willow1948

Thanks to everyone on their replies. My ex husband lied to me alot. He thought he was in fact concealing his double life and he did quite well, but I can read a little Spanish and 2 times caught him with his cell phone and a woman had emailed him 2 months after his 14 month wait in Mexico to get his green card. I approached him about this so obviously he was already involved with another US citizen of Mexican heritage even before he left for Mexico. I traveled to Ciudad Juarez to join him to pick up his packet at the American Embassy, we picked up the packet and crossed the border on December 4, 2006. 2 months after he got back home to our house in Dallas, Tx on Valentines Day, I had gone to pick up donuts in his SUV and discovered in the seat a CD with a womans hand writing in silver ink written in Spanish to Mi Amor S.........l and professing her love to him. This is only 8 wks after his return from a 14 month absence. I approached him about this and he denied and lied and said a friend of his did this as a joke. From that point on I didn't trust him. So 7 years later we divorced, 4 of those years were brutal. He would cuss me out on a daily basis, call me names, told me not to bother him on his cell phone. When we would go out to dinner he never talked to me but would constantly be texting this woman the entire time we were at the restaurant. At the end of our marriage and his numerous throwing food at me across the counter and I quit cooking and threatened my life I kicked him out. He paid for our divorce willingly and not 3 yrs later have opened a Pandora's box. He even admitted to me over private messaging that the little girl in the picture is his Daughter born out of wedlock as illigetiment. I had no clue, but this is bitter sweet. I carried him on my work health insurance and it costs me $110 a month and he never offered to reimburse me. I was so hurt during our divorce that I didn't ask for the $9200 back over 7 years. Now that I have found this out I am seriously thinking of hiring an Atty. to sue him to recoup this monies. He had BCBS full coverage medical and dental insurance and even had a back surgery. Look how I ended up. Taken advantage of. This is enough to really make a decent woman really emotionally sick even though we are divorced. I really appreciate everyones input. Think I'll contact the Attorney who did his papers for us to see if he can find out if he has already Naturalized with USCIS knowing he had fathered a child out of wedlock while we were still married. His admission in writing I still have from FB private posts. That is enough to really get him into trouble. This is just one BAD example how a person wasted 10 years of their life for what,,,,,emotional devastation. Thanks again!

I had sponsored my Mexican citizen ex-husband for 9 yrs and 2 months; and now: as of Feb 17th, 2013, divorced him and just recently found out during our marriage he fathered a child with another woman, the child is now 7 yrs old, and I've been divorced from him 3 years now. This means he fathered a child the last 4 years we were still married unknown to me. He became very abusive and emotionally cruel. We no longer had intimate relations the last 4 years we were married and now I know why. He ended up marrying this other woman May 15, 2014, and they recently bought a huge house valued at $310,000 Jan 20 2015. I am not sure if he has obtained his Naturalization for US .Citizenship, but I do believe he violated his green card rights by fathering a child out of wedlock and continued to be married to me for 4 more years. He had his green card 10 yr permanent resident card the entire time we were married 9 years and 2 months. I believe he deceived me. Are their any penalities that can be held against him if he tries to get his Naturalization or can he be deported due to the deception during our marriage and fathering a ####### child? I just found out from a friend who saw his Facebook page and that of his wife and a picture of his Daughter. This needless to say has further devastated me and made me realize he was living 2 lives during our marriage and having another family unknown to me. I had gone through alot with this man traveling to Mexico 3 times at my expense and going for interview at American consulate for our marriage to end up my living an abusive existence the last 3-4 years being married and being horribly emotionally abused and demeaned. I need to know if there are any Legal avenues for Immigration to take against him. To deport him or bar him with a penality of 5 more years before he can pursue a Naturalization. This has turned into a total waste of many years and pain mentallly for me. Thanks for any info you can provide. Willow 1948