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 Interviewing will be lying since as you stated your relationship is not bonefied.

Passports is one of the proof of citizenship items you can use not have to use.

passport would be needed to prove possibly having had met if you needed to show proof but you say she came her.

so just provide your birth certificate and explain you met here.  Her passport can prove she came here. 

If the child is a usc he can be with dad part of the year the other with you ?

He was charged with domestic violence simple assault.  Misdemeanor.  Supposly the judge told him she can have the case closed.????

this is a mess....

there not married ...I don't know if she will marry.

The sad part is my niece.

If he returns ill bring her to my house. 

For now the restraining order is court ordered and i dk how they will get around that

15 hours ago, Ontarkie said:

She needs to keep him away. If she lets him back in the house she may lose custody of her child. Her ex already knows what happened, it would not take much for her to lose her daughter. No man is worth losing a child. 

I have told her.  my entire family has told her...she says she wont yet she makes excuses for him...idk what else to tell her.

14 hours ago, Ebunoluwa said:

Why on earth did she bail him out ?

What about him being a danger to her and her child ?

 

He is NOT going to change.

 

Change locks, file restraining order and move on is what she needs to do instead of settling to be his punching bag.
I just don't get why she bailed him out. That's crazy.

the court automatically sets a restraining order because the police was out she didn't have to go yet they keep talking.  I wish I can do it for her but she wont listen  im afraid for my niece...shes an adult but my niece is not.

16 hours ago, Ash.1101 said:

Yeah it's very good they did not marry. This will be a lot easier than if they had. 

It's best for her or him to get a ticket back home. You don't want him to try to roam around until he's illegal. You need to make sure someone gets him out of the country, I'm assuming she's not going to marry him at all and the marriage is off, so he has no path to the US that is legal. 

I'm pretty sure she could contact USCIS with the DV info and telling them what happened and that she is not going to marry him at all before the 90 days are up. 

Don't help him do ANYTHING. Don't help him with his social security card, Don't help him with a license. Separate him as far from yourself and your sister and her family ASAP. DO -NOT- HELP HIM. You are NOT obligated to in any way shape or form. The most help any of ya'll need to give him is help out of the country and healing for your sister and her family.


Also, try to help your sister understand he is an abuser. NO ONE should do that to anyone. NO ONE. Even if she loves this man with all her heart, she needs to leave him for the safety of herself and her child. If anyone touched my kid, I don't even know how I would respond, I know it would be angry and spiteful and not nice at all, but I would -never- bail them out, I'd most likely want them to rot in prison or be sent back to their home country. Which ever is worse.

I have tried.

He has been texting me all day the court put a restraining order on their own and he was allowed to go to NYC until his hearing on the 26th.  She is already making excuses as to why he may have done it blah blah....I see a weeding in her future.  I am staying out of it from now on. we are very upset.  the police told her if he is allowed home again they will contact child services.

18 minutes ago, geowrian said:

For the immediate term, she just needs to protect herself. Get a restraining order. Change locks. Do whatever is necessary to keep him away from her. She has no obligation to him.

 

Once his 90 days are up and he stays, it wouldn't hurt to give USCIS a heads up that he's still there, not married to your sister (a requirement of his K1 visa), and with a DV arrest. At that point, he's an issue for immigration and the police to handle.

ok thanks his 90 days are up march 2, 2017 we printed his 194 yesterday to take to social security.

I will tell her I sont know if she is gonna forgive him since she bailed him out.

49 minutes ago, NuestraUnion said:

She hasn't married him so that is a good thing. It will be an easy seperation for her. She will not have any obligations. She just need to protect herself and her daughter. 

 

Since he was arrested for DV she can prevent him from returning to her home. Since they will not marry he has to return to the DR before the 90 days. If not he will be illegal. Unfortunately, your sister can't "deport"/ force him to leave the US. And by his actions it seems he will probably stay as an illegal.

Ok thanks I don't think shes is as concerned with deporting him as to him making himself a presence in her home.  US having to support him since we brought im as he said. He spends all day drinking while shes at work.  He was very productive in DR but coming here nothing to do that is what he does.

my niece is very scared not to mention her father is upset.

55 minutes ago, Ben&Zian said:

Have her change all her locks on her house.

 

Call and talk to the police and file restraining order.

 

If need be present a one way ticket for him to go away forever.

 

She has not signed anything legally making her responsible to support him yet, so tell her to get rid of him quickly.

thank you we were not certain.  she is at work I will let her know.

I am inquiring for my sister.

We both brought men here around the same time from Dominican Republic. I have had all very smooth Husbands pretty great he arrived in September. AOS seems to be on track I submitted all before AOS increase.

She on the other hand has had a harder time.  She brought her fiancée from Jarabacoa.  He has been here a month, he has had the police called on him twice and last night he destroyed her entire house.  He hit her destroyed her cell phone and hit her 16 yr old daughter trying to grab her cell as well.  The police took him into custody and told her deport him.  She hasn't married him or took out the license they were doing that this week.  He cut himself tried to claim abuse.  The police took him with 2 time the legal limit (he was Drunk).

hes in county lock up right now with keys to her house what can she do? He has no family. no one. she doesn't want him in her home. Is she obligated to give him shelter? money food ect?