Sophia78

Thank you, guys! I appreciate it!

Any other advice?

you mean there is no need to call USCIS to remind them about my new address and take the interview as the notice has arranged? is it ok for PA give GC to NJ's resident?

THis is my situation now. My hubby called USCIS on 6/13 for changing our address from PA to NJ, which they sent me the address changed notice on 6/20. Today I got my interview date which is supposes to be great news, but the problem is they sent the interview notice to my old address on 6/19, just one day between these two notices.

According to the notice, I should show up for the interview at Philadelphia distrct office on 8/30 which is serving for PA. Now I am living in NJ. Is it ok for me to be interviewed in PA since it is just 15 to 20 minutes furthar away from the Newark office ? Will there be any problem going to the Philly office?

In fact, i should ask my hubby to call USCIS again to try to sort it out, but I am afraid they will rearrange my interview to Nework, NJ on another date, who knows when that will be .

Should I just go to take this interview in Philly? is there anyone here who has gone through things like this before?

Gosh, Please help me out here!!!

Hi, Guys

I just got the notice for Biometrics Appointment for this Thursday . I am wondering what to expect, what will happen and What I shall take with me? Any advice? Does it mean I am gonna get my work paper soon? Is it useful to ask people works there when I can get my Work paper and green card?

I am gonna move to another State next month, when is the best tell to inform USCIS? How? will this moving thing delay my case?

Any reply will be very appreciated!

Good Luck to everyone!

Sophia

I am just kinda feel sorry for my husband, he has no real friends and no relatives except his mom, who drinks and smokes and has no much time to spend with him. He used to have my whole heart and i was so willing to help him, but since he is so selfish and unfeeling about what i am going through here, I have to learn how to protect myself now.

If I can't pass the green card interview, I will go back to China, so I figure I should make the best of my time that I gonna spend here.

By the way, he isn't so helpful when it comes to prepare documents for my immigration. He just hates dealing with any paperworks. I did my I-485 package myself, so I have no idea about if it gonna work out. my marriage is cold as hell!!!

thanks you guys! great replies! I learnt a lot from what you have said in the posts.

it is a waste of time for me to spend time worrying about the green card and if he really loves me. I should try to improve myself and try to be independent. no matter where I will live, I have to stand on my own feet, right? I will try my best to prove I am not useless and I won't let my parents down and worry about me from so far away. But one thing I havelearnt is that love is not what I can live on! I have to grow up this time! there is not a fair-tale at least it isn't happening in my life.

I really truly apprecate everyone of you here giving me great ideas and advices here which means a lot to me. You have no idea how much I need a friend to listen to me now. I went crazy last couple days. You guys save my sanity.

I will be fine and wish you guys the best!!!

thanks a lot!

Any other advice is always welcomed here!!!

I tried to tell him what I concerned. But he said I had nothing here in usa, so i had nothing to lose, he is gonna put everything in the house, he won't take the risk to put me on the house. He even said If I wanted, I could fucky go bakc to Chian. I am heart broken. I can't let my family down again. I was divorced once before. I feel I already lost everything. Now I am afraid to even talking about this issue, since he would be mad and break stuff in the house which is really crazy.

currently, I has no job and I dont' know how to drive, so I stay at home all day long. no people to talk to, his mom who has divorced with his father agreed his decision on this. So nobody is standing by me. what hurts me the most is he doesn't love me the way I want. I want to work and learn driving, but he doesn't help me now, he is so busy with his dream house. He is not rich, he won't spend money on a marriage counselor. his money will go to his house.

I really don't know what kind choice i am having now. I don't know the law here. What kind of rights i have in this marriage? he killed my dream.....

But still thank you guys for kindy replies

Hi, everybody

I am a k1 holder and has married my American husband for over 2 months. Now he is gonna buy a very expensive house which will definitly need my future help to pay every month's mortgage. After all the research i have done from our site, I knew the deed of both names would help my green card interview, so i asked him if he would put my name on the deed too for this reason. He refused right away and said we just married 2 months, he wouldn't be able to sleep if my name was on the deed.

I am so sad now. I came here again my family and my friends' will for i trust the love he has promised to give me. I know he has his reasons and I am trying to understand him, but is it real love? I am scared!

What can i do? Can anybody here help me go through this? I feel mentally abused for he called me ######. Gosh, I am so so so sad!

I have thought about coming back but i can't face my family after all these happened in the past. I am living in NJ now.

Please help me!

do i need to inculde a copy of my husband's birth certificate in my I-485 package? there is a copy of mine in it already!

thanks for all the replies!!!

I am gonna send out my I-485 package soon. But still not sure about where to mail and how to pay for the fees? I am a k-1 holder and living in PA. I have to send my case to Chicago Lockbox too, right? I want to use my husband's personal check to pay for the fees, since I don't want to bother to get Money orders. is that ok?

Thanks!