nordia&calvin

Heandi , u are funny. But I am thinking about it. AALOT

I don't think I want to or even can have a child. Am not worried about that, am not sure I want one. But he wants one. He feels don't want to because I don't want to stay. And that might help me to stay

OK. Thank you.

OK guys. Now am lost. Will need to think ALOT more.

Anyways. He is interested in having a child. I have a 15% chance of getting pregnant. Because I don't want to had a child, he feels am not committed to being with him. Will having a baby increase my chance on any of these Aos or cr1 options

Thank you lala64. I think I will take that advice

Jawaree. Thanks so much. I feel this will be best for our situation. My fiance will not be fund of it because he is scared he will be alone and die in the house and no one will be there to find him until days later.

OK, thanks again. All of this have just given me so me help, but so much to think about. I will pool all the advice together and see what I come up with.

OK, thank you

Jawree. Thanks for that. His two sons are OK with it. Hid daughter is mad as a fox. But she don't take care of him so he don't care. She don't call or anything until she want some money. But I was not aware that I can travel withe the filing is done. Explain pls

What I mean, it that I don't want to stay in the USA trying for aos and it takes a long time, or even denied at all levels. That would be time wasted and away from my son. If my son was here then it could take as long as it wants, but I can't be without him too long.

He don't want to leave his business to come to Jamaica. So I think I will marry him here then go to Jamaica to do the filing.

Oh, thank you. I think this is my best option. I really love him, but am very scared of being illegal in the USA and not being able to go home to my soon

OK. I will read about that and see how that can work. Thank you

I have already provided a great life for me son. I have a degree in special education, and make good money at it. We r not desperate. As much as he is the us citizen he is more desperate than I am

Love has no limit as u said. But we met in a time that we both need each other. I had just done four surgeries after giving birth to my son. I can't have anymore kids and there is no feeling in my #######. I would be tough to ask someone my age to deal with that. My fiance, just accept me as I am

I think so too. But he is still up an about. Has his own security company, that he don't want to sell. Or his house. So moving is not an option for him.

Hello everyone. I would like your opinion on my situation.

I am in the USA on a visitor visa. My fiance wants me to stay and get married. I love him so marrying him is not an issue, the thing is I have a year and half old son that I left in Jamaica and I don't want to leave him very long.

I think if I do get married, the process for the aos will be very long. Mainly be of the gap in our age. I am 27 and he is 88. We met at the right time when we both needed each other and he was in love with me and I have since grown to love him.

I am thinking to go back home and try to get a study visa and that way I can carry my son as a dependent. Then get married. Or we apply for a work visa as his housewife. We are looking for the best way that I don't have to leave my son for too long.

What are your thoughts and opinion .

Thanks much