God help me, Ive gone through 2 yrs of hell. He refuses to help with bills. Keeps all his bank account private. He is cold, allusive, abusive with words, has fits of rage or passive aggressiveness destroying everything in his path and only things he knows I value. He refuses to keep a steady job, help around the house in anyway, expects me to wait on treats me like a servant, sleeps alone often yet wants sex, like he is a price, uses forceful sex, has got me in almost 20,000. in debt including back taxes from his business I helped him set up. He hates my cooking so I stopped trying tp please him, he spends most his time on games and on his new iphphone or apple computer while he destroyed mine in anger. All on charge or credit. He tells me in anger he will leave all the bills to me and go home. He does what he wants when he wants and if I confront him, he goes off like a firecracker. I have nothing left. He refuses to share me with his friends and family or to post he is married publicly anywhere. I need serious help and after all the verbal abuse I have completely fallen out of love with him. We are awaiting the meeting to remove his conditions. Im so mad at being used for him to just get here I dont want him to stay under these conditions, but can find no help online for abused sponsers, only for the immigrant. Someone help me, my Hell grows every day. All the things I harassed him over for a year, he now is telling me he has issues with like having kids, sharing bank accounts, sending money home instead of contributing here. I pay for the roof over his head and all food and utilities. He even drives my car. He just keeps getting himself more and more in debt and I want out from under his evil plans to hurt me. He even will have nothing to do with my family or friends. Where can I go to get help?
Fiancee I-29f K-1 Need help with abusive immigrant
in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits
Posted · Edited by Thisplacerules
God help me, Ive gone through 2 yrs of hell. He refuses to help with bills. Keeps all his bank account private. He is cold, allusive, abusive with words, has fits of rage or passive aggressiveness destroying everything in his path and only things he knows I value. He refuses to keep a steady job, help around the house in anyway, expects me to wait on treats me like a servant, sleeps alone often yet wants sex, like he is a price, uses forceful sex, has got me in almost 20,000. in debt including back taxes from his business I helped him set up. He hates my cooking so I stopped trying tp please him, he spends most his time on games and on his new iphphone or apple computer while he destroyed mine in anger. All on charge or credit. He tells me in anger he will leave all the bills to me and go home. He does what he wants when he wants and if I confront him, he goes off like a firecracker. I have nothing left. He refuses to share me with his friends and family or to post he is married publicly anywhere. I need serious help and after all the verbal abuse I have completely fallen out of love with him. We are awaiting the meeting to remove his conditions. Im so mad at being used for him to just get here I dont want him to stay under these conditions, but can find no help online for abused sponsers, only for the immigrant. Someone help me, my Hell grows every day. All the things I harassed him over for a year, he now is telling me he has issues with like having kids, sharing bank accounts, sending money home instead of contributing here. I pay for the roof over his head and all food and utilities. He even drives my car. He just keeps getting himself more and more in debt and I want out from under his evil plans to hurt me. He even will have nothing to do with my family or friends. Where can I go to get help?