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So does he have the money to send you home or not? I wouldn't worry about overstay. Although not recommended, plenty of people don't adjust right away. Kind of makes you realize why he might be divorced once already. Overstay is no big deal if you don't plan to come back here.

I don't think so overstaying is not a big deal even if she don't have a plan to come back. OP is trying to make things in legal way and as far as what i understand, staying here illegally is not what she want she came here in a legal ways and why stay in an illegal way? it doesn't make sense. if she only knew it before it happened I'm pretty sure she will never gamble her life to come here especially that she had a son. to stay here illegally will ban your entry in the US for the second time around or 3 years and that is not good. I think the best way is the OP husband will buy tickets and then OP and the son will be stressfree and safe back to the PI. Sorry to hear this story.

i feel so sad after reading the topic here, OP the best thing you can do is file a divorce and go home. He is not the right guy for you he sound so selfish and stupid, you're like a prisoner that's absolutely emotional abuse. If he really love you he will never let you stay in the US illegally especially that you have a son. So don't waste your time file a divorce and go home.