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  1. Thank you. I was planning on staying with him in Mexico until the K-3 would be approved but I wasn't wanting to be there more than 3 months. Can the K-3 visa be appproved?

    This is probably a bad idea.. the whole point of the waiver is to make the case that living with your spouse in his home country would be a hardship to you.. if you're living with him while it is processing.. that would really poke some pretty large holes in your argument...

    I have thought about that. We was going to get married in Mexico and I was going to stay there while he finished College and got the visa approved. Do you think if I left and went back to the US after the wedding, then waited until it was approved and then came back there? Do you think that would work? Sorry if I confused you.

    Thank you

  2. Without trying to step on your toes, why are you posting to questions on illegals (your fiance, your sister's husband) on the same board? Is that a coincidence or are you out for a flame war? Are the issues somehow connected?

    I posted about my fiance because I have got so stressed out that I made myself sick thinking about what to do. I wish my fiance was legal but he is not and I can't help who I fall in love with. I am just scared and I just want him to be legal so we don't have to worry all the time and so he can see his family again. So I thought it would hurt to ask for some advise.

    When I posted about my fiance I thought maybe someone might know about my sister's situation so I thought I would ask.

    Fair enough. Best thing to do for both of you would probably hire a lawyer and have him/her help you with making your spouses/fiances legal. Try posting in the waiver-forum for some more specific advice.

    Oh, and normally people on this board are really helpful, but there's currently some frustration when it comes to illegals. Just ignore it; there's nothing you can do to change the fact that your fiance is illegal and most people know that finding someone's love doesn't always entail first checking their immigration status or criminal history.

    Thank You So Much

    God Bless You

  3. Yes, my dear I DO think about status and if they are following the law. How can you say "if they are responsible" you do think about spending your life with them. Well your fiance/husband IS NOT responsible for having a FAKE SS card!

    Yes I agree that was irresponsible for him to do but in the United States, you can't work, you can't get a lisense, and you can't even cash a check without a SS card and without an Id. So he felt like he had no other choice.

    My sister's husband refused to get a fake SS card because he doesn't think that is right so he breaks his back and works six days a week/ 12 hour days just to bring home a normal amount of money.

    So which situation is better and who are you to judge? These are both God fearing men and God is there only judge.

    My sister has been happily married for a while, her husband has been supporting the family. They have two children; a 4 year old and a 3 month old. They have never been away from each other for more than a day. If he goes back to Mexico how is she supposed support the family and how is she supposed explain to their children why their dad is gone. She will not tell her children that he had to leave because other people doesn't want him here.

    "Also we have a a problem he uses a fake soc. security card and resident card. Can they find out?"

    As most of us here have to jump through all the hoops that USCIS deceide just to get our Residents Card... I have no simpathy for his situation... sorry

    As my Greencard went missing in the mail.... for all I know it could have been doctored and is now being used by someone just like your fiance... That just makes it harder for all of us...

    Kezzie

    My fiance SS Card is his name and it comes from a number that DOESN'T EXIST. When it comes to people using SS cards that do exist I don't support it. Please don't judge him.

  4. Without trying to step on your toes, why are you posting to questions on illegals (your fiance, your sister's husband) on the same board? Is that a coincidence or are you out for a flame war? Are the issues somehow connected?

    I posted about my fiance because I have got so stressed out that I made myself sick thinking about what to do. I wish my fiance was legal but he is not and I can't help who I fall in love with. I am just scared and I just want him to be legal so we don't have to worry all the time and so he can see his family again. So I thought it would hurt to ask for some advise.

    When I posted about my fiance I thought maybe someone might know about my sister's situation so I thought I would ask.

    If you know they are illegal why marry them in the first place?

    When you are considering living the rest of your life with somebody you don't think about status. You think about the kind of person they are, if they are responsible, and if you want to have children with that person.

  5. My sister is married to a illegal immigrant from Mexico. They went to one attorney and she told them that they would have to wait for the law to change. So basically it sounds like he wont be able to ever become legal. Does any of you know what they could do?

    Thank You

  6. my fiance came here illegally 6 years ago from Mexico. We started dating a year and a half ago and we are now getting married. We talked to one attorney and she said the best option is for us is to get married in Mexico and then apply for the K-3 visa and the I-130 visa. Does any of you think this is the best option? Also we have a a problem he uses a fake soc. security card and resident card. Can they find out?

    Thank You

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