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  1. When I try to explain to Gregory how different things are here I know he really doesn't get it / believe me some times BUT one thing that he believes and I just go right alone with is that Women have more right in the States than men do and if a man does something wrong they will be hauled off to jail without a trial! I asked him who told you that? He said... "I just heard/know" I said yes yes this is true, we women have all the rights here. :whistle: haa haa..

  2. Hello everyone,

    Well, I have more bad news again :( Tony's uncle was killed last night in JA! :o The only details I know is that someone broke into his house and shot him twice while he was sleeping!! It is just devastating. He was only 41 or 42 years old. This is the 3rd uncle of his who has died in the past year - 2 on mom's side, 1 on dad's side. Please keep him and his family in your thoughts and prayers.

    :( Rhonda- I'm so sorry to hear about this senseless killing. These are some serious times, I will keep them in my thoughts.

    Mangogirl (mindy2)

  3. Good morning!

    For the new filers, did you get the REF with the same questions that were on the new forms? I just got an e-mail from someone and they also waited for the new forms and got the same repeat questions. Why do you think that is?

    Two more days and I am going to my home away from home. I am so excited. Will be catching the beginning of Sunsplash in Priory. Great lineup for the first night. I am still debating if I will delay my return home to stay for the entire party....

    Update: I was "touched" today so... maybe my RFE is on the way. I'll keep you posted. :wacko:

  4. Good morning!

    For the new filers, did you get the REF with the same questions that were on the new forms? I just got an e-mail from someone and they also waited for the new forms and got the same repeat questions. Why do you think that is?

    Two more days and I am going to my home away from home. I am so excited. Will be catching the beginning of Sunsplash in Priory. Great lineup for the first night. I am still debating if I will delay my return home to stay for the entire party....

    Morning Darlene

    I have not rec an RFE yet... I say YET because it seems like I am right behind you. From what I understand you used the new forms to file your 129F the one that asked if you used a marriage broker?? and you still got an RFE (and the person who e/mailed you same thing?) confusing. :blink:

    Mango (mindy 2)

  5. sorry ladies but i have to let off a little steam.....no offence to the newbies who just got approved or their Noa 1

    i am getting so MAD...don't get me wrong i am happy for the new people on VJ who are getting approved...but it just doesn't seem fair that a lot of them sent int there petitions in like may or even june and they are getting approved and getting NOA2's while I am approved and waiting for lord knows how long until they even get to my RFE...it just doesn't seem fair...mike would be here in the states.. :(:(

    UGH..... I'm sorry :( Wish I coudl say something that would make you feel better. I know saying things like ... It will all work out...... Don't worry ..... etc....... are NOT what you want to hear. I could post you a funny trip report if you'd like? Might make you smile :goofy:

  6. Mango Mindy...what 3 letters does your reciept number start with? That will determine what service center it is at. Also what is the JA scene like around Portland? Anything exciting? And not to be nosey or anything but what is your connection to JA? How did you meet your fiance?

    Where in Seattle are you? First 3 of my receipt = WAC

    JA scene in Portland?!?! hahahahahahahaha let me say it again... hahahahahahahahahahaha

    :) seriously though...... hardly anything. What about where you are?

  7. :help:

    ok ladies i need some help here...i asked mike thinking he would know but he doesn't...

    anyway there is a song by Damian Marley i think it is he that sings it..anyway in the song he sings a chorus about drinking blue mountian iced coffee or something like that.. does anyone know the name of that song?????? please it is killing me!!!!!!!!!!!

    ok i am updating....i found it...no thanks to mike...it is called HEY GIRL...it is a great song!!!! :yes::yes:

    One of my favorite songs... I dowloaded it on my cell phone and when my phone rings... you hear

    HEY GIRL THE WAY YOU MAKE ME FEEL I KNOW YOUR LOVE IS REAL YOU SATISFY MY EVERY WANT AND NEED... .. it's very loud! LOL Also Welcome to Jamrock plays when my best friend and fellow Jamaica traveler calls... now everyone who knows me sings along with both songs when the phone rings. :thumbs:

  8. Also.. here's a question...... I'm guessing some of these matches are interracial, as mine is, so I would love to hear how your family reacted.. if they reacted and if so how. .... good / bad / indifferent.. etc.... anyone still dealing with the repurcussions of your choice?

    Mango (Mindy II )

    my family is "dealing" with it...my sister is actaully the best out of my whole family...my parents really don't want me to do this...they feel i am making a HUGE mistake ect....it has taken my mom a little over 2 years to aknowledge that i am in a relationship...as far as ever meeting mike she says she is not sure when she will ever be able to meet him...which makes me very sad and is hard for me to understand...but for whatever reason it is hard for her...as for my dad he just wants the best for me and doesn't want to see me get hurt...how about your family???

    Well my family isn't dealing with it because they don't know.. :whistle: While I was in JA for a month I invited my mom to visit and she came for 12 days... On the way to JA I told her "you know I met someone right" she replied... "OH"... Gregory picked us up at the airport and stayed at the house with us in the same bedroom as me so I'm sure she got the picture. I know that challenging does not begin to describe what it will be like when we marry. The think is I'm a grown woman, 37 almost 38, and I shouldn't care what my family thinks .. to a certain degree I don't.. BUT they are my family and Ihave respect for my parents, grandparents etc... that I do care what they think... sooo......

    I am very sad for your mom that after 2 years she still doesn't even want to mee the man you are going to share your life with. Difficult. ARe you originally from Philly? I use to Nanny in Boston, MA & Ohio many many moons ago... LOL

  9. Mango Mindy...what 3 letters does your reciept number start with? That will determine what service center it is at. Also what is the JA scene like around Portland? Anything exciting? And not to be nosey or anything but what is your connection to JA? How did you meet your fiance?

    Thanks to everyone for a warm welcome! :star:

    Jamie

    Nice to see a fellow Pacific Northwester ... HELLO... To answer your quesitons

    1. Receipt starts with WAC Where is that??

    2. Not sure how much or how little info you guys like on "how we met" stories??

    I was staying at the Gloustershire hotel in Mobay with my best friend, she was out on the balcony making conversation with passerbys while I was in the room taking a nap. Along walked Gregory and started chatting with my friend, they made plans to meet later in the hotel lobby with the understanding that her "friend that was sleeping" would be joining them. When I woke up from my nap, less than 2 hrs, my friend had somehow manged to make friends with several people while standing out on the balcony.. LOL

    I was like.. uh.... what?? we're meeting WHO, WHERE, WHY ?!?!?! I wasn't all that thrilled but agreed to go along so we went down to the lobby at the appointed time and there he was... Gregory. We walked to The Brewery to get a bite to eat and a drink. By the time we had finished eating, drinking we were together.

    soooo... that's the basic "how we met" story... so here we are almost 1.5 years later ... and of course many ups and downs during that time.

    Since I am new to the board and at the risk of making everyone repeat themselves I would LOVE to hear how everyone met their SO... please share with me. I need some good reading, it's to hot to sleep!!

    Also.. here's a question...... I'm guessing some of these matches are interracial, as mine is, so I would love to hear how your family reacted.. if they reacted and if so how. .... good / bad / indifferent.. etc.... anyone still dealing with the repurcussions of your choice?

    Mango (Mindy II )

  10. Thanks for all the "welcomes" looking forward to being part of this family :dance:

    2 questions today:

    1. I rec the first NOA and at the bottom is says California service center, I sent it to Nebraska, I'm guessing this means I've been transferred to CA ?

    2. I reg my receipt number on the uscis website but how can you tell if you've been "touched" ???

    It's gonna be hot hot hot here all weekend BUT I'm going to the Northwest Reggae Festival.. woo hooo.. 3 days of great music! The only down side is camping in a tent... i'm not really a camping in the woods type of person but since it's gonna be so hot it will probably be nice to sleep outside! :thumbs:

    Hope everyone has a great day.

    Does anyone have the Yahoo link that I can look at wedding pic's / and or other pics of member??

  11. Ok... so I thought I was being slick and posting a new topic in THIS forum.. the "yardies" when I went to check this morning I see that I posted a NEW TOPIC in the NEW TOPIC forum.. imagine that. :) sooo.. thanks to those who saw me there and replied and I'm going to post again in THIS forum and hope it goes to the right place.

    Hello everyone, my name is Mindy and I've been lurking for a few weeks now and finally decided to start posting. Reading this thread is like reading a novel, it was fun to start at the beginning and read the stories, ups/downs and all arounds that everyone has experienced. I've found this forum to be a lifesaver so thank you thank you thank you.

    I live in Portland, Oregon. My fiancée is from Montego Bay and we met almost 1.5 years ago. I've submitted my I-129F and have rec my first NOA. I have some questions regarding things I've seen posted.

    ok..

    I see/read you guys talking about pictures of weddings etc... but don't know where you go to view them or is it by private e/mail ??

    It looks like everyone's signature has a ticker/timeline that is different than the one in "My profile" how do you do that?

    Are there any topics that are OFF LIMITS?? I REALLY enjoyed the discussion regarding adjusting to life in the U.S and challenges that you've had in your relationships. It's a great heads up.

    I will be going to JA Sept 3-11.. woo hoo... I was there for a month May 12th - June 10th and was planning on NOT returning till the interview or to fly home together but just could not go that long without seeing my honey! I know you cannot get a "guesstimate" but by what I've seen it seems like it will take a minimum of 6 months but more liked 6-8 months (knock on wood/cross you fingers/ well you know what I mean)

    I've had contact directly with a couple people from this forum and want to say THANK YOU ! I really appreciate you taking the time to connect with me and offer your support.

    Looking forward to the journey ahead.

    Mindy ( mangogirl ) because I LOVE LOVE LOVE mango's !! and not just the fruit but mango daiquiris (sp?), mango margaritas, mango martini etc...

  12. Hello everyone, my name is Mindy and I've been lurking for a few weeks now and finally decided to start posting. Reading this thread is like reading a novel, it was fun to start at the beginning and read the stories, ups/downs and all arounds that everyone has experienced. I've found this forum to be a lifesaver so thank you thank you thank you. :thumbs:

    I live in Portland, Oregon. My fiancée is from Montego Bay and we met almost 1.5 years ago. I've submitted my I-129F and have rec my first NOA. I have some questions regarding things I've seen posted.

    ok..

    I see/read you guys talking about pictures of weddings etc... but don't know where you go to view them or is it by private e/mail ??

    It looks like everyone's signature has a ticker/timeline that is different than the one in "My profile" how do you do that?

    Are there any topics that are OFF LIMITS?? I REALLY enjoyed the discussion regarding adjusting to life in the U.S and challenges that you've had in your relationships. It's a great heads up.

    I will be going to JA Sept 3-11.. woo hoo... I was there for a month May 12th - June 10th and was planning on NOT returning till the interview or to fly home together but just could not go that long without seeing my honey! I know you cannot get a "guesstimate" but by what I've seen it seems like it will take a minimum of 6 months but more liked 6-8 months (knock on wood/cross you fingers/ well you know what I mean)

    I've had contact directly with a couple people from this forum and want to say THANK YOU ! I really appreciate you taking the time to connect with me and offer your support. :luv:(L)

    Looking forward to the journey ahead.

    Mindy ( mangogirl ) because I LOVE LOVE LOVE mango's !! and not just the fruit but mango daiquiris (sp?), mango margaritas, mango martini etc...

  13. mangogirl,

    http://www.k1poelist.com/

    Yodrak

    Hi, I have a questions regarding coming into JFK.. I heard that if New York is your POE on a K-1 Visa they will give you a 90 day temp work permit/stamp/paper? Is that true? How do I find out the specifics on this if it's true? I looked to the guides but didn't see anything but I am probably missing it. Thank you and I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad I found VJ!!

    Thanks Yodrak!

  14. Are you coming into JFK ?

    ?

    She is not a K1.

    Hi, I have a questions regarding coming into JFK.. I heard that if New York is your POE on a K-1 Visa they will give you a 90 day temp work permit/stamp/paper? Is that true? :help: How do I find out the specifics on this if it's true? I looked to the guides but didn't see anything but I am probably missing it. Thank you and I am SOOOOOOOOOOOOO glad I found VJ!! :star:

  15. Ultimately, prayer is your best protection. Going through marriage without prayer is like walking a high wire without a safety net. Always remember that prayer succeeds when all else fails.

    Me and Mindy find that lots of Appelton Rum and Absolut vodka work pretty good too :lol::P:devil:

    :jest: Ha Ha Ha.... that cracked me up! I'm a Mindy also and agree w/ you 100%..... haaa haaa

  16. We also sent to Nebraska as required and a week later got the NOA1 stating our case had been transfered to California.

    Since then we've received the IMBRA RFE and have been touched once... Looks like they're working on March cases now, so... be patient!!

    Did it actually state that you had been transferred to CSC? I can't find anything about that, and I really really want to know where my case is! :-)

    I mailed my 129-f to Nebraska and it to was Transferred to CSC.. I received my 1st NOA today and at the bottom of the form it says

    California Service Center

    Nebraska Received my application on 7/7 and I rec the NOA today, 7/17, from CSC.

  17. Hi Everyone, I'm been reading this forum for a couple weeks now and I want to say THANK YOU ! ! I wasn't sure I/we could do this on our own but after reading about everyone's situation/experience I know, with your help, we can do it! :luv: ok...

    I am in the U.S. sent my 129F off to Nebraska on 7/5/05 priority mail with delivery confirmation. Nothing new on usps.com so don't know if it's reached the place yet...

    I was reading, and still trying to figure it out/get a grasp, on the processing times, procedures.. when I looked at the report for Nebraska processing 129 F it said.. processed @ CSC.. ?? what does that mean?

    From what I've read, and I could be wrong, it sounds like some applications were sent from 1 center to another is this correct or am I way off ?

    Anyone have experience with the Jamaican government?

    Thanks again for all your wonderful posts... .

    One love

    Mindy

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