Serjicalstrike

Just got off the phone to the Wife, apparently our case is actually at the CSC (California Service Center) the reason I thought it was MSC as that the case numbers we have are prefixed with 'MSC' argh. Anyone got the address for California?

First is your case at MSC or at another location?

If it is at MSC then here is the address:

Department of Homeland Security

PO Box 648004

Lee's Summit, MO 64002-8006

Please bear in mind though that this is ONLY if your case is at MSC.

Our case is at the MSC. Thank You Thank You Thank You x1million

Greetings, Visajourney users.

After much waiting and receiving my EAD from our AOS, My wife and myself received an RFE from the USCIS. It seemed to be pertaining to the medical that we sent them 2 copies of, which we have decided that they probably lost, hence sending us an RFE. The problem here is that we moved out of our in laws' house and into our own recently and seem to have lost it!

After dealing with the infuriatingly long winded recorded message at the USCIS customer service phone number I finally got to speak to someone who told me that basically, They couldn't send me a new one and basically couldn't tell me anything about it other than what we already knew from the case update on their website. What they could tell me, after asking politely is that, should I get the mailing address for my RFE, I could send the missing document(s) to them with a cover letter explaining our situation.

Now all I ask, gentle VJ user, is do any of you have the mailing address that we need to send back the RFE to? We have torn apart both our own house and our in laws' house looking for it and still can't find it so it would be a great help if any of you knew the address and were willing to give it to us.

Thanks in Advance!

Happy Easter all I cooked a lovely Roast Beef dinner yesterday and I have to say that I'm beginning to think I can beat my mum at this lol! Only Joking, she'd kill me if I said I could cook a better roast than her What's everyone doing for Easter? I think we're going to The Wife's nan's house or something which will be fun

This sounds like good news for me, Haven't learnt to drive fully yet even in the UK before I moved. However, once I can work out getting the DL I'll just have to worry about the insurance, annoying thing is I have my eye on a nice little VW Golf that's $2995 and I bet it'll be gone before I get the DL

ooh putMe on the Ohio list, from Dorset, UK living in Cincinnati OH, with my wife Ashley (midicat)

good thing you're not her then. She has posted plenty of our personal stuff on here herself, and I'm not posting here just to air my personal grievances about how things are going. All i have been trying to do is get a different perspective on the situation from hers or my own.

I wish that she thought like all of you people do. she's been telling me that she "needs time to figure out who i am and what i want with my life" throughout the last 2 weeks and has said multiple times that she does not want to marry me for definite. Maybe one of the biggest mistakes i have made throughout this is not visiting the VJ boards more often! i don't think i would ever have begun feeling so lonely if i had.

indeed, but the thing about me atleast is, that when we're apart i become a lot more irritable and tend to get a lot more paranoid etc than when we're together. Why this happens i don't know, and i wish i could change the way i am because it has probably destroyed my relationship with her. all i need to do now is wait for her to decide she's ready to talk to me again. don't give in to your doubts/paranoia

Well krikit, thank you for that piece of info about the supporting information, I didn't know that. What sort of time frame would i be looking at between the interview and needing to get the supporting info to the embassy?

Unfortunately at this point in time it looks as if the Visa is definitely canceled. Ashley won't send me the stuff for it, and the argument we had yesterday was probably the final nail in the coffin for our relationship. As much as i wish i could postpone the interview, and jump on a plane and see her, to sort everything out in person, she won't want that right now. the problem with the fact that if she does change her mind, it is already too late... As she goes on vacation saturday, and comes back on the 16th, 2 days before my interview. Not nearly enough time to post over the things i need from her. I suppose i will just have to let her have her space, and work things out slowly over the coming months, and maybe reapply when we feel the time is right. we're both still young, and although some of you older lot may think we were naive to be trying for this so early in our lives, there was a time when we both felt it was what we wanted. i still do want it more than anything, but she doesn't.

(side note: Caladan?! As in Caladan & Weasle???)

whoops i see this has been moved (sorry mods i'm not very good with posting in the right place)

anyway, the problem with me not taking any rash action now, is that Ashley leaves for vacation on saturday and doesn't come back until 2 days before my interview, she hasn't sent me a few things for my interview, and she doesn't intend to. she is welcome to post her side of the story, and the entire truth of how much of a terrible person i have been will come to light, unless she also wishes to skirt the main issue and post things simply from her perspective. i wasn't wanting to divulge too much information about what exactly transpired as it is not really required to give that information to be able to say that i have been wrong, and that nothing i can do now will fix that.

again thank you all for being sympathetic and offering comforting words. i am 95% to blame for this happening and do not truly deserve them.

A part of me perhaps wants to get the message out to her, i would be lying if i said otherwise. however, i also wanted to get my story out and let other people learn from the stupid petty mistakes i have been foolish enough to make.

Thank you for your kind words, but right now i feel i am undeserving, 90% of the reason for the breakdown in our relationship was, sadly, my fault. I let it all get to me, and said what in all honesty, is completely inexcusable, but as they say "love breeds the purest hate".

I have tried to go the postponing the interview and having a visit route, sadly Ashley refuses to do this, which only makes this ending all the more painful

Over the last 2 weeks myself and Ashley (Midicat) have been having problems with our relationship, many of which were caused by the stress of the distance and flaws in our personalities. Today we had an argument so heated that we blocked each other from our instant messaging program after saying some utterly hateful and unforgivable things to each other.

I post this here because I want others to learn from the mistakes I have made causing this complete degeneration of our relationship to the point that we may never speak to each other again.

The mistakes i have made:

Letting the distance get to me. Being apart for months at a time put so much strain on me, and eventually i caved in and let it cause me to act in a way that i am not normally capable of. I became Selfish, Paranoid, Jealous, and Overwhelmingly Controlling.

Taking what we had for granted. I became more and more detached from Ashley due to us both taking what we had for granted, stopping doing the little things that meant so much for each other. Complacency is an evil thing.

Due to the things I posted above, and through the lack of physical interaction, and eventually emotional interaction too, Ashley and myself are as of now no longer engaged to be married, or indeed even considered 'an item'. Letting ourselves give in to our anger and saying terrible, hurtful things to each other has damaged our relationship beyond repair.

I am heartbroken at the loss of such a beautiful thing as the love we have shared over the past 5 years, but now it is time for me to begin doing something different with my life. Maybe one day i will recover enough to get back on the dating scene...

i can provide that i will be going back, got bills to pay and various part time jobs to head back to. thank you for your good wishes

will they take pics of my cat as proof? j/k i'm the person in question here and it sounded like it may be difficult. however i'd never had any problems getting in before, although i did have a guy at Cincinnati customs who i've nicknamed 'thunderface' due to him only smiling at me once while he was questioning me. however they seemed a lot more concerned to the matter of me bringing in foreign flora and fauna which i'm almost certain i have in short i want this. its been a long time since we saw each other and although very sudden, i believe we can do it.

wow speedy replies lol. thanks looking around all the info for this its gonna be a tough old journey :/ they would make it so ridiculously complicated eh?

Hi There, i'm just about to begin the whole process of getting a visa and moving to the USA to live with my fiancee we've been together for almost 3 and a half years, and we've been kinda procrastinating a bit really, which is silly i know but the last few times i've been over we've spent more time going out and doing stuff than we've had being able to think about sorting things out. its only now that i've realised i really need to stop putting things off and get on with it any advice and pointers are always welcome and i will be frequenting these forums from now on until i start my own journey, and probably once my journey has ended.