badbeatjackpot

iam suffering a lot with a woman that i married ,she is USC and we were married for a year now,we got divorced yesterday,i have a green card for two years ,the reason why we got divorced because she turned to be very nasty woman and she is always mean to me ,so i could not take it because iam a very nice person and we decided to get divorced,

my questions are, will i be able to recieve the green card for 10 years when this one expire ?because i have a lot of credits to pay in my counrty egypte and here and its gonna take a long time to pay, and if i cant do i have to hire a lawyer or somthing ?thanks,sorry but i could not take that woman she really hurt me a lot i could not take it iam emailing this and crying

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my ex entered out marriage in total bad faith...

i hope i can get her booted out of the country

what a joke

my attorney said that they are cracking down on these cases where the wife leaves. I dont know where my attorney gets this information, but I thought it was interesting. He said that he didnt think my former wife is going to get to stay in the country even though I am not going to pursue the issue.

does anyone know what the current income requirements are for the affadavit of support??

thank you

I am not a troll, but during my whole thread I dont think anyone answered my question or did they?

We have a joint petition filed... she is gone.... I need to report this dont I??

Im not trying to get her thrown out of the country even though i do think she was phony.. i dont want to waste emotional energy on it..

but I think i need to report this and remove my part of this petition to remove conditions...

I know she can re-file and I think they will let her stay...

Troll alert - its amazing how many "brand new members" with exactly the same (or reasonably similar) circumstances (or sob story, however you want to look at it) joined over the last three days. Its also interesting that apparently it's only women engaging in this "terrible behavior." Personally, I smell one angry, bitter rat...making up troll stories under several different names...why would this person post in "removal of conditions, anyway?"

you are right about all you say

I cant help it if God sent somebody to be my friend and that we may be making some future plans

of course im going to take care of the divorce and present troubles...

My present wife has been gone a long time.... in mind and heart... she only took her body away recently..

truthfully she was never with me anyways.... I know that... and thats why its so easy to move on

i was just her ticket to a green card.. pretty easy to get over that

and also it helps a lot because you recognize a genuine person because of some of the huge differences in the character and speech..

I started chatting with someone AFTER the wife left ok ???

and yes I would wait till the divorce is final..... duh

Hey, you gave no indication of what your current timeline or anything else was, only opened two threads at the same time, indicating two different courses of actions you were taking, apparently simultaneously...

Your first post seemed to indicate you and your ex- had JUST filed "lifting of conditions" and she had JUST left, while the other post seemed to indicate you were all ready to do a K-1 or K-3.

In fact, I was just hoping you'd clarify the whole thing for others who were also confused about what was going on with you.

Im trying to decide whether to marry my fiance in the Philippines or to bring her here on a k-1

Any thoughts from anyone on this????

my wife filed for removal of conditions, but this is based on her being married to me and living here also.

What should I do???

These two posts were filed within two hours of each other, and you give no indication of where you were in either process, so don't blame me if others see red flags in both your statements side by side...

some men grieve ....... I upgrade

I realize fully that some people feel the best thing to do when thrown is to get right back on the horse and ride, however, that being said...

You upgrade your burger-meal, you upgrade your automobile, you upgrade your software...

another relationship with another human being is usually not referred to as an "upgrade" and likely won't win you many points (nor sympathy) with many around here.

my wife filed for removal of conditions, but this is based on her being married to me and living here also. Should I contact immigration and let them know that the information on her application is no longer accurate. I am also going to be filing for divorce because i dont want unfinished business to haunt me later on. I would like to wrap it up as soon as is possible.

What should I do???

You might also want to look up the IMBRA regulations regarding multiple K-1s as well, since you haven't indicated if there were any previous "upgrades" as well...

And I still suggest you let the ink dry on your divorce decree before you announce someone else as your fiancee. I also don't know what the divorce laws are of the state you are living in, so you may find it takes time to finalize the divorce decree.

Other than that, I don't think you've been totally upfront with your entire situation(s).

I'll be the first one to say there's nothing wrong with hoping to find another relationship, however, as I said, and I speak from experience... I made sure the ink was dry on my divorce before I made any effort to spend time dialoging with anyone else... but that's just me, your mileage can and will vary...

-- Dan

yep

Well, it may not work out... Im going to take my time... I am just thinking about doing some things different this time.. I think it would be nice to marry in the Philippines in a church with her family present.

I think it would set a better tone for the marriage.. If both people dont make their vows to God as well as to each other, then in the end, maybe they dont have much. People dont like to believe in God nowdays, but some people do. I want to marry a lady who believes in God and also practices her faith. A promise to marry from someone like that has much more lasting value in my perspective.. but thats just me...

I believe that was one of the essential elements lacking in my previous marriage. God has always been there to help me in time of troubles, and I think he will help me again. I hope i have the good sense to stay with Him this time when times are good.

What is this, a return policy on brides? How... icky.

If it's figuring into your decision, according to the instructions on the I-129F, you'll be noted for filing a second petition for a K-1 or a K-3, so it's going to flag either way. Then USCIS will notify both you and your 'upgrade' that you've filed before.

Beyond that, you still have to prove an ongoing relationship either way, and you have to be free to marry your fiancé, which means you're going to have to let the ink dry on the divorce certificate.

some men grieve..... I upgrade

I have been looking at processing times, and what I looked at seemed to indicate that the K-3 visa is moving as fast as the k-1

Im trying to decide whether to marry my fiance in the Philippines or to bring her here on a k-1

We would prefer a marriage over there... even if it took an extra month or two for her to get here.

Any thoughts from anyone on this????

I started chatting with someone AFTER the wife left ok ???

and yes I would wait till the divorce is final..... duh

What's up with your other post ? You are wanting to petition another fiane before you

are even divorced ? You want to consider marrying already after your wife just left?

Clarify please ! If you had another fiance on the side it is no wonder that your current wife left.

Did you have several in case one won't work out or whaaaaat?????

I don't have the facts but your 2 posts are not making sense.

Omoba is referring to this thread in the other forum:

http://www.visajourney.com/forums/index.php?showtopic=33808

I have been looking at processing times, and what I looked at seemed to indicate that the K-3 visa is moving as fast as the k-1

Im trying to decide whether to marry my fiance in the Philippines or to bring her here on a k-1

We would prefer a marriage over there... even if it took an extra month or two for her to get here.

Any thoughts from anyone on this????

So color me confused as well, because the thread in this forum opens:

my wife filed for removal of conditions, but this is based on her being married to me and living here also. Should I contact immigration and let them know that the information on her application is no longer accurate. I am also going to be filing for divorce because i dont want unfinished business to haunt me later on. I would like to wrap it up as soon as is possible.

Her actions after leaving me lead me to believe that she wasnt sincere, but I am sure every husband would feel that way. She made no attempt to work it out.

What should I do???

Personally, I would recommend getting divorced before you file a K-1 for someone else, in fact, ethically and morally you might want to consider at least making sure the ink is dry on your divorce decree...

Ya think?? Sounds like you've got LOTS of unfinished business that is likely to haunt you...

-- Dan

some men grieve ....... I upgrade

my wife filed for removal of conditions, but this is based on her being married to me and living here also. Should I contact immigration and let them know that the information on her application is no longer accurate. I am also going to be filing for divorce because i dont want unfinished business to haunt me later on. I would like to wrap it up as soon as is possible.

Her actions after leaving me lead me to believe that she wasnt sincere, but I am sure every husband would feel that way. She made no attempt to work it out.

What should I do???

yeah i got to chatting with someone after the wife left... and I havent decided anything.. I was just kicking around the options.. and of course I would be divorced before I filed for a visa

I have been looking at processing times, and what I looked at seemed to indicate that the K-3 visa is moving as fast as the k-1

Im trying to decide whether to marry my fiance in the Philippines or to bring her here on a k-1

We would prefer a marriage over there... even if it took an extra month or two for her to get here.

Any thoughts from anyone on this????

We were together when she filed the application and she left afterwards...

so the application is now not correct...

Ask Purrsuede, he's the expert on this kind of thing.

So she remained in the marriage long enough to gain your endorsement on the I-751 (joint submission) and then promptly left?

That would describe it ... yes I was surprised that she wouldnt wait for it to go through, but I think she had been wanting to leave for so long, she couldnt stand it any more and took off.

We were together when she filed the application and she left afterwards...

so the application is now not correct...

Ask Purrsuede, he's the expert on this kind of thing.

my attorney told me that they are cracking down on these cases. I have no idea if she know what she is talking about or not. My wife left me after filing her I 171 and I am nervous because I am wondering if I should report this. The application is bogus as it stands now.. I dont want to get in any trouble... Im sure they will let her stay even though it is obvious to me from the way she has acted that she took me for a ride.

I will get right to the point here... my wife left me in May. Her 2-year will be up in February. Although I have been desperately trying to reconcile things and get her back, she says she is happy and has no desire to. Although everyone I have asked, including an immigration counselor, says I should just get the divorce and let her deal with it; I am reluctant to do so. Both because I would hate to see her get deported over something that could happen to anyone, and I still hope we can get back together someday.

So my question is, would it be wise to just stay separated, file the I-751 jointly with all the proof, and just be up-front in the interview? Or get the divorce and let her just file the waiver? It would be nice if we could just submit all the proof documents and not have to interview. We have a joint bank account, taxes for 2005, an apartment lease together, she's on my insurance, and car insurance. I could probably get some friends to sign affidavits, but I doubt my mother would she's pretty po'ed at her right now

I have been looking at processing times, and what I looked at seemed to indicate that the K-3 visa is moving as fast as the k-1

Im trying to decide whether to marry my fiance in the Philippines or to bring her here on a k-1

We would prefer a marriage over there... even if it took an extra month or two for her to get here.

Any thoughts from anyone on this????

my wife filed for removal of conditions, but this is based on her being married to me and living here also. Should I contact immigration and let them know that the information on her application is no longer accurate. I am also going to be filing for divorce because i dont want unfinished business to haunt me later on. I would like to wrap it up as soon as is possible.

Her actions after leaving me lead me to believe that she wasnt sincere, but I am sure every husband would feel that way. She made no attempt to work it out.

What should I do???