Derbys12

Hi peeps getting more excited now!!!

Soon be time for my baby to Visit me! ....Wooooohoooo!!

3 WEEKS and 2 DAYS! .Sorry as you can tell i'm very excited!..........

I Love Sue so damn much!!, Congrats to all people with their visas can't wait for ours to kick off!.

Godbless you all!,............... My internet family!

I will post pcs on here when we get em!.............. when i work out how!!....

I'm off to carry on counting now!............lol

Well people i just had to let you all know that my Darling Sue is coming to see me!! .

She arrives 5 weeks today on my sons birthday!

So shes with me nearly 3 weeks, all my people in the village want to meet her too! lol, and on the second week we going to London for a few days sightseeing, and getting plenty of photos for Immigration too!

My son saids its the best birthday present he could get! ....he's only 7 !

So just had to let my Internet Family know!!!

Cheers people Godbless............... Kevin + Sue xx

Hi peeps!, just a short quick question!, my baby! is coming to see me in England in a few weeks time(just under 2 months)

My question is that she doesn't have a Passport, so... Where and how does she obtain one?

And how long does it usually take?????....

I'm so excited i'm gonna see her again!...

SUE I LOVE YOU BABY!!

Thanks people!..... GodBless you all!

Hi people not sure if i posted this in the correct place or not?....

Right what it is, my divorce here in the UK is nearly final, Sues has a few months to go yet in the USA.

We were going to Apply for the K1 visa, but we were wondering, would there be a quicker way?..

So desperate to be together!!..... would it be quicker if she came here and married me then we went to USA?? or not, and which route would that be?..... Any help at all would be MUCH appreciated!..

I saw someone on here went through VWP and got married and stayed!, done through an immigration Attorney, is that a possible route?....

Thanks guys!..

LOVE YOU SUE!!! XXX

Be easy now Gimy.

I would imagine how he already feels that his little guy got burned.

I know you say whats on your mind, but sometimes adding words that will hurt this man more is really unfair.

He probley goes thru hell everyday worrrying about his decision he is making.

I like you and respect you, but sometimes you should really think before you type something about someones else's child.

I know you mean well, but that was kinda mean to say to this man that is already hurting enough.

Peace out..................Peggy

peggy ...

in all seriousness, i did think before i typed a response about someone's child. as geoff and i are a couple that put the children before the relatinship, i have chosen not to a part of this thread because my opinion on this subject is so strong. we are all responsible for whatever actions we make in our life ... i am not in anyone else's shoes but my own and i know that children are a very touchy subject.

however, i stand by exactly what i said in my previous post and see nothing mean about it. i'm not sure what the regulations are in the UK, but that incident would surely have raised flags here in the US. i really can't even fathom why someone would post a pic of their injured child on the internet. personally, i think he (or Ewok) should remove it.

likewise, i return my like and respect for you ... thank you for sharing your feelings with me!

I must say this reply really really hurt me so much....

I am concerned over the safety of my children i hurt like crazy it was one hour away from them when this happened.

Stupidly thinking they were ok with my wife.Please don't judge me as i havcen't done anything wrong...

And i can Assure you they WILL be going to America with me, got the ball rolling this morning through the solicitor. Thankyou for your post and may God Blesss you.

i'm sorry that my response hurt you, but that does not detract from the severity of the situation you are in. i am certainly not judging you in any fashion and i assume as their father that you have nothing but their best interest at heart. very glad to hear that you have been in touch with a solicitor ... please give them a picture of your child. i hope for nothing less than for you and children to be able to come to america and lead a happy life!

Sorry if anyone can tell me how to remove the pic i will do.Sorry for any offence caused.

Just to let people know especially fretarria, i sat andf had a long chat with my wife, about me going to be with my love in Americsa and her love is coming down from Scotland, but she is adamant that she WILL NOT let me take the kids to America!!!.. .My eldest son(7) is so desperate to go!!, i just don't know what to do!, my solicitor said it would have to go through the high courts. I am the childrens primary carer i have been since they were all born, they are twins of 2 and another boy of 7.

When my wife sees them for an hour a day before she puts them in bed after coming home from work she CAN NOT COPE!, i have them all day and i'm fine... i just don't know what to do people, i don't want to put my kids through a court case but don't want to go without them!.

She samcks my eldest when i'm not in the room, last friday i went for a drink with a friend, 15 mins after being home she decides to tell me one of the twins got scolded!. He picked up a cup of hot tea in the kitchen and she didn't rush to stop him going in the kitchen!.

I pray constantly for this, and help from others about this situation, please people.what should i do!?....

you need to make sure your children are safe ... evidenced by that picture: they are not ... and THAT should be your priority at this moment. other people on the forum have children what were able to communicate their wants to their parents ... your's cannot and your first concern should be their well-being. have you even had a burn that large before?? it's excruciatingly painful.

you don't want to put your children through a court case yet you allow them to be neglected (scalded) and abused ... go to court and settle this. then worry about coming to america. is your true love is in america, she should have no problem flying to the UK to be with you during the wait.

I must say this reply really really hurt me so much....

I am concerned over the safety of my children i hurt like crazy it was one hour away from them when this happened.

Stupidly thinking they were ok with my wife.Please don't judge me as i havcen't done anything wrong...

And i can Assure you they WILL be going to America with me, got the ball rolling this morning through the solicitor. Thankyou for your post and may God Blesss you.

Just to let people know especially fretarria, i sat andf had a long chat with my wife, about me going to be with my love in Americsa and her love is coming down from Scotland, but she is adamant that she WILL NOT let me take the kids to America!!!.. .My eldest son(7) is so desperate to go!!, i just don't know what to do!, my solicitor said it would have to go through the high courts. I am the childrens primary carer i have been since they were all born, they are twins of 2 and another boy of 7.

When my wife sees them for an hour a day before she puts them in bed after coming home from work she CAN NOT COPE!, i have them all day and i'm fine... i just don't know what to do people, i don't want to put my kids through a court case but don't want to go without them!.

She samcks my eldest when i'm not in the room, last friday i went for a drink with a friend, 15 mins after being home she decides to tell me one of the twins got scolded!. He picked up a cup of hot tea in the kitchen and she didn't rush to stop him going in the kitchen!.

I pray constantly for this, and help from others about this situation, please people.what should i do!?....

Hi i could be experiencing this very thing!, i am near the end of my divorce, then i will start my fiance visa off to be with my love Sue in Michigan. I have 3 boys 7,2,2, i have been there main primary carer since they were all Born. My wife goes to work.

My solicitor said she doesn't have much of a chance as she went off to find her old bf from 11 years ago and they want a child of their own!. I'm just busy worrying about being able to take them with me to lived!....gotta go through the high court and stuff. I've already been out to states with eldest boy for nearly 3 weeks,he cried he had to come back to his own mum!.. So i need lots of prayers people and best wishes!..

Watch this space i will keep you all posted,....... Also any advice would be good too!...

Derbys12

Have you talked with your ex-wife about the possiblity of the children moving with you? Does she still live near by or has she moved away already? Please do keep us informed. I don't have much in the way of advice or wisdom as I do not know how the court system works in your country. Hopefully someone from your area reads your post and has some ideas they can share about your situation. My ex husband and I went to a family mediator before the divorce. It was very helpful to talk to a lawyer who was on neither side but full of information as to what the divorce judge would be looking for in regards to the children's well being. We were able to take that information and draw up an agreement that suited us as well as satisfied the court.

Hi there,just to let you know we had our last meeting at mediation today (the so called neutral lawyer)

Well its turned bad where my wife wants joint custody of the kids which i am refusing as i said i've done nothing wrong she did.She also made out she didn't know about me moving to America!

So she made a right song and dance about me taking the kids to America, so i said i would see her in court.

We are both in the same house as her name is on the tenancy, even though i have lived there 4 years i'm expected to move out. So basically people its a case of wathc this space!, IF i have to go to America without the kids i will ,BUT theres no reeason why i can't take them.I have looked after all 3 kids since they were born, she sees them an hour a day!.

So please keep prayers and best wishes coming folks! Until i see whats happening here

LOve You Sue!!

Hi folks just a short message really....... I met Sue a month ago now in the states when i went to stay there, we had the most fantastic time ever!. While i was there i proposed in a Beautiful Location in Indiana and of course she said yes!.

Anyways onto my main point since i came back my life just isn't the same..... , i don't know what i'm doing half the time , i feel i don't fit in anymore and we are missing each other so damn much!!!, we are constantly on the internet and phone each other 4 times a day......... , But it just isn't enough!!..

How do all you people cope?!, my divorce here is nearly done, Sues won't be long , then we can apply for K1 at last!.

But how do we cope with the missing each other part?!!!...... some days it really tears us apart!, we have been planning wedding, and house and kids and stuff to try make things easier!.

Any advice Truly welcome Please!!!!..

Thanks folks and GodBless!!.... Love Youy Sue!!

Anyone out there have a child still living in the country they moved from? My children's father and I, through mediation, decided to let the young ones have a say in where they lived.. along with what we thought best for the moment. Our 9 yr daughter moved here with me, our 11yr old son stayed with his dad. We have had to deal with a great deal of scrutiny already over the decision to separate them, so I do not need any more of that. What I am looking for however is if anyone else has or is dealing with this type of separation. Some days I do ok, some days I do not so ok. My son and I are very close and we talk often. I try to keep things positive and bring up the next time we will be together and how wonderful it will be. The other night he tells me how much he misses me and wishes I could be there to tuck him in like I use to, how nothing comforts him like I can. When I hear these things is breaks my heart into pieces. The decision to move and make this life change was not an easy one, I stayed in an unhappy marriage for many years "for the kids sake". I think at times I could easily sway him into saying out loud that he would like to move here with us but I don't want to go there. I am trying to keep things positive for him. What happens then however is that my husband gets the messy breakdown when I cannot stay positive any longer. He has huge amounts of stress through work and school and the last thing he needs is to be worrying about me and my mental state. So then atop the guilt over not being with my child on a daily basis I have guilt over being unhappy at times with a most beautiful life I have been given by my husband. Something I am leary of as well is when my son comes to visit this summer, I want to be careful not to overcompensate and make the children here (my daughter and two step children) feel as if they have been shoved aside yet at the same time I need my son to feel as if he is just as much a part of the family as they are and I want to make up for lost time with him. Not sure what I am looking for here, it is not judgement as I say, or sympathy for that matter. Just similar stories if they are out there and what others may of been through in regards to such a situation.

Hi i could be experiencing this very thing!, i am near the end of my divorce, then i will start my fiance visa off to be with my love Sue in Michigan. I have 3 boys 7,2,2, i have been there main primary carer since they were all Born. My wife goes to work.

My solicitor said she doesn't have much of a chance as she went off to find her old bf from 11 years ago and they want a child of their own!. I'm just busy worrying about being able to take them with me to lived!....gotta go through the high court and stuff. I've already been out to states with eldest boy for nearly 3 weeks,he cried he had to come back to his own mum!.. So i need lots of prayers people and best wishes!..

Watch this space i will keep you all posted,....... Also any advice would be good too!...

Hello

Can anyone tell me what are the laws regarding bringing copied cds?

i have a collection of music and movies, it is for my personal use, they were bought from pirates here in my country. I would like to use them in my tv (definately not sell them!) in USA but I don't wan't to break any laws.

will i get in trouble if I bring any with me on the flight? what about sending them with my boxes and furniture? i have looked on the customs page, these items are not on the restricted items list.

i heard that you can be deported for having them, so I am nervious, and i can leave them. but then i heard that the penalty is they just get taken away....any one know what is true?

thanks in advance...

Hi matey i just been to states but only had bout half dozen in my bag dvds, but when i move i'm buying a BIG HD which are very cheap now then you can copy Everything as an image file on your HD and carry the HD's in your hand luggage.

I know a few people that hjave done it mate.. Good Luck.