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  1. As someone engaged to a younger man, I didn't see Sarah's comments directed at my relationship. I would have been the first to correct her if I thought she crossed the line. All she did was express her opinion as it would felt to her.

    me thinnks thou doest protest too much

    As someone married to a younger man, I saw Sarah's comments directed not only at my relationship, but at others here who deserve more respect than she was giving us. I did correct her because she crossed the line. All I did was express my opinion as it felt to me. Me thinks many of you older women, some of whom complained about her yesterday, are today afraid to stand up for yourselves out of fear of being flamed like I was for doing so. But, if that is how you want it, you got it because most people here think it's quite alright for people to make negative remarks about your relationships.

    That is my opinion about that. I am entitled to it, as you are to yours.

    As a woman married to a younger man, seeing all these comments don't really bother me anymore. At first they did, but as I continued to read the comments made by the younger crowd I learned that most of the ladies making the judemental comments really have not lived life much and are probably going to be eating all their words one day. Seems much of the younger crowed on this forum seem to have the answer for everything when in fact, they are just babes themselves and need to live a little more in order for me to respect anything they have to say.

    For me it's weird. Why? Cause I am 23 and if I were to marry a younger man he would be 3 years old or so. Doesn't that make sense to anyone? I never judged anyone, I said it's gross FOR ME. I never pointed my finger at anyone or said so and so is gross! You can call me a baby, that's fine. I like being young. I would never marry a man 20 years older than myself I think it's gross.

    Ok so you only respect old people? I hope you're not married to a younger man cause if you are you just insulted him as well. Good work!

    I understand what you say and I agree with it. In fact, I told Sarah that her age was a factor in her thinking and that when she got older, she would probebly undersand, and I could let it go. What did I get for conceding that? People b!thching about how I didn't respect her opinions because of her age!

    You conceded it by making a poll about it and arguing for about 3 more hours?

    First of all, because you are ONLY 23 it would be retarded to really say you would marry someone much younger than you at this point in your life. Say in 20 years you have a life change and are not with your husband now. Would your views change? My husband is 5 years younger than me, is NOT in his 20's and has much more knowledge regarding life issues. Also, I don't see how anything I said insulted my husband in any way, shape or form. Oh wait, maybe if I was younger I would think that.

  2. As someone engaged to a younger man, I didn't see Sarah's comments directed at my relationship. I would have been the first to correct her if I thought she crossed the line. All she did was express her opinion as it would felt to her.

    me thinnks thou doest protest too much

    As someone married to a younger man, I saw Sarah's comments directed not only at my relationship, but at others here who deserve more respect than she was giving us. I did correct her because she crossed the line. All I did was express my opinion as it felt to me. Me thinks many of you older women, some of whom complained about her yesterday, are today afraid to stand up for yourselves out of fear of being flamed like I was for doing so. But, if that is how you want it, you got it because most people here think it's quite alright for people to make negative remarks about your relationships.

    That is my opinion about that. I am entitled to it, as you are to yours.

    As a woman married to a younger man, seeing all these comments don't really bother me anymore. At first they did, but as I continued to read the comments made by the younger crowd I learned that most of the ladies making the judemental comments really have not lived life much and are probably going to be eating all their words one day. Seems much of the younger crowed on this forum seem to have the answer for everything when in fact, they are just babes themselves and need to live a little more in order for me to respect anything they have to say.

  3. I can see that I guess,. I dont know, I would feel guilty translating my husbands provate convos. I mean if I was worried I'd ask him what was being said...

    I trust my husband enough and our love that if someone WAS trying to break us up, he wouldn't because he loves me...but I trust him with all my heart so maybe it's different?

    My husband and I have the same ID so it's not like I'm invading his privacy or anything. I trust my husband, but I DO NOT trust her. My husband has told me how in the past she would try kissing him then she would cry and act innocent when he would tell her to back off. Now she has a hair up her butt thinking she is going to come here and stay with us!!!!! Oh HE$$ NO!

  4. Can anyone tell me what this phrase means?

    "klt lh baklm gosy"

    My husband said it means "I speak with my husband".

    He said that "GOSY" is the same as "RAJILI" in Morocco.

    Mary K.

    Thanks so much! What about "ana zahaan men elenglizy"

    I'm a little curious, my husband chats with his female cousin quite often and always asks him to type in arabic. I don't know if she says this so I can't read or what. Or maybe I'm reading into this all too much.

  5. bring some back for everyone meriem!

    jean you gotta be careful make sure to down a lot of water when you drink those meals, pre-packeged foods are chuck full of salt and preservatives and that salt holds onto water weight!

    Oh yes! Those meals I had to finally give up. I notice every time I ate them I would be farting for hours. Those painful ones! Must be the preservatives or something in them. Felt like I was going to deliver something every time I ate one.

  6. Arabs don't put up with BS! Like if you kill a person, they kill you, no farting around in the system. You comment adultry and are caught, you end up dead and no one knows what happens. I saw this when I was in Kuwait. Then again I would see serious fights over nothing at all. Like one day, a dude was walking by and accidently hit at table and spilled the mans tea. I seriously thought the poor man was going to be killed because of this.

  7. ok, i understand that bosco but why when someone disgrees with the topic posted, they get hammered for it?

    also....islam is a contraversial subject.....its apparent as it has stirred up sooo much drama here....i dont know about all of yuo, but if people were bashing my religion, i would take my opinions and such elsewhere where people believed in the same things as me

    It has stirred up so much drama. Don't get me wrong, I have nothing against Islam. I am learning to love this religion more each day and am sure I will convert in the future. I just feel when something is posted regarding any religion, Islam in particular, there will be some comments made that does not make some people happy. Sometimes I almost cringe when I see another thread started about Islam because I know that it is going to turn into a fighting match eventually.

  8. Are you just now figuring this out? All the time I've been on these threads all I hear is how bad muslims are, finally someone knows that there are crwazy so-called christians out there too. Anyone who is a true follower of God no matter what their religion needs their head checked when they start talking like this.

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