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i never intend to act like a troll, it just that i was so eager to reply the message and that was a ,mistake.. so someone shouldnt come here and start crucifying me or try to be mean or an investigative officier on where the money came from and what it is meant for .. it doesnt change the fact that the money wasnt mine and she took the money without my knowledge.. i wouldl like them to put themself in ma shoe and tell me how they are gona feel before trying to crucify me on here ..

No one wana loose a cent not to talk of 8k$ ..so they should not add salt to the injury on ground .. the way forward is what we are looking for and thats why i came to visajourney

Mr analyst..dont be mean on here, i only seek an advise , i didnt ask for investigation on my question and i used diff account mainly cuz i dont know who is watching .. do u realise this is internet world which anytin can be looked up.

do u have any idea of car exportation to another country , where u pay for a car auction in another state cuz its cheaper and u are meant to ship the car to another country , this is business world.. im not working and i have to survive. even though all i gain from this logistics is a lil token , its still something for a man that aint working ..so that settled the fact that the money aint mine ..

when i met her, she told me her debt was 5000 and when she filled the last tax return , her money was taken to consolidate the debt. and as one of a genuinity of the marriage, i looked into other bill which she owe and i confirmed it with her and we both worked on us running the account together so we can both co mingling financies and she can pay them off

quiting the marriage is not an option because that will pose a red flag on me even though i try to go through the immigration again which im not willling to put that on top of myself.. so im left with the option of making it work and bear the risk or even go through a stress which i never planned for cuz all i want is just to be happy and live a good life with my wife

iv decided to carry my cross and let it go and give her another chance... because this happened at the wrong time

and as a matter of fact, i didnt pay her for anything , we entered the marriage in goood faith to work something out and share our dreams and future together,iv been living with her ever since i came back and we have been doing well together.. though im not working at the moment

i understand, i just want to stay anonymous for this issue . i dont wana use my other account to post thiis story cuz i dont know who is wattching .. my felllow VJ , kindly understand this is a critical issue that is affecting me .. i just need a relief

the debt of 8000 uSd is what im talking about because the money wasnt meant for me , i was meant to make withdrawal of the funds and use it to buy a car for someone in my state, the money was sent from another state to my account because i want buy a car for the person who own the money .

where the money coming from is not the issue, but as for the next thing to do is what im thinking now ..

The money is not mine..

i never knew the situation would turn out like this , i entered the marriage with good faith of building a life and future together, but here i am been spit by her.

Her family been puttin pressure to leave me alone as well so she can get away with the money issue thinking i could not press charges against her

but i think i will have to learn to handle it and deal with it and probably give her a second chance and see if i can be getting the money off from her little by little for the time being so as to be able to pay my debt because if i leave her now , i have no other way to get money and cuz i cannot work based on ma B1/B2 visa

Im currently in the process of filling my adjustment of status and during the process of co mingling bank account together as part of requirement of bonafied marriage, a funds was sent to my bank account and my spouse took the money without my conscient and denied knowing anything about the money .. i guess with the influence of her sister,

Presently i should be geting my EAD in a week or two more and going for my interview soon ,

Already i felt bad and i dont know if i should wait till when i get my green card approved later and divorce her or confront her for now or seek a marriage counsellors advise regarding this case

as a matter of fact the amount we are talking about is 8000 usd...

the amount alone is quite much for an immigrant who is not working... now she put me on a debt of 8000usd .. and for prove, i have a document from my bank account which showed that she made the withdrawal of the said sum in my our joint account

my other question is that , if i divorce her after getting my green card based on this ground , will it be considered an immigration fraud because she already made me feel bad for her stealing from me in the first place and by her not telling me and denying the fact that she took the money from my account

FYI ... she said the IRS levy my bank account as a result of the amount she owed the IRs.. But i checked and confirmed and the found out that the IRS never took the money ,, even the bank said she was the one who took the money .