aaron2020 The USCIS itself told me that my processing time is abnormal because they are now working on cases that was filed in November and I filed in August, and that's why they sent an Inqury and even the Immigration officer at the Info pass agreed that something is wrong!
About brining my mum here for my son and daughter.. My hospital were I will start residency have onsite daycare! But I will have to be oncall for 30 hours every 3 days! and this is not only the reason, I don't believe that some stranger that I pay for money can love my kids as much as I do! and this is something I am sure my mum does. a nanny may put them in bed and bla bla but she can never love them! I wanted my mum because she is the only person in this world who can replace my presence for my kids and give them as much love as I can. That's all! Not to mention she is coming for a GC which she is not taking someone's job! she can work herself. But for her and in our culture at least, it's very very normal for the grandma to take care of and have our kids while we works or go away! I am sorry I can't not trust anyone with my kids! I belive if I can't trust that person with a diamond then I can't for sure trust them with my kids because they are simply more prescious than any diamond in this world for me!
KingstonJamica, Thank you so much for your supporting words.
Bigbear got a reaction from Air Force Wife in My mother I-130 not approved till now applied in August!!!