Girl take it from someone who is first of all african( from Ghana) and engaged to a man living in Ghana sweetie u have to bcareful!!!...I know my African people they willdo anything to get to America. They sweet talk u for YEARS soon as thier foot touches American soil the gig is all up!!!!!! Thats why i got a prenup with my fiancee. I love him dearly but i will NEVER TRUST HIM FULLY. Start saving ur money and planning to pick up the peices of ur life. U are focusing too much on him, do things for urself, the gym a new hair do ANYTHING!!!! i know how much money we give to our forigen partners and the stress of immigration. But u come first. The bible says love ur neighbor as urself not more than urself. Believe me i understand, i also have given way too much, but i woke up. I decided to fall more in love with me than with him. And he knows it. Stay strong sis and focus on u. I can never tell another to leave thier marriage, but in the words of Rupaul "IF YOU CANT LOVE URSELF HOW IN THE HELL ARE U GONNA LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE....CAN I GET AN AMEN?!!!!" i will be praying for sister.
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Girl take it from someone who is first of all african( from Ghana) and engaged to a man living in Ghana sweetie u have to bcareful!!!...I know my African people they willdo anything to get to America. They sweet talk u for YEARS soon as thier foot touches American soil the gig is all up!!!!!! Thats why i got a prenup with my fiancee. I love him dearly but i will NEVER TRUST HIM FULLY. Start saving ur money and planning to pick up the peices of ur life. U are focusing too much on him, do things for urself, the gym a new hair do ANYTHING!!!! i know how much money we give to our forigen partners and the stress of immigration. But u come first. The bible says love ur neighbor as urself not more than urself. Believe me i understand, i also have given way too much, but i woke up. I decided to fall more in love with me than with him. And he knows it. Stay strong sis and focus on u. I can never tell another to leave thier marriage, but in the words of Rupaul "IF YOU CANT LOVE URSELF HOW IN THE HELL ARE U GONNA LOVE SOMEBODY ELSE....CAN I GET AN AMEN?!!!!" i will be praying for sister.