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shonna&asante

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  1. I front loaded pretty well, i believe lol you never truly kno, but i was just asking cause over 6 months we have 2000 chats lol and thats 6 months in 2016.. We got the screen shots and things extra, and i knew how i broke it down when i front loaded. It was just a question to reach out to my fellow k1 peers on how they broke it down.

  2. Most people come on here to vent about their frustrations of going through the process, being that we all have this one thing in common and understand what most people going through this life changing moment. Physically, emotionally, mentally and definitely finacially, this process takes a toll on most of us. Its not about self pitty, its about being in this enviroment where you can vent at times and people understand you, cause people in your social circle might not understand as people on here.. Not all of us plan for these things, so its like a "dang" moment when we turn that corner, though we may piss and moan about it we still hustle and flow to make the monies and get through the process..Some of us just vent about it on here to relieve stress. We are all in this together it shouldnt have to get into all this negativity... lol as much as we all be on whatsapp, fb, and any other txting and social media we all should know how to type without the other person taking it some kind of way lol! As in the words of the great Bob Marley "lets get together and feel alright" i love that man lol

  3. THANK YOU GUYS SOOO MUCH!! WE PAID 120 CEDIS ON NOV24 WITH A EXTRA 80 TO PROCESS IT FASTER.. i was just really curious how much other people paid, cause someone ssid it was 30 cedis... which it might of been true 10 years ago lol... new day and age!! Everything has gone up lol!

  4. You make a good point!The pic is not that exclusive where it looks like a booty lol.. Of course we front loaded well, but its always that thought of did i do enough? So i think this evidence packet that he must give them will contain things thats not in my uscis packet. Im feeling positive, very positive! I was worried but I put it in the hands of the lord, he has us, regardless of the outcome we are together forever!!

  5. haha. Totally understand. I can't give specifics on what works or what doesn't as in for Ghana. I have worked rotationally in Africa(Angola) and know couple people from Ghana; but other than that yea couldn't tell you honestly. Just sharing a view point.

    Hopefully again you can get some better insight from other Ghana members here on VJ.

    I understand, but thank you soo much!

  6. I've heard of this being done/ thought of to be presented...but, like some people I assume would agree... A tattoo, is just a tattoo, regardless of what it says... People here have gotten pregnant/had a baby together, and all that says is "those people had sex".... So I doubt that would be considered as serious evidence...

    But, by all means, add that, can't hurt.

    Whoops!! But good point! Thats very true!

  7. Hello all! Got a question or two. In 2014 months before i went to visit my fiance i got his name tattooed really big on my butt cheek, we have a picture thats showing him kissing the area where his name is, its not provocative and you just see the name with a little cheek. Would it be okay to add that to our evidence packet? And has anyone besides a lovely couple i talked to on here did something like a love story evidence book?

  8. I tracked the packet after I called NVC to get my case number using this link:

    https://ceac.state.gov/ceacstattracker/status.aspx

    So the status changed to "ready". Before it said "At NVC" and "In transit". So now it's at the consulate and I believe I have to wait about 4-6 weeks until they contact me to let me know my fiancé can pick up packet 3. In the mean time we are working on filling out the DS 160.

    Thank you soo much i just looked up my case and it says ready. So i guess we are waiting for the packets. We already got the ds160 filled out once we got notification of nvc mailing it. Nerves are kicking in!!

  9. Its alllllllll gooooooood! We are all grown, and we have alot on our plates than a message... Wasnt taking it serious, i do apologize if I came off like that, myself.. This is a mini support group for people like us, none of my friends understand nothing im going through, so it feels awesome to come on here and appreciate all of you that feels the same pain i feel... this journey doesnt feel so hard having all of yous here..

    Its alllllllll gooooooood! We are all grown, and we have alot on our plates than a message... Wasnt taking it serious, i do apologize if I came off like that, myself.. This is a mini support group for people like us, none of my friends understand nothing im going through, so it feels awesome to come on here and appreciate all of you that feels the same pain i feel... this journey doesnt feel so hard having all of yous here..

  10. Sorry I just got service back. I'm sorry if what I said before made anyone think I said that anyone was not thankful or that anyone is ungrateful or shouldn't vent. I was trying to say look at it as a positive even though the waiting stinks (stinks a lot) and some embassies are hard like Gahana just be thankful at least we can all be together. I was trying to say something positive not insult anyone and I'm sorry if it came out wrong. That was not my intention. If we can't vent here or with each other who can we vent to? No one will understand this and what we are talking about unless you have gone through it or you are going through it. No one will understand what it's like to have a be in love with someone who lives across the oceans and no matter how strong your evidence is the fact that your relationships fate is in someone else's hands a complete stranger will judge your relationship. Again, I'm sorry if I insulted anyone. Sorry for the late response I just got back into wifi. Good luck to everyone I hope everyone gets their approval soon!!!

  11. Thats sooooooo true!!! I wasnt going to go, but somethings telling me to go, cause ghana is a trip!! It shouldnt be this hard to be with someone you love! I am sure all of us in these LDRs, didnt dream of being in one! You just cant controll who you fall in love with and where! I hate someone has to look in my fiance face and tell him if our love is real or not, no matter how much proof you provide.... Regardless staying positive, cause one monkey dont stop no show!!!

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