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    Ex's wife problem. What to do?Im lost

    in Asia: East and Pacific

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    Im facing a very difficult problem now and totally lost in this case. It has been more than a year Ive been taking care of my husband who is waiting on his disability now. Lately his middle son decided to move in and live with us which I have no problem and never open my mouth to complain to anyone about it and told my self that Im helping my husband out. Not yet just a few days after that his oldest son came and said that he wanted to live with us too because he got problem out at his nanny and she told him to leave. I said ok plus told my husband things need to work out because obviously I cant take care of 3 people and I am the only one who is working. Finally , yesterday I asked my husband in a very nice way that if he can call his ex and talk to her about the food stamp she got and she claimed their 3 kids. Cuz few weeks ago she said she was going to help to bring some food over for the kids so I dont have to buy food constantly. He turned around and got mad and said that " oh yea you know she will say no" ( cause she always keep the food stamp for her self and her boyfriends) . Ive done wrong too I know cause I packed all the groceries and drove around for a while then came home and thought that can scare him a little bit to sit him down and work things out. We havent talk for 2 days and today his ex shows up and said that I knew he got kids before we married. Yes I do know and not that I didnt take care of them. Everything they asked for I gave it all. She's expecting me to take care of the kids and take the oldest son everywhere he wants because I currently just purchased a new car I had to sold the other to keep up the bills. Im trying to save as much as I can because life is rough and my husband didnt go to work. She told him to leave me and come live with her and their kids. Before she left and kissed him and gave him a hug when I was there infront of them and not yet she told him that she loves him. What kind of ####### is this? I was so pissed and drove to my Thailand's friend for a while cause I didnt know what to do. When I got home I told his oldest son who is 18 years old to leave because I just cant stand it anymore and he smiled when he heard his mom told his dad to come and live with her in her place. The reason I cant stand because his oldest son is out of control. Stole my stuff and money before. Watched porn infront of me and asked me to look at it. Thats not the only problem but there's a long story behind about this kid. In a short perious of time my family had to sent almost $10,000 just to helped out and not for me . I go to work all day and seem never home. I provided them everything they want especially my husband but he seems never think about it. Even when Im sick I still have to go to work and he never ask how'd I feel. He said that I ran his son away and its over between us. His ex is using drugs and been in jail so many times and she knows that my husband gonna get his disability money thats why she's been so nice with him now. I am lost at the moment and really dont know what to do. If he choes if his then Im willing to please them even though It hurts but things aint right and he even told his oldest son to tell me shut my mouth up when I told him that he should think about what he've done and grow up.

    Fee waiver resquest for I-751

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    Ok folks here is my problem. My husband is waiting for his disability which is just applied couple months ago. He stop working more than a year ago and ive been taking care of everything ever since . My 2 years GC will soon expire in Nov 20. Im supposed to file anytime in August but we've been struggle with the fee since I am the only one who is working in the house. So is it ok if i file for my removal paper before my 2 years GC expiration date? Because I am still trying to get the rest of the fee to pay. I saw some people here filed for fee waiver resquested and none of em got approve. Any idea would help. Thanks alot

    Putting paperworks together

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

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    So far we've got these things listed below done. Is there anything missing?Thanks alot.

    1. Copy of passport

    2. Copy of I-94

    3. Copy of 2 years GC ( front and back)

    4. Copy of both wife and husband driver lic

    5. I-751

    6. W-2 tax return

    Ofcourse there are tons of other prove which is not listed. Do I have to have my photo make and which size?and how many do I do need ? Aslo do I have to make a copy of my SSC too?

    Thanks alot.

    Please Help-My Cousin married a U.S. Citizen. She came to U.S. to a Nightmare

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

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    Seems like she already knew before married him so whats the deal?just dont try to come over here thru a marriage....you told her not to married this man but she never listen....my idea is she should go back to her home atleast she got her family there....and see if she can find someone who she really love and just do not try to use somebody for immigrations and this is not a first time i heard a story like this bout Phil girl sometimes....even in Vn or where esle in Asia....American is not a dream sometimes for somebody.

    Goodluck

    Red Flag concerns...

    in Asia: East and Pacific

    Posted · Edited by mousehunt07

    Hi

    It has been a long time since ive been here and posted...after i read this topic i am totally in agreement with 'Friendly Advice'...i still remember when i was interviewed by the CO...they never care about anyone's love story letter...even my husband wrote one for the CO to read but she didnt care about it at all.....the most important things the CO cared bout my case was my english ability...how we met...n our engagement pictures...in our case we met online and he came to see me after such a long time we talked...and we decided to have our engagement party while he was in VN...my relatives in the States ...their job ect....we printed a thousands pages of our chats but she never had a look at em...make sure your fiance can speak good english...the CO will think that, how can she come over here without understanding english....or just a little bit...these are what i used to get passed so im sharing with ya...hope these help and goodluck with your upcoming interview...

    MTM

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