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thank you very very much about your answer

i really appreciate it

Understand, this is not an attack. I promise. I am only speaking for myself. I am not a representing factor of other VJ members.

When presented with the facts, you contradicted yourself multiple times and that raised red flags. If you want help, and you are seeking sympathy (on any level) please be honest and clear.

sir i swear im so frustrated cause what happened to me im sure there is lots a peoples went through this and i want to share my thoughts with them i asked this question about immigration cus i want a clear answer if one day if i find out another woman to live with is it possible or not im not stupid going to apply again for a k1 visa right away after my fiances death im not crazy to do this ...

I only have a problem with the quick turnaround on your stance about applying again. You contradicted yourself several times (with absolute clarity on each stance) which leads me, and others to doubt the validity of your story / intentions. You open the thread by saying that you would like to apply for a K1 again, and less than an hour later you claim you have no intentions of applying ever again. In between those statements you are still leaving breadcrumbs asking how USCIS would respond if you applied again. Sorry, I am a pretty nice guy, but in my profession, I am trained to spot BS upfront. I am not doubting the death of your fiancé, but I am doubting the credibility and validity of your intentions.

sir my intentions re to have some informations about immigration and law cus i dont know anything about it im not a lawyer im confused and so frustrated about the loss i have many questions and i think visa journey not helping me with this and god gives destiny to everyone in this life the story ive posted its true and im not here wasting my time i just need to be aware about US law,.

was your fiancé 26 years old or are you 26? if the latter, how old was your fiancée? It's extremely rare for a 26 year old to have a heart attack. I'm not doubting what happened, but I read that you are 26, and your fiancée was older?

anyway, condolences on your loss.

iam 28 my fiancee 26 well it happened my friend she had a heart attack

thank u anyway

And yet, at least four times in this thread, you mentioned the potential of applying again. If confused, let me quote you from one of those instances. Pretty clear to me.

OP "...i would like to apply again for the same thing k1 visa what would immigration think about that is it possible ?"

Have we lost something in translation?

whats wrong about that seriously im here on VJ to know and ask questions and share my thoughts whats wrong with u do u have problem with me for applying again and again iam asking a question if u dont have the answer get out this is not for u to judge...

And yet you asked if it was possible and you said you already have one who can file for a K1 for you?

my fiance parents were willing to sponsor me i dont have anyone else to petition for me another k1 just to let u know...

wow so sad!

my condolence, i understand your pain.

I disagree all this bad judgement of a few replays to your post. No one can feel your pain. I can totally understand that in the middle of your pain you are also concern about your future in case you need to travel to US. First you need to recover from your pain and later you can start closing all administratives task.

i hope you soon will be better

thank you

I happen to know he's not. He's a member of a Facebook group I'm in and he posted about the loss of his fiancee about a week ago. Luckily there he wasn't piled upon and instead received the sympathy he deserves in this very sad time.

This is a tragedy for him. Everyone deals with tragedy in different ways. His mind is probably spinning and yes, it's conceivable that he might meet another American woman with whom he wishes to spend his life. Stranger things have happened (see, the more than several members on VJ who are on their third, fourth or fifth K-1). He may want to have his mind set at ease that should that happen he would be free to pursue another visa, whether that be in a year, or five, or ten.

To the OP, my condolences.

Edit to add: Just added a line to clarify my point.

just people re heartless the dont understand the pain inside me idk why they do care about im having another fiance is this jealousy please get over it i just need some explination on things i worry about thats it ...

Already planning ahead about filing a k1 in the future? Just a bit cold and calculating, don't you think?

Tell me again about how much emotional pain you are in.

im not planing about doing anything im just asking a question i worry about for my own future and whats going to happen next after the loss of the best thing in my life im not going to be mad at you but its something you didnt experienced or went through it and how much pain i have inside me and depressed iam i have a life and a dream my friend no one can stop me for doing it my whole dream and life re gone forever and it wasnt easy for me i hope you understand and think before u judge people....

wow so sad!

my condolence, i understand your pain.

I disagree all this bad judgement of a few replays to your post. No one can feel your pain. I can totally understand that in the middle of your pain you are also concern about your future in case you need to travel to US. First you need to recover from your pain and later you can start closing all administratives task.

i hope you soon will be better

Thank u my friend

OP, in all honesty, it will be a red flag if, two months after losing the love of your life, you have a new love of your life who just happens to also be American and who just happens to also be willing to sponsor you for a K1.

I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you can heal soon and start remembering the good times.

thank you im not willing to apply anything anymore im done

I'm so sorry you are going through this How heartbreaking! I pray that God gives you the comfort you need during this nightmare. I don't think you'll have problems in the future if someone wants to petition for you. All my best wishes to you

thank you so much i appreciated

Sorry for your loss, my friend. I so understand you, I almost died myself this year and I know what do you feel

thank u my friend ive been through lots of depressing lately and i stayed a month in a hospital for treatment

it was really so hard for me and both of the families a dream of having a family and kids gone forever....

im here to share my story and remembering my fiance that i consider the best thing i have ever had in my life

distance relationship its not easy

I'm sorry for your loss, I'm going to move your thread to a more appropriate forum.

~~Moved to Effects of Major Family Changes from K1 P&P - As a more appropriate forum.~~

thank u sir i appreciate it

Send a letter and copy of death certificate, and Case number on the letter, explain what happened so your file can be closed. Yes someone can petition for you in the future, and if question is ask, just tell them all that happened, it will not effect your case if you are petitioned for again in distant future. But if it is very soon after this filing and delays, That is a HUGH Red flag.

Keep copies for your records too.

Sorry for your loss, take time for yourself, then get back into life, she would not want to see you miserable.

thank you very much for ur answer..

I'am sure she is in heaven and never want to see me suffering

god bless u

Do you have somebody who can sponsor you for a K1

Do you have somebody who can sponsor you for a K1?

yes i do have

what this has to do with anything...

Oh I've gone through a loss right in the middle of immigration. My first thought was to abandon my Green Card application so I could support my family. Not worry about immigration.

It just comes off really disrespectful to your fiance when you're already thinking about being petitioned by someone else and I think if you re-read what you wrote you'll see that too.

im not thinking about petitioned by someone else im done with this it was just worries i asked about thats it...

im not disrespecting my fiance i do love her more than anything and she is gone now and iam just trying to heal and move on for my life its not easy what am going through...

its a really painful moments for me and her family and im mind confused im not attending to go through this ever again im just asking about some things i have to be aware of it in the future i lost the best thing i have my fiance if i have the attention to know if i can apply again i wouldnt share my story and ask it this way!!! sorry for everyone who lost a lover its not easy at all.....

Iam not obssesed about the US my friend iam just sharing my story to everyone over here to let them know about what happened to me im heart broken and i need to ask lots of questions you're not going through it so please just if u can help or just be quiet me and my fiance we were planing to move to my country if we got denied i have my job and my income im living a good life over here ....

to be honest im just lost interest about immigration i was just wondering how is going to effect me in the future that's it.

but i dont think iam going through this ever again....

thank u anyway for ur help

thank you so much everyone im just depressed about happend its not easy at all

i would like to apply again for the same thing k1 visa what would immigration think about that is it possible ?

thank you immigration is so stressful and the most painful thing is waht happend to my fiancee it was really a heart breaking... idk if i can apply with someone else in the future through k1 visa or not....

Hello everyone I just want to share my story with everyone in visajorney .my name is harem I'm from Tunisia and i am the beneficiary me and my fiance the US citizen applied for a k1 visa last Juin 2015 and we got approved so fast with California service center in 2months after that our case forwarded to the us embassy in Tunisia we waited about 4 months we got our pocket 3 and my fiance was traveling and she didn't check her email and we found out about our interview was missed in December18th 2015 and we were so disappointed and frustrated about what happen to us so since that day we emailed the embassy we called everyday we didnt get any respond from them i even try to go to the embassy and they didnt let me in till another month someone respond to my fiance and told her it will be rescedhule soon in that time we got a peace of mind then after a long waitindg from december we got another interview in juin 23th 2016 after a 6 months of struggling and so much stress and pain inside we were so happy about that but not for a long time..the most tragic thing is that on juin 12th 2016 my fiance the us citezen had a heart attack and she passed away i lost my fiance forever with the age of 26 years old before even i get the chance to see her again it was such a heart breaking moment for me and i callapced emotionally physically and mentally i couldnt beleve what happend such hard moment ive been through i asked a lawyer online he told me to email the consulate section and tell the about the death and not attend my interview i got a email back immideatly says that our case is closed and soorry for the loss such hypocrit embassy when we tried to reschdule it took us 6 months i really hate the embassy of tunisia all of them re hypocrite and such lazy stupid people

now my fiances mom sent me her death certificate i have to mail it again to the embassy so they can mail back my case to (DOS) OR the USCIS to close our case forever. please iam really in pain and i have to know whats going to happen if i try one day to apply again in the future and how long the case will take to be closed cus online my case still says READY and i want it to forwarded to the uscis for closing

Any help will be appreciated and thank you

please me and my fiance need to have a sponcor for the k1 visa process cause shes not qualified for it so i wanna know what the sponcor need to fill as a application and what is the other papers need to give it to us to proove it in the embassy in the interview day anyone can help me please i will be appreciating for this and thank you so much

please me and my fiance need to have a sponcor for the k1 visa process cause shes not qualified for it so i wanna know what the sponcor need to fill as a application and what is the other papers need to give it to us to proove it in the embassy in the interview day anyone can help me please i will be appreciating for this and thank you so much