VipperDigger

I do not remember seeing a K2 scenario, however the usual definition requires the adoption to take place before the age of 16 and the child to have been in the custody of the adoptive parent for at least 2 years. If a child was say over 16 it may be quite possible to still adopt but the child gets no immigration benefits to the US.

Hagg international adoption laws does state the parent has to be in local custody for 2 years prior to adopt them, however nothing I can find in Filipino law states this,,, The niece has lived either with my GF parents or my GF sister (not bio mom) since birth and my GF has been the one making all major decisions and basically the person where the buck stops, but she has not been in the Philippines, thus why we are going through Philippine courts to adopt her. So far the lawyer has not indicated any issues stopping the adoption process (she has the means of financial support, has been a presence in her life, been the one she goes to for Mom issues, Bio mom gives approval, etc....) so we seem to be on track for it to be approved...

Also my understanding is there is nothing in embassy rules stopping the visa other than the age of 16 time frames, but that is just so far hearsay, I can not find a written fact where that is...

That is what I wished somebody could point out the laws about this and so far there is nothing I can find, but I am not a lawyer either. All I can find is on the US Immigration site the age is age 21.

She made it sound like with money in the Philippines you can speed up the process just like everything else there.

The whole justice system seems to be run on the greased palm it seems. She however is of strong moral backbone and will not do such. She feels it is one of those things where "no good comes from ill gotten gains" I guess. The particular Judge we have works only 2 days a week, one for criminal, one for civil, thus it runs at a snail’s pace. From day one I stressed time was important and her opinion is all this is under Gods hand, we have prayed about it and need to leave it with Him about what is best.

As far as kids, I already have 4 (1 grown and 3 live with me part time) and she has no kids at all, so adjustment will be on acceptance of her as my wife. I will say my kids will accept her a lot quicker than they will the jerk my ex married..... :-) I know her heart and she will take them in like her own and overlook the differences (large families that live under the same roof as most Filipino’s do have to overlook a lot or would go insane) she may have. I have also involved her with the issues we currently have in my family so she is aware of what she is getting into and can make a decision if she can accept my kids and the troubles they are having...

Boiler, no we both consulted lawyers, she herself had an adoption lawyer for almost a year handling the adoption.. However finding answers about adoption age we are getting mixed answers... The adoption lawyer know adoptions, the Visa lawyers know Visa but not about adoptions it seems.. That appears to be a grey area. Some forums report also the mixed info too...

Our case is an unique one, where she is being adopted at so close to age 16 and the visa process is getting ready to start so few examples exist for us to find a like case. My American lawyer doesn't think it will be a problem until age 21, where her adoption lawyer in Philippines thinks age 16 is the cut off..

As far as parents the father is unknown and could never be located. The mother, my GF sister, was running a wild streak and left the baby with her parents and GF when the niece was 3 days old. IT fell upon my GF duties to raise the child. So my GF has raised this child basically since birth until now, supporting her for all her needs, however she lives in Dubai UAE and therefore she is not physically in the Philippines. This is why we are going the Philippines way of adoption, not the international adoption where the Hagg International Laws come into place with adoptions. We understand there should not be an issue with the Philippine courts nor any family member for the adoption.. She calls my GF her Mom, however she also knows her Bio mom. The bio mom has given approval to the courts to adopt her.

I don't undertand your statement "if your GF wishes to do that then that is a separate issue as to whether it will give her niece any US immigration benefits." because she would legally be my GF daughter at the point of adoption and gain all legal rights afforded any child of a K1 parent and she would have full rights to a K2 visa when we apply for our K1, but it the age of 16 being a cut off place is our question. If she had adopted a year earlier then this would not even be a question, she would just simply be listed on our K1, but because the adoption takes place after niece turns 16 is the only problem...

We did discuss if an amended birth cert would raise red flags and we have physical proof the cert is wrong and we would only be correcting it, (plus gaining the year so she will be adopted at age 15) but how the embassy will view it or not is the problem. These visas are granted by people with human emotions and not always based on logic or rules.

My fiancé is adopting her niece. We have several issues around this. We had the adoption in process for about one year with the court system. However she turns 16 in 12 days. We been told that in order for her to come over on k1/k2 that she must be adopted prior to 16. Her birth certificate states she will be 16 however the mid-wife put down wrong birth year when filing for birth certificate and she will actually be 15. We have to change her birth certificate also now, a daunting task at best.

1: So, anyone know if a Filipno child must be adopted prior to 16 to come over with fiance visa or can she be up to age 21 as per immigration guidelines?

2: If we go ahead and file without her on our k1, will that stop her being able to come over at a later date on her own k2 when my fiancé gets her green card? We have actually already postponed out k1 for a year waiting on the adoption process but now it appears a year wasted...

Any advice?