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Thank you HCJ

yes i know i should just forget about it.

i will look into sending a letter.

as for the affid of support, we did not file the AOS yet, so i havent file the affid of support that goes along with it.

i asume she will get a work visa, since she is an occupational therapist, and her job is in high demand.

not to sound like a #######, but i dont want her in the country. Would her being pregnant constitue a sham marriage? im not sure if it would since it happens alot in USC to USC marriages.

thanks again

ok dmartmar... what part of the quite did you not understand?

did you answer any of the questions i asked? no you didnt? so why reply? hope everyone is not as smart as you.

i said im pretty sure.. maybe i should have said 99.9% sure.. still though. this is besides the point... im not asking if she used me. read the damn post again... i never asked if i was used.

once again any one?

ok to help you out ... for the ones who cant recognize questions.

will the fact she is pregnant, help her stay in this country

will she be able to marry another guy ( the babies father) and file for AOS

will she have to go back to the philippines to start it over again

can she get a work visa to stay here...

sorry if im fustrated, but i didnt come on here to have people tell me i was used. 99.9 is pretty sure. the 0.1% chance is., maybe in some crazy way she had other intents, but i never asked opinions on that.

thanks in advance to anyone who can be nice and helpful

ok one more thing, if you dont have anything to say; that has anything to do with my questions, please dont reply...

im pretty sure i know her intent, but thats besides the point; and it was not my question!

Ok. my wife and her step son entered the US, about one year ago and 3 months...

she stayed with me for 3 months. 90% of the time we argued about sending money to her brother and sister in the philippines. ( things we discussed befreo getting married) and also i am in the military, and she doesnt want to move around alot, she wants to live near her family in california. we also discussed this before marriage. anyways my friends tell me i was used. no way to know, because i can only say what i know in my heart, not hers.

well its been a year now thats shes been gone. and when i get back from the middle east i will be divorced.

we never filed for AOS. she did file for her EAD. we didnt file together because we didnt have the money for the AOS, and we still had plenty of time. she got her EAD in like 3 months, after she left to califonria.

there is no abuse at all. and we are still on good terms, considering the circumstances.

i did not want divorce, she did. this past december i called her to see how she was, and she told me she met a guy in December. was hurt, but its ok, we have been seperated for a while. funny is i called her with intentions of working things out. i was surprised,because she said she was going to take things slow.

well in jan i called her to get her social, for tax purposes, and she said '' i have something to tell you'' and i said what? you preg?.. she said yeah how did u no. i was like man ur dumb.

anyways we will be divorced as of june. her 2 years is up in Nov.

since she is preg, will that help her to stay in the country? im pretty sure thats why she got preg.

i know most people will say not to worry about it, its her problem. but what can i say... its eating at me.. i am also close to her brother before i even marry her, so it will be in the back of my head.

after i really step back and look at this i cant help to wonder er original intents. i think thats normal.

did she pull a fast one on INS? if so i hope she has to pay alot of lawyer fees =)

also can she remarry a new USC? and apply? or would she have to leave the US and do the whole thing again. i think she thinks she can. also can she get a work visa, even if she was here on a k3 visa.

thanks for any insite