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Thanks for the replies, everyone

I'm not in talking terms with him anymore, so I hoped I could find out the answer without having to contact him.

But yeah, I definitely feel like I dodged a bullet.. What a lesson..

That's what my assumption is too, 5 months later. When he told me about the letter, I never doubted it, I trusted him fully, so I didn't ask him to show it to me.

I'm from Hong Kong. There was no RFE indication on the USCIS website either, but back then I just thought maybe it wasn't being accurate because it happened to others before.

Thanks for the replies.

Long story short...

My ex fiance and I sent out the I129F package back in early February this year. About 8-10 days later, we received the NOA1.

In March, he told me he received a letter in the mail.. an RFE, requesting for additional evidence of ongoing relationship. This is when he said we should quit, and broke up with me.

Although being devastated, I had no choice but to agree with his decision. And we did not submit anything in response to the RFE. I thought our petition was deemed denied (of course).

I never doubted the existence of the RFE.. until I received the NOA2 in email in early August, and then the package from the US Consulate General stating how to follow through the process...

Hence, I'd like to ask for those who are more experienced than me in this regard... has anyone experienced anything like this?

Is there any way you could just receive and ignore an RFE, but still get a K1 approval? (what are the odds? ha...)

I understand either way, he must not have loved me enough and I do not intend to "save" this relationship anymore. Yet, it's a terrible feeling to not know the "truth".

Hi all,

I know this sounds extremely stupid.. but is it at all possible that someone could be issued an RFE, ignore it and still get a k1 approval?

At work right now, I'll provide more details why I asked this later on...