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Abdo shawky

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  1. Looks like the OP is out of options if USCIS has denied him on a couple of normal routes. Might be time for a good lawyer before you get a ban on overstay. It's either that or sadly consider go back to their homeland.

    As far as the mental illness discussion goes, it doesn't matter what mental illness it is. The person on the receiving end of emotional or physical abuse should not have to put up with it or may not be capable with dealing with it. They can get support and therapy of course to help but usually it is not enough to prevent the downward emotional spiral. First of all, the person with the illness has to acknowledge the illness and do what they can to help themselves. I can say from personal experience that in the case of a Borderline Personality Disorder ex wife, any suggestion that they were abusive was met with open hostility and escalated abuse. That same abuse was triggering our daughter's PTSD daily to the point where she self harmed and attempted suicides even with medications and me and 3 counselors supporting her. Once I divorced and got our daughter out of the house things turned around quite a bit but probably will never be OK for my daughter. Myself, I ended up in counseling and a support group. It took me a a year to get myself back on my feet and even longer to trust a person to get close to me again. Please discuss mentally illnesses carefully and certainly don't lump every situation together. Unless you have walked in the OP shoes then it's best to reserve judgement and stick to the question about how to remain in the US and adjust.

  2. I known her for 2 years and for 8 month here in US after marriage and she completly changed when I arrived here and she was really nice when I was in Egypt still! Never got mad at me or showed me anything ! She mwntioned one time that her PTSD get activated when she deals with anyone and she has no friends at all and kept me alone from talking to any one too ! I wanna stay here cus I have a job here and life now ! I will start from zero if I go back to my country . She never told me about it and it is from the military service as she is a veteran !! They discharged her cus she can not work with ppl !! Never knew all that I wish I did

  3. Thank you for helping but dealing with her or getting back to her is not an option ! She destroyed my life and I tried my best with her but she is sick ! She would send me 732 text messages while I am work cus I did not answer her phone call !! Yes 732 text messages on my phone and this when her PTSD is active ! And alot more of abuse like asking me to look at her eyes for 30 minutes without blinking and it is called Eye contact !! Look at her chart and ask me to do whatever the chart says etc... !! Alot of things can not be said here ! She made me almost lose my mind ! Strange things never experienced before even my American friends never heard of it !! Not an option

  4. I came to the USA on a Fiance visa K1 , I got married to the petitioner and I discovered that she is sick and has a PTSD and was shouting all day long and made my life hell and threatened me with killing me ! So got seprated and our application got rejected at that time too cus she did not do anything under my name and no papers together at all cus she is paraniod !! I applied for a self perition based on abuse ( petition for Amerasian ) and they said no enough evidences of the abuse cus most the evidences are text messages and emails with the threats ! And they do not give it alot of wirght in my case !! Most of the abuse was mental abuse and aproced this by Therapist report but it seems still not enough !! Not sure what to do and what are my options to stay here and be legal without flying out USA if they refuse it in the next few days ?? I appreciate your help !!

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