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On 3/4/2019 at 9:17 PM, Duncan21 said:

File the i-751 soon if you would like to stay in the US!  You can also file for divorce and keep copies of those papers as well.  First priority though, is to get the 18 month extension letter which can only be possible when you file the i-751.

Filing the i-751 form with a waiver right ?!?

after filing the i-751 form they will give me 18 months extension letter , I’m wondering what after all these things I mean after the 18 months they done , will I do something to the citizenship ?!?!

On 3/4/2019 at 7:32 PM, Georgia16 said:

You file it anyway and then they will probably send you a RFE for the divorce degree or you send it in you you have it. You have to file if you want to stay. 

You mean to file i751 form + waiver  , and then wait the divorce decree anytime I get it to send it to the immigration . 

We got married and live in peace and happiness since 2016. 

I had my conditional green card through marriage  , my spouse don’t want to sign the I-751 form with me what happened is “ she cheated on me I have prove “ after that we separated for more than 8 months any how , in the end of March my conditional GC will be expired in the middle of March 2019, I don’t know what to do , if I file for a divorce it takes at least 6 months to get the divorce papers for wavering  , so what should I do in this situation and my spouse waiting the expiration date to call to deport me , Troubles come one time , so anyone experience with these situations, any right advices I could go through.

if it expire what will happen 

will I lose my job ?

how I can renew my driver license ?

can she ask them to deport me ?

could I file for I-751 with expired conditional GC when I get the divorce decree?

Thank you

3 minutes ago, Dutchster said:

Obviously trying to stay in this marriage because you want your green card is fraud. You got to make a decision, either you 100% make it work together and try to get over her cheating behavior or abandon your aos, go home and find someone who treats you 10x better.

It's hard to complete our marriage cause we are Muslim and she betrayed me she hurts me , we planed all out life we have our family's her family they love me and I love them and they are in good relation with my family and my family they loveher but no one know about what she did 

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But what you mean is to go on with her to get my gc then what ....

I dont know what to do , what If I divorce her before my interview and I have proves that she cheated me

On 2/20/2017 at 6:25 AM, Cadizfornia said:

Cold blood. Don't do anything that could be to the detriment to you in the future. Do not take any decision in angry.

If she doesn't know that you are aware about all this, that would be the best situation, you have full control on the situation, (just need to control yourself, what is not easy at all, but at least, it's only about you)

My advice is to think about your future, and where do you want to be in 2-3 years, because you know? all this is going to go away, and if you where studying, you maybe are under 30, so you have all your life ahead.

 

Your life in 10-20 years could depends on what you do tomorrow, so, cold blood.

 

Thank you , that's why i take my time to give  my decision it's so hard to see your real girl and who I plan all my life with her to make a family and to buy a house 

On 2/19/2017 at 7:11 PM, Jawaree said:

OP did not say the marriage was NOT bonafide.... OP if the marriage is over then you cannot interview,

no one here can help you fix the marriage, do you have proof of her cheating, & do you want to save the

marriage?....If you cannot tolerate the thoughts of her having cheated move on & get a divorce after

speaking to her & see where you both want to take things...get counseling or ending it

Yes I have prove of her cheating she texted me everything and she spoke with me via phone and I have all the conversation 

So what I have to do I'm not in good situation she hurts me

On 2/19/2017 at 7:11 PM, Jawaree said:

OP did not say the marriage was NOT bonafide.... OP if the marriage is over then you cannot interview,

no one here can help you fix the marriage, do you have proof of her cheating, & do you want to save the

marriage?....If you cannot tolerate the thoughts of her having cheated move on & get a divorce after

speaking to her & see where you both want to take things...get counseling or ending it

Yes I have proves 

She told me the truth,  she texted me everything, and we spoke and I have all the conversation between us 

And she know her fault she said I'm sorry ,but sorry didn't therapy my hurt she hurt me 

On 2/19/2017 at 6:54 PM, Dutchster said:

If she is cheating there is most likely no way this will work out. If their marriage was working out, Mrs would not have cheated on Mr.

She did it , and I feel hard to live with her too , but what will happen to my case and the gc is it my problem I'm in faithful and sincere to her and I married her we did big wedding and all the relatives were there and we live together, she cheated me , I can't stay with her anymore 

On 2/19/2017 at 11:48 AM, Transborderwife said:

You need a bonifide marriage to do the interview.  You have no path 

We plan how to live the life we did many things , I did a lot of good things to her, she thanks me with betrayed

On 2/19/2017 at 7:11 PM, Jawaree said:

OP did not say the marriage was NOT bonafide.... OP if the marriage is over then you cannot interview,

no one here can help you fix the marriage, do you have proof of her cheating, & do you want to save the

marriage?....If you cannot tolerate the thoughts of her having cheated move on & get a divorce after

speaking to her & see where you both want to take things...get counseling or ending it

Yes I have proves texting and when we talked via phone I have everything she told me the truth

On 2/19/2017 at 11:51 AM, Venus said:

 Interviewing will be lying since as you stated your relationship is not bonefied.

On 2/20/2017 at 9:26 AM, BethyWink said:

It all depends on what you two can agree you can live with.  If you can get over her being unfaithful, and she can get over the affairs, then you can try to work it out.  If you can not, you can start the procedures to leave.    Relationship advice is never black and white, and we are not in your relationship to give you an insight into this.   This is your relationship.  It is whatever you both can agree on. 

On 2/19/2017 at 11:48 AM, Transborderwife said:

You need a bonifide marriage to do the interview.  You have no path 

Is that meanot we have to go through the interview 

I came to us f1 student visa , after year I got marry and we are together , she is us citizen , we applied for the immigration for the gc , to this moment the interview still " we will schedule your interview. ..."

I got my ssn and the work authorization card , I discovered her betrayed me with other guys , and I have proof , what should I do , divorce her or , wait for the first interview, I'm so sad , and I don't know what to do .

Any advice anyone was in the same boat 

Please any help .

Think u