1luv

See that is why I stay the F away from this site!!!!!!!!!!

Mrs. Boom, always, DW, KJ, Mstee, Brooke I let u know when I have the baby.

HEY Ladies. Tomorrow I am 30 weeks 10 to go. I am aiming for 38 weeks so 8 more

Baby stuff are expensive damn!!

Ladies and hubbies have fun with the linkup this weekend!

Hey ladies!!

Well well well, I see the vj wata is taking full effect Congrat KJ and Mrs. Palmer on the preggo news. Welcome to the club!! Please I hope u ladies are having boys cuz Always blessed, JQ boom and someone else I think are having girls.

So sorry JAE abt the job hope u will find something real soon.

As for me I am 7 months now and I am getting tired!!!! She is a really active baby.

I am good! Getting bigger as the days go by...3 months to go

:thumbs:Hey Vj sistas!! How yall doing?

Hey yall,

I’m still overwhelmed and its not getting any easier.

Yesterday when I got home I started making dinner my usual routine, and when my hubby got home he just took off his clothes and went to bed. I went into the room and said, “I sure wish I could just relax after I get in. But I had these kids since 6 am.”

He tells me: “Who told you to have them since 6 am”

Me: wait a minute, your daughter couldn’t go to the school around the corner remember, because she couldn’t pass the test, so I had to put her in the school by my job, all day kinder, which means when I take you to work in the morning at 6am, the kids are with me until I drop them off at school.

He just lays down and doesn’t say anything and goes to sleep. Sleeps until about 11:30 pm and wakes up looking for dinner. Eats dinner goes on the computer and goes to sleep.

Wakes up this morning doesn’t say anything to me, doesn’t help get any of the kids up, and tells me at 6:30 to drop him off at his friends house around the corner so he can get a ride to work.

No fckn convo since that smart sht yesterday afternoon.

I had a talk to him on Sunday letting him know our relationship so up and down it aint gone work. He don’t help he just do what he do and expect since his mom did everything that that’s a womans job. Maybe that’s a womans job if she don’t work. Beacsue she has never had a job. If I didn’t work I could clean and cook and shop and take on all the responsibilities as a house wife, and not look to him for support, but since Im bringing in as much money as him I feel it should be split. And danmn it im pregnant where is my sympathy.

Then he had the nerve to say, we can barely make it with 3 how we gonna make it with 4 (OMG yall I blew up and told him sht him and his daughter and this newborn can make it back in Jamaica with his momma, if he chooses so) He claims he will try to make it better gave me a hug and was acting different for the rest of that day. But they next day it ack to the same oh him.

Well I told his azz next week make sure you take off work because Im switching all these kids to the school by the house. I cant keep leaving work in the morning and the afternoon, to take these kids.

Update: So the baby took the test at the new school with the all day kinder and she passed it ( maybe because my husband was with her and he don’t play with her) but they put her in 1st grade. And the work that she is doing right now in the first grade she understand we just gotta work with her to learn how to sound words out.

So Im switch her to the school by my house, well my hubby is because Im tired of going in circles for this little girl. I had to take off 8 hrs last week and don’t have no more vacation due to the JA trip. Im taking off to switch my boys but he gonna have to switch her and take the test scores from the school showing she passed the test.

This is a lot of drama!!!!

I love all your adivce and keep it coming but if anybody wants to talk negative, because im sure it is coming, write it then delete it because I don’t need any one talking about how perfect their life is and telling me mine is shtty, just keep it positive and try to help in a nice way or be prepare to get cussed out!!!! Cause everyone has problems and Im trying to share mine with my true VJ sisters on here. To get healthy advice(L)

JQ Smiley Boom

girl that is alot!!!!!!!! I dont feel like commeneting on here. I ll leave my # in ur inbox!

hey ladies!!

Whats up with all the baby girls LOL

I still need baby girl names!

what happened to Nat??

Mrs. Baby boom hubby changed his mind the day b4!!!!!!!!!!!

Hey ladies how yall doing?

Congrats on the new jobs, house etc...

I go for my U/S tomorrow. Will make up m mind for sure if I will find out the sex of the baby.

HEY ALL!

First off! I must say a big congrats to Bajan.

I am getting big like a house! I am 4 months now. And when ppl ask how many months I am they say I look bigger than that The technician did say that my baby is big!!. My morning sickness is over and I am getting my sexy back. Hubby loves it!!

Good luck to to u tomorrow Bajan

Hi all!!

JQ Look at his/her nose and lips awwwwwwwwwwww!!

Has ur baby been kicking uu yet?

I had 175 days to go!!!!!! :dance: :dance:

Im tired of being preggo.

Update we had a great time at dinner.

I thought it was just going to be me and hubby at Red Lobster,

But he decided to invite the whole fam to olive garden and it was about 12 of us celebrating.

It was so nice.

I still want CRAB Fest, but he said I can go this weekend. :dance: :dance:

My family was so surprised with how big I have gotten, it was pretty embarrasing, but I was looking cute as heck!!!

Also I didnt think with this belly I could do what I did but last night hubby was surprise I rode it like it was a raging bull. :innocent: :innocent: I can only tell you ladies that :rofl: :rofl:

Thanks for all the congrats for the anniversary

girl why cant !

well for me I hope Shanette is wrong!

Enlighten me pls. Never heard of this b4

This is so stupid but had me dying laughing this morning

Sorry Sus I dont get it

The baby just kicked me! I felt it b4 but this one was Hard!!!

Did 1luv find out yet? If not I think its a girl! I'm on a roll tonight.....

okay missy that would be 3 girls. I am so hoping for a boy. We are NOT going to find out!

Good morning all!

Things have been so hectic with work and all, but I still pop in from time to time.

My pregnancy is going great. No more morning sickness.

hubby and I decided we are going to need a bigger place so we are thinking of getting a house/townhouse. We dont know where to start

The money we spend to pay rent can pay for our mortgage and have $$ left over.

81-year old killed -- this is a DAMN disgrace -- waiting for my friends to call me back from Sav I may know her.

An 81-year-old woman was this morning shot and killed by unknown assailant's at her home in Bamboo district, Burnt Savannah, Westmoreland, Jamaica.

She has been identified as Enid Beckford.

About 3:05 a.m. residents reportedly heard explosions and summoned the police.

When they arrived on the scene, Ms. Beckford was found with what appeared to be several gunshot wounds. She was taken to the Savanna-la-mar Hospital where she died.

The Frome Police are investigating.

yes I saw this too! That is my last name and I could be very well related to her somehow

The baby pics are so cute huh I told yall that baby is big.

They baby kept moving, and putting its hands in front of its face.

I dont know yet they said its to early still, but Always and 1luv are further along, so ladies what are you having?

My hubby dont want to know but I want a girl so bad, but now I think I want a boy so bad Im confused. I want both but have to settle for one.

They check the nose bone yesterday to rule out down syndrome and also checked the spine,brain, and the blood for chromosome abnormalities. This doctor wants me to come back 3 times in the next month and a half. I am pissed because I have to pay for this specialist doctor co=pay's and my regular OB is free with my insurance

Im going to cancel my next appointment and go in another 3 weeks instead. I feel they are just making me come in to much.

P.S. and they said at 16 weeks and every week after that I am going to have to get progesterone shots to avoid pre term labor. For fcuking what just a fcuking precaution I am pissed yall they are good at getting money out this insurance company.

Hey girl! We dont want to know what we are having. making it a surprise! Everything is well with the baby and I am feeling lil kicks. I got a u/s pic and the baby was waving so cute!!

Hi good morning all!

I went for my 12 week ultrasound and let me tell u the tech. was pressing down on my belly and moving around the wand everywhich way. I was just looking at her facial expressions the whole time. After about 5-10 min she told me to empty my bladder. I was almost in tears. I asked her "why, cant u see the baby" She says yes I see a BIG baby an its not cooperating!" I was relieved and DWL. So I go to empty my bladder and after abt 2 min after i came back and lie back down, she show me the baby on the screen! The baby was BIG compared to the one I had at eight weeks. And he/she was waving. I was in tears. Everything is okay with babe so far as for me I still have nausea!!! I have my family BBQ tomorow. (it is a holiday--Canada day), So I guess they will see my lil pudge.

JQ for real, You are way bigger than me!

I thought it was great. I especially enjoyed Chris Brown's dedication to MJ. He was sincere... My girl Patty KICKED it, along with her shoes.. and the nasty chick with Prince smelled her shoe.. how disgusting.. uggh...I was estatic to see Trey win an award and my chocolate drop TYRESE had a sista wanting to do thangs LOL Niki Manaj can sit her stank tail down somewhere ughhh

GIrl! LOL LOL I knew she did!!!!! Then I m like no she couldnt have done something so gross on tv. Thank God I was not the only one that saw this!!!!!!

I know I am excited for her...she is going to drop it like it's hot!

No! She is going to drop it like the rent is due!!!!!!!! (DW words)

Lawd dat sound good! We had PF Chang's for dinner last nite. Hubby is NOT a fan of egg drop soup (he cyaan ovastan why di soup noh mek him sweat! ) or much of the other Asian food either. But he had plenty of drinks and dessert! This makes me want some curry shrimp, but we don't have enough for the both of us...hmmmm....What is parrot fish?

I AM HAVING A FIT OVER HEERE