I'm the UK citizen (Robert), my wife (Jessica) is the US citizen:
Met online July 1996
Met in the US in person April 1997
Jess came back to the UK with me for a 5 month vacation
Jess returned to the US early October 1997
Started the immigration process for Jess to live in the UK
Jess returned to the UK January 1998 and we got engaged.
We married in May 1998
Jess got her permanent residency status in June 1999
Had our first child December 1999
November 2000 had 3 week vacation in the US
Second child May 2003
April 2004 had 4 week vacation in the US
Third child November 2004
April 2006 had a 4 week vacation in the US
Our plans to emmigrate are still a way off. We are aiming for August 2009 as the youngest of my first 3 children will then be 18. I always said I would never leave my other 3 children until they were adults.