KoffiAkua

While I'd be as concerned about her past health as you are, what struck me is your motive of question. It wasn't until you read other stories on the blogs that caused you to be concerned and as you stated "freaking out". So I wonder how you approached her about it. Yes, I'd be concerned about her past health and if it's something that has the potential to affect you. Another question is, what if it is something that can affect you? Will that affect your decision in being with her? If so, then how? I'm also concerned that she would easily break off a loving relationship because of questions you've asked. Are the two of you truly in love? But most importantly is paying attention to all the red flags, not ingnoring anything questionable and not taking chances on anything that you KNOW would be a major issue or deal breaker down the line. It sounds as if both of you have personal soul searching to do and if truly that's the case, then maybe neither of you are ready. Because when two people are ready everything is on the table and anything questionable is always open.
Good luck to you??