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    think i got scammed

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

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    remember very important, immigration is in two phases one is the ability to procure and get a valid visa, the other the most important that is not visible to the naked eye is the IMMIGRATION OF THE MIND AND HEART. are the pple we bring over ready" to be patient and follow the due process to be adequately establish in this country". you can take a thirst horse to the stream to drink, you cannot force the horse to drink.

    think i got scammed

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

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    I WILL DEARLY ADVICE U TO CLEAN YOUR RECORD FROM HIM AS SOON AS POSSIBLE " IF WHAT YOU RECOUNTED ON THIS FORUM IS ACRTUALLY accurate"

    VAWA- it is called VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMAN/MAN ACT. IT GIVES IMMIGRANT ACCESS TO GREEN CARD BY MEANS OF ABUSE,. the criteria's are no access to means of communication, locked inside the house, physical and mental abuse. you need to inform USCIS as soon as possible, don't say it doesn't really matter if he stays or moves on. A record is a record, you never know what the future might bring in terms of immigration process. i'm talking from experience. it is really sad that immigrants come to U.S. and the devil suddenly put into there minds that they can do whatever they like, they believe they are more smarter, better and wise than the petitioner who labour ceaslessly night and day to bring them here (LIFE IN AMERICA IS QUICK FIX) (NOT KNOWING THAT WHAT YOU SOW YESTERDAY IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU WILL REAP TODAY). they believe the petitioner is too slow and downright backward. in my own case my wife file for vawa thru a lawyer with the help of my father inlaw, yes my "father 'inlaw"". the bogus, satanic lawyer used to live in u.s before settling in nigeria. can you believe he did it for her even though he sleeps and wake up in nigeria. Satan and his cohorts have their network hidden in the system you need to know this . when my wife came in i file for employment authorization and AOS betweem april and june. She got a lawyer thru my so called "father inlaw" who has never stepped on U.S soil before to file another green card application (i-360 form) while i already file for her green card application earlier twice, first for i-130 to get green card right from nigeria and also k3 visa to get green card while living in U.S. can you imagine 3 green cards in process for the same person($1200 of waste that i could have used to buy stocks) (unbelievable, stupidity)just because of love. as the devil would have it, she filed and got her green card (10yrs) ( 2007)faster than the speed light that is how the devil works, he runs faster and shout louder than the God. the one i filed for her thru k3 process was a snail process and got approved and sent April 2008. i know you will ask me how one person will get two green card God way vs devil way vermont vs lee summit missoury chicago. so when all these blind and deaf people run into problem 10, 20 30 years after, we will sympathise not knowing that build their life on wrong foundation and motives. falsehood and deception in the past. there is a way that seems right to man the end thereof is destruction.

    Please Help!! Confused and Don't Know Where to Begin...

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    continuation

    when she got to U.S. i went thru hell, she called the cops on me twice, i was thrown out of my house by the cops for a month, court case after court case

    all kind of stuffs that is absolutely appalling, due to ignorance deception, new culture. if i continue to write it will just be too much. The perfect testimony is we had a baby girl in between us and we are going through counselling at the moment to fix the marriage.

    the principles i'm trying to pass across is use your intiuition very well, never compromise in issues that will jeopardise your future.

    principles to use

    make sure he can grow in himself without you. you can only influence him ( you can a horse to the stream, you cannot put the water in his or her mouth

    if you notice anything that is essential to be a man, that is lacking let him know, what his he doing to fix it and how.(monitor)

    keep this at the back of your mind, it is a different ball game when you are outside of U.S. to somebody living in U.S. Getting to U.S. is one thing, being able to live in U.S. is another

    know for sure pple change as soon as their circumstances and situation change (good or Bad)

    patience is important, persevere,paying the price, commitment are essential they may not approve his petition on time.

    if for example he said " i need to improve my career during yr discussing, he said i will enrol in a computer school, the basis of your evalutation is to find out if he enrolled, going for lectures, grades. (you are checking for consistency between word of mouth and action they must corrolate) don't be tempted to do we ehat he should be able to do on his own, the reason his (in his mind he will think since you did this for me before, u obligated to do forever( THIS NIGERIAN MENTALITY, AS SOON AS I GET TO AMERICA ALL MY PROBLEM WILL BE OVER! BUT YOU KNOW AMERICA IS JUST A LAND OF FEW OPPORTUNITIES, YOU NEED TO MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICES TO KNOW WHICH ONE IS TRUE AND WHICH ONE IS FALSE.

    Try as much as possible to use your intuition and don't violate it if things are not consistent within the character structure of your friend. take care and God bless u

    Please Help!! Confused and Don't Know Where to Begin...

    in Africa: Sub-Saharan

    Posted

    Hello lmnop123,

    i care deeply about you, your career, experience in life (33) your emotion,intellect. in essence your total well-being. (N.B.-i'm married with a baby!.

    i check through your posting and others also and i want to comfort, edify and exhort you. may God give u an understanding heart and illuminated mind(Relationship can tempting, trials at the same time testimony).

    i feel personally the pace of relationship with your fiance "E" is too fast, step back alittle and evaluate, please! please ! please!

    i'm writing to you with a soft and tenderheart bcos you are so much in love with your guy ( emotion,thoughts,words,affections has commingled)

    to let you know, i'm writing to you from my work place (i set aside other paramount things to answer your call)

    let me share with you my personal story.

    i came to U.S. in 2000, went to college from 2001-2005 and came out with a degree in computer information systems got a job three weeks after my graduation

    my relationship and marriage

    a friend of mine connected me with my wife in august 2003. she is in nigeria while i'm in the state. we got talking (emotion,thoughts,words commingled)

    i went to nigeria in dec 2003 prior to this i instructed my friend to take her to my pastor in nigeria for discern the will of the lord. the feedback i got is she is not a wife material, she is very manupulative, it is not the will of God(My Pastor and His wife)

    my friend she is not good and i should forget her. after all this evaluations i said to myself but this lady has not done anything to me, she sounds authentic and righteous. she told me her weakness, what she doing to change her lifestyle. what gave me a peace of mind is "both my parents are pastors at rccg" i said she is definately a child of God! personal i withdraw and wrote her a e-mail saying i don't want to do again. she wrote back and challenge me to come and see her family and herself. big flag never go by what pple "SAY", THE WORD HAS TO BE CONSISTENT WITH ACTION. IF HE SAY I'M A, HE MUST CARRY OUT A-ACTION.

    MY STORY CONTINUED.

    i went to nigeria in dec 2003, stayed for three weeks, saw her family,herself, place of worship.thot to myself she is okay. at this time i was not a U.S citizen, i started sending money to her from sept 2003-march 2007- big mistake never pay for anything you did not see- character defect my mother say i should stop collecting money from Men(Red Flag) she is living beyond a means. but in my mind love covers the multitude of sins(i will change her when we get married! (lies) you cannot change anybody only holy spirit can do that at his own time not you. when i met her she does not have a job, so anytime i made a demand for sacrifice, response from her u know i'm not working that i why i can't give u anything. immaturity on my path and compromise bcos of in love (never allow the weight of building the relationship falls in you alone, it must be equal on both side) make sure you emphasis this all the time. in time of plenty and lack relationship sacrifice and must be establish at all cost.

    i sent money for her passport, took out school loan to buy her a first car, she got a job around this time, paid for her toefl exam so that she can apply for student visa upon completion (again never lift anything that is beyond your financial status) immaturity and impatience on my part to notifce this red flag. under no circumstance should u improve his living condition in nigeria by borrowing (credit cards) use discretion in this area of your life.

    In 2004 DEC i went to nigeria gain, this time we did the introduction, however something terrible happen that should be an eye opener but love is trully blind, it can totally blind you to reality. when i was living U.S, my mum gave me $400 to give her parents. i told her, she used all kinds of funny means want to want to collect the money from me instead of legit owner, eventually i said no later she went to tell her parents lies that i wanted to use the money for my personal gain Red FLAG (COVETOUNESS-CHARACTER DEFECT). when i saw the parents i showed them the blueprint, they were very ashamed, her father beat her blue-black, beg me to forgive her, got other pple to come and beg me. RED FLAG IF YOU NOTICE ANY CHARACTER DEFECTS THAT YOU CANNOT live with do not go ahead-use discretion, nobody is perfect, but same time there are standards that cannot be violated no matter your conditions

    i press on on, in 2005 we got married via marriage registry, in april 2006 i became a us citizen, prior to this time she went to the embassy to apply for visiting visa during my graduation from college, denied. (RED FLAG-NEVER CUT CORNERS (SHORTCUT) TRUE LOVE WAITS, PATIENCE IS A VIRTUE,\

    she was denied and off course i sent money,personal i'm the only financing the relationship.

    in 2006 the filing for her is on course i filed for two visa, k3 and CR at the same time by myself RED FLAG NEVER TAKE ON HIS RESPONSIBILITY, IT MUST BE EQUAL WEIGHT AND MEASUREMENT, WHATEVER HE DOES NOT PAY A PRICE FOR WILL NEVER BE DEEPLY APPRECIATED WHEN CIRCUMSTANCES AND SITUATION CHANGES. USE YOUR INTUITION TO THE MAXIMUM

    in the course of her filing process we difficulties, it took so long to get her approval, the CR was approved faster than the K3, the CR will take forever to get interview date in nigeria, so i abandon the CR for the K3, bcos she started crying on the phone she can't take it anymore, it is taking too long, men are disturbing her, her live was in danger, come home i want to get pregnant, i,m not getting younger. IN 2006 I WENT TO NIGERIA AGAIN TO BE WITH HER. LATE 2006 SHE WAS ROBBED IN PORTHARCOURT, i asked her to send me the police report, i took it to senators in another state for them to help with her petition(k3) approval , less then a 3 days it was approved, in less than a month she got her interview date in nigeria. fast yes, yes ( love despiration)

    she got the visa in march 2007, again i was in nigeria for visa interview, and traditional marriage at the same time 2003-2007 voyages to nigeria, honeymoon in ghana

    let me post this for now more to come, my boss just interrupted with pressing assignment, this is unedited so don't mind my writing

    SPOUSE USED THE VAWA TO GET GREEN CARD THROUGH LYING TO USCIS

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    Hi All.

    i have a very sad story to tell. i brought my spouse from nigeria on k-3 visa in march 2007 after having been in relationship since december 2003. i used to go home every year 2003-2007 to see her as well as send money to her every month 2003-2007. she came to U.S. and we started having problems in our marital lifes, we have gone thru several counseling sections with our pastor but she is still want to get out of the marriage. In july 07 she call the cops on me and was thrown into jail for 9hours and filed assault and battery charge on me. prior to this between april and july 07 she has physically punch me three times, bite me twice, not to talk of numerous verbal abuse. she used the assault and battery police report to file for green card using form i-360. Prior to this i still went ahead to file both employment authorization documents in april and green card in july out of covenant commitment to the marriage.

    My question is what is the implication of my immigration records with USCIS AFTER HAVING FILE FOR GREEN CARD FOR HER AT THE SAME TIME she SELF PETITION FOR HERSELF WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE UNDER (VAWA)

    she is still living with me just waiting to get her green card and move out. candid advice is really appreciated.

    26 Aug 2007

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    SPOUSE USED THE VAWA TO GET GREEN CARD THROUGH LYING TO USCIS

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    Hi All.

    i have a very sad story to tell. i brought my spouse from nigeria on k-3 visa in march 2007 after having been in relationship since december 2003. i used to go home every year 2003-2007 to see her as well as send money to her every month 2003-2007. she came to U.S. and we started having problems in our marital lifes, we have gone thru several counseling sections with our pastor but she is still want to get out of the marriage. In july 07 she call the cops on me and was thrown into jail for 9hours and filed assault and battery charge on me. prior to this between april and july 07 she has physically punch me three times, bite me twice, not to talk of numerous verbal abuse. she used the assault and battery police report to file for green card using form i-360. Prior to this i still went ahead to file both employment authorization documents in april and green card in july out of covenant commitment to the marriage.

    My question is what is the implication of my immigration records with USCIS AFTER HAVING FILE FOR GREEN CARD FOR HER AT THE SAME TIME she SELF PETITION FOR HERSELF WITHOUT MY KNOWLEDGE UNDER (VAWA)

    she is still living with me just waiting to get her green card and move out. candid advice is really appreciated.

    Can't view case status online using NOA1 receipt number

    in Adjustment of Status (Green Card) from K1 and K3 Family Based Visas

    Posted · Edited by angelic

    Hi all,

    i can't view the status of my case online with my noa1 receipt number, is this normal?

    the error message is (validation error)

    Case Status Retrieval Failed

    This Receipt Number cannot be found at this time in this automated system. Please check your case receipt number to see if it is correct. If you have questions or concerns about your case status, please contact the National Customer Service Center.

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