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so your husband hugs you and you consider that physically violent?? Even know you admitted to punching him today ??? Am I reading this right ??

Sorry if I wasn't clear. The "hugs" are basically him restraining me from leaving the room. He's much bigger than me and uses that as a method from preventing me from leaving the room. The "kisses" often involve him grabbing my head. It's aggressive.

I'm sorry but I think what you've done to him actually creates more frictions. I understand that you are angry and needed space and I believe, him trying to hug and kiss you is his way of making amends which obviously doesn't work for you. Maybe counselling and meeting in the middle when arguments arise on how you would want him to handle you..And how you would react in case he would choose to kiss and hug again.

My only option would be to let him grab me and push me around. When he's done, then I could leave the room.

Do you want to stay with him? If so, I recomend talking to him when things are good, when neither of you is upset, and explain that what he may see as affection is indeed forceful restraint, and could be considered kidnapping and sexual assault. Counselling, for both of you as a couple, may also be a good idea.

Thank you. I have tried to explaining that to him--that's it's actually assault if he won't let me go. I've told him explicitly he is hurting me when he so aggressive. Sometimes he grabs and "hugs" me so tightly it's hard to breath.

I need some help. I am the USC. My husband came from a Australia on a K-1 in 2013. We got married, had a child, and he applied for ROC in June 2016.

We have been happy but when we have arguments, it always results in him blocking me in the room and forcefully trying to "hug and kiss" me. It's disturbing and scary. I ask him over and over not to touch me, let me go, etc. and he doesn't stop. Today after asking to be let go and feeling trapped, I punched him in the face and bit his tongue when he forecably tried to kiss me.

I'm lost. I have no idea how I got in this type of relationship. Anyone who has been in this situation can you please give me advice?