered I was not more single. I kept my faith. I remembered I was promised with myself to take care of who I love and that I had only my lovely husband as he had only me. I was very much diligent as I am yet. I learned. I learned My Lord and I continue learning.

    I confess Lord, I have never been soo happy before as I am now. In those days I prayed and I have seen all miracles happened.

    In all those and these moments Lord, I trusted and trust in You.

    I acknowledge all sadness is erased and it rests only the LOVE.

    I pray every day to thank You, Lord.

    Thank you all were sent by God and those He didn’t send.

    “É preciso correr riscos, dizia ele. Só entendemos direito o milagre da vida quando deixamos que o inesperado aconteça.

    Todos os dias Deus nos dá - junto com o sol – um momento em que é possivel mudar tudo que nos deixa infelizes.

    Todos os dias procuramos fingir que não percebemos este momento, que ele não existe, que hoje é igual à ontem e será igual à amanhã . Mas quem presta atenção ao seu dia, descobre o intante mágico. Ele pode estar escondido na hora em que enfiamos a chave na porta pela manhã, no instante de silêncio logo após o jantar, nas mil e uma coisas que nos parecem iguais. Este momento existe – um momento em que toda força das estrelas passa por nós, e nos permite fazer milagres.

    A felicidade às vezes e uma benção – mas geralmente é uma conquista. O instante mágico do dia nos ajuda a mudar, nos faz ir em busca de nossos sonhos. Vamos sofrer, vamos ter momentos dificeis, vamos enfrentar muitas desilusões – mas tudo é passageiro e não deixa marcas. E no futuro, podemos olhar para trás com orgulho e fé.

    Pobre de quem teve medo de correr riscos. Porque ele talvez não se decepcione nunca, nem tenha desilusões, nem sofra como aqueles que tem um sonho a seguir. Mas quando olhar para trás – porque sempre olhamos para trás - vai escutar seu coração dizendo: O que fizeste com o milagre que Deus semeou por teus dias? O que fizeste com o talento que teu Deus te confiou? Enterraste fundo numa cova, porque tinhas medo de perdê-los. Então esta é tua herança: a certeza de que desperdiçaste tua vida.

    Pobre de quem ouvir estas palavras. Porque então acreditará em milagres. Mas os instantes mágicos da vida já terão passado”.

    CR-1 Chicago as point of entry...how did it go?

    in IR-1 / CR-1 Spouse Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted · Edited by Mona Lisa

    I entered in O`Hare international airport in june past. There are two lines: one for resident and another for turists, students, workes. She has to take the resident line. I remember I entered in turist line and my sister in law entered in resident line, there she asked what could be the right line for me ( the line was long, it explain she arrived on the cabine first), then I moved to another line and when I arrived on the cabine, he asked my passport, asked how many years i was married, the adress I was going and he asked me the brown envelope, after that he gave me the stamp and put a card inside my passport, after that I went to take my baggage, after there were two security guard, and they asked about one paper I had completed inside the plane, he made me few questions and one that I coudnt forget: " what was my propose to be there" I answered "I came to live with my husband" and then he left me go.

    Good luck for you two

    How many days I have to send back a RFE?

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted · Edited by Mona Lisa

    Hi everybody,

    We will have our second aniversary in July 20. I have noticed that some cases took just 4 months to have the AOS interview aproved, in my case I sent our AOS in december and we received the NOA in January. If it take about 4 months problably we will receive the 2 years card and not 10 years and we will lose money aplying for lifting condition, then we would like to know if us received a RFE how many days we have to send it back without has the case abandoned or denied?

    Please answer me, because I think we need one, If yes pray for us get a RFE.

    Thank you all

    Good Luck for all us

    What is the correct adress to send the AOS?

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted

    Hi all,

    I couldnt send my AOS package because I m confused with the adress. I read the instructions but I didnt understand. Please someone could give me the rigth information, please?

    I live in Chicago, and I am K3 visa, I will adjust my status but those adress in the instructions made me get lost. Please could you write the correct adress??

    thank you soo much

    POE - What Can it happen there?

    in Mexico, Latin & South America

    Posted

    Hi all,

    I dont know what is the correct form to answer this question on the POE:

    "What is the propose of your trip?"

    I am going to visit my husband?!! Can I answer this? or I can answer "I am immigrating to live with my husband"?

    Other question is about my tickets: one ticket to go and other to back ( probably I wont use the back ticket) if they ask me about this what can I answer? and the date to back will be in my I-94? if yes, Will I have problem in the future with AOS or EAD?

    Thank you so much

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