me_4_musa

just curious - if you’re on public assistance why would you get out and get your own home knowing your husband is arriving soon and knowing he probably will not work immediately? I would imagine that most people would have their ducks in order before considering bringing a spouse.

i know, right? some people are rather clueless. that pass and the letter aren't willy wonka's golden bloody ticket.

it's the fairy dust sprinkled on vj remember - everything is gonna be just perfect and a-ok.

MQ really i wish your hubby the best I hope they let him get by.

now i can't get willy wonka's 'i've gotta a golden ticket' song out of my head. i watch the willy wonka movie (gene wilder) anytime it's on.

ok...go ahead report me now since i'm not posting hearts and rainbows.

Since your husband has the pass he needs to cross the border and the interview letter, that will

show he has business to do so they will let him cross.

are you sure about that? israeli authorities could care less if you have an interview at the consulate with letter in hand. even if one has permission from the DCO there is no guarantee that they will allow him to cross.

Hi everyone my husband had his interview tommarow and he has everything ready but his interview is in Palestine in the kudes he has his pass to go threw but there is some fighting and stuff between the Arabs and the Jews the now and there not letting just anyone go in. My question is because he was granted the pass and had the interview letter he should be aloud to enter correct? And if not and he is forced to miss the intervew then what happens.

hope for the best MQ. if your husband is not allowed to pass the consulate will reschedule - unfortunately it won't be until the following month (i know bummer ). Jerusalem consulate hears this often but it's out of their hands and all they can do is reschedule. happened to us several times. good luck!

Awww, this is just like the old days. I'm getting all nostalgic and teary-eyed. *Sniff*

i had to take a look at the date to make sure i was reading 2010 not 2006!

With the links you have previously had in your signature that called the Prophet, salallahu alaihi wa salam, a pedophile and promoted people leaving Islam, it does not surprise me that you do not find her views peculiar.

Leila Ahmed is a professor; she is not a scholar of Qur'an, hadith or fiqh. What actual scholars do you know who share her views?

i'm not MEAN-ized but inshalla one day I will be. i guess the first thing i need to do is cut down on the cold beers and martini's - if not i may not be able to fit into my cut-off shorts and mini summer dresses this spring…..inshallah.

I think it has something to do with post being from last week.

got it. it was the first topic on the thread and didn't even pay attention to the date it was posted. thanks!

Its HUMP day, Wednesday by the Calendar.

Hope everyones 'middle of the week' has been a

good one so far.

If you have something to say....

Do it here....

We are all listening.

only thing i've got to ask is what does this mean, "Its HUMP day, Wednesday by the Calendar"?? my 2010 calendar shows today is MONDAY march 1st - not the 'middle of the week'.

someone please fill me in.

We are too! We’ve already discussed that Dads gonna hire him to work. Were going to by a huge downtown loft overlooking the skyline. Then by a couple of boats since we both love the water – were thinking somewhere in Miami. We’re going to hire a maid and a nanny (maybe a gourmet chef to come just 2-3 times during the week). I’m going be a stay at home mom. Hopefully when i’m not attending tennis lessons during the day I’ll have time for the spa. When he’s not working with Dad we’ll travel Martha’s Vineyard / Nantucket. Life is so peachy isn’t it.

*positive vibes ladies positive vibes*

That's great!!

sorry to interupt the 'positive vibes' about how one cleans there azz but i think that should be the least of ones worries. I'd be more concerened about what the poster originally mentioned.

if she has a solid gold plated temperature controlled bidet waiting for him...big whoop....there's alot of other bigger issues that will have to be dealt with.

To the poster - you mentioned you live in "hillbilly town" does your SO have an understanding of what that means?

Wish you both the best of luck

happy hump day alll!!!!!!! well i got a touch today yayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy!!!! so im paceing and waiting hehehe, hope all goes well and as soon as they make interview date for hubby im flying to egypt inshallah, i was going to go this week but we chnged our minds long ago, decided we would face interview together,and im plannin onstaying in egypt till they give him his visa inshallah,, just nervous and paceing,, have a great day everyone!!!!!!!!!!

That's exciting Aisha. It's getting closer. Take lots of pics/videos!!

I also dont see anything wrong with only positive vibes.........is that such an awful thing?

I never said that positive vibes were unacceptable and that it was such an ‘awful thing’.

If people want to get married or engaged quickly or slowly that is their own prerogative and they should not be bashed for it.

Tell that to the CO not me.

Sorry you're having to go through this. Take care.

I always appreciate the way you make people (myself included) think about red flags in a very serious light. They should be, and cherry coating them can actually really hurt someone in the long run. As much as I feel really badly for people that are posting bad stories out of Casa lately, I appreciate them and keep reading them, because it's going to help me prepare for what to expect when we get to the consular level.

i think i remember reading that you're moving to Morroco....thats exciting ....Wish you and your family only the best! Good luck!

Whatever you think makes the site a better place. I can put on my rose-colored glasses and join the choir. ....some where...over the rainbow...

Rainbows, unicorns, hope and faith ~~~~ what's so wrong with that.

Nancy it is a wonderful place for advice and support. Don't let a few dark clouds affect your day.

Jackie

I don’t think it would but according to Nancy - only positive vibes on VJ.

Nothing wrong with the vibes but why cherry coat obvious red flags. Yes this women is happy and loves her hubby but the CO doesn’t care about that.

If what I wrote is going to affect Nancy’s day (which I doubt it would I’m sure she has other things to worry about) then that’s a whole ‘nother story.

Vanessa do not worry yourself with other peoples comments. If you are happy and love your husband that is all that matters. I am here if you ever need to talk. And last I checked VJ was supposed to be a place to get positive and helpful advice about the immigration journey.

next time someone posts some red flag alerts or that they're on AP or unfortunately denied i'll make sure to post judy garlands "over the rainbow". That should send out the positive vibes and make them feel all warm and fuzzy inside.

That is why in 3 years and a half I have traveled 10 times, and on my 9th time is when we decided to marry- and petition for him.

If I ever come to visit you will you please warn me about which pillow to avoid?

I'm saving it special just for you.

We have known each others since 2006-because as me-4-musa said....

"""Getting married on the first trip and only spending 2 weeks with him. No way in hell I could do that. What’s the rush?! If he really loves you he’s gonna wait for you he’s not going anywhere."""

That is why in 3 years and a half I have traveled 10 times, and on my 9th time is when we decided to marry- and petition for him.

Who said I was referring to you- where in my post did I say I was referring to you???

It's obvious who I was pointing out my response to.

msheesha you're the one that who brought up that you didn't understand those that troll forums to question and criticize people's choices when you do the same exact thing yourself regardless if it's the way someone types or not.

what about those of us who have our husbands here and still do that every day?

you're funny girlie!

yr so right about that! the non-pitifully self righteous thing to do would have been to just say, "omg, mine's the same way! it must be cultural for these men! it's sooo mena to have a 'strict' husband who likes to deny his wife normal interactions with other human beings while he's thousands of miles away."

my bad!

^^ yes and don't forget to include a rainbow (along with a tv guide):

I'll never understand women who troll public forums, chomping at the bit for the opportunity to question, criticize, and slam other women's choices in a pitifully self righteous manner. Isn't there anything more productive to do?

Oh you want to be the sweet little lamb now – you’ve also questioned and criticized people on VJ.

On another note, you should be asking the ones that are waiting for their loved ones to arrive if they have anything else more productive to do instead of spending their life farting on the same pillow cushion day after day and spending their life watching the telly. Try and understand that situation not us.

boy texting and IM has really butchered any kind of written communication.

is that what it was?

giving the benefit of the doubt

I jus don’t get sum of da stuff I read on here. Now I understand y ppl have left & don’t post here az much az they use2.

boy texting and IM has really butchered any kind of written communication.

is that what it was?