sallywilson

thankyou for all your help guys,,,, removing conditions on divorce waiver is not a good point i think because my marriage timing is short....and why should,nt i apply for abuse waiver as i have alot of evidences.... i dont have any bills on my name...we live with in laws and they are never going to help me out in roc.... i just have a joint account for short period of time and thats it......but abuse has taen place i have audio....text messages in which he openly admits he is sorry for the beating ...... affidavits of friends and family wtc

thankyou for all your help guys,,,, removing conditions on divorce waiver is not a good point i think because my marriage timing is short....and why should,nt i apply for abuse waiver as i have alot of evidences.... i dont have any bills on my name...we live with in laws and they are never going to help me out in roc.... i just have a joint account for short period of time and thats it......but abuse has taen place i have audio....text messages in which he openly admits he is sorry for the beating ...... affidavits of friends and family etc...and my joint account shows withdrwl from his card...also sent money to his father through quickpay as a rent from last 3 months......

This is VERY DISTURBING. Please check out the VAWA thread and ask for Sandra. You need to get out. Now. Please file a police report and get out ASAP.

thanks for reply....filing police report will open a new chapter,,,, i dont want anyone arrested he is jobless and report will be a disaster for him and his life would be ruuined... i think i would esily forget if i get separated with dignity.... thnks for advice though!

Hi everybody.

I just found this forum and want to ask some help. My husband is not a good person ..he is in depression or might have borderline personality disorder........he threats me and want to have physical relationship without my consent.

He also belittle and humiliates me and calls me names... he is very manpulative and threats me that i will be divorce you and remove you from usa. I just gt my c 3 months ago. I am working full time and all my salary go into joint account and he use that salary but i am not the partner in his joint account. he just lost his job 6 months ago. I am taking domestic violence counselling (9 sessions). I am working with a clinical phsychologist and she have just diagnosed that i am in depression....most importantly i am living with his family members and he dont want to separate from her parents...and his parents also enables the abusive behavious. i called some helplines in june 4 to 5 times and they are willing to help me out and write letter of support to uscis...

what proofs i have ...

good faith marriage:

1)emails before marriage..

his visit to my home country with his mother and family photographs of meetings and engagement....

skype calls and cell phone bills before marriage,,,

after marriage:

joint accounts only 6 months but with transactions)...

deposit slips mentioning that he deposits all my cheques,,

marriage pics his and my marriage function...

anniversary pics ...celebrated with alot of peoples...

wedding card...

joint health insurance

joint family car insrance...

no tax returns and a small credit card worth 500 and i am assigned as authorised user,,(he got 6 credit cards on his name and i had to apply for a car but i was not able to get it)

my friends office collegues attended marriage..

whats app message from my family and gift receipts...

marriage councelling we are still in it,,,

fertility test reports,,,,

doctor visits( went to same doctors)

proof of abuse...

threathening text messages ,,,,

have one audio recorded./...i told him i am recording it but he didnt care and abused me in that audio...

domestic violence councelling 12 sessions...

licensed clinical phsychologist 5 sessions ( she diagnosed i am in depression)

a police information i thought it is report but it just mentions that i fear my husband keeps all his salary and he throws water on me and i fear reaction and letting police know that i am under these circumstances so i may use this report later....

i informed and my friends notice unusual behavious of my inlaws with me and they know i am a victim of abuse...

deposit slips and money withdrawl and transfereed to husband family from my account...

i also called an instituition that helps trafficking victims and recorded and informed them about the issues i am suffereing...

time sheets..( i am always late at work never made on time because i am not able to sleep)

i am not yet divorce but he is planning beause he dont want to move from his parents house and want me to stay there and pay rent,,,,,and they support him when he use bad languages and consider it a part of normal relationship

he also asked me to write a letter that to keep him happy i will not do certain things and i will not talk with my parents etc...he signed that letter and made me signed that letter as well...

i just got green card 3 months before.,,,,,,,,,but now situation is out of control because i fear and have had enough tried everything to work on marriage but i dont think he will change and sex without consent is damaging my personality......

i dont know what are my chances of roc.....but i want to leave this situation... i dont want to file a police report because i dont want any ties and filing and court process will keep me connected from him....and i dont want help....please help me out.....and i dont want to go to domestic iolence shelter because i already have a job and somehow i will manage .... but i am still in love with that man and he cries some times ....i dont know .....

can any one tell me my chances of roc