Totallyinnlove

Just to update u guys on everything we went got joint accounts signed a lease together looking to purchase a car together next step is marriage and putting in the docs ......I will definitely keep you posted as we travel this journey

Hopefully my experience will Inspire and help someone in similar situation

Thank yoy guys for the insight it's just a very hard and confusing situation to be in I hope in the end we end up making the best decision

that stuff in my list, is huge red flag to me.

USCIS will see it, mostly, the same way.

Now, if you married on Monday and filed the I-130 + I-485 set on Tuesday, would that protect his presence in the USA? maybe. unsure. there's regs about this in 9FAM.

VJ is a 'DIY' community, focusing on 'easier' stuff. Yer stuff won't be easy,

and most folk (myself included) would tell you that yer stuff is WAY beyond the realm of DIY,

and

suggest to you that you study over at immigrate2us.net {i hope I have the url right}

or find a competent immigration attorney that specializes in deportation orders, staying of/overturning of.

We are very much aware of the red flags and negativity but what I am seeking to see is if there is any one who has been in the same or similar situation and if they had success in the end

We are very much aware of the red flags and negativity but what I am seeking to see is if there is any one who has been in the same or similar situation and if they had success in the end

Thank you for the reply and honesty Darnell but actually his kids mom is a legal resident he just chose not to marry her bcuz of all the issues they have had hence he has a dv charge so he just don't want to go any further in that relationship, so again am hoping that uscis will seek all the facts and just speculation has most people do

Thank you for the reply and honesty Darnell but actually his kids mom is a legal resident he just chose not to marry her bcuz of all the issues they have had hence he has a dv charge so he just don't want to go any further in that relationship, so again am hoping that uscis will seek all the facts and just speculation has most people do

Well I really don't think that they have sufficient evidence to deny our marriage when we married is fake , for one there are many reasons why it didn't work out with him and his kids mother they just didn't get along and also the unborn child does not need to be declared until it's actually born so I don't think they can judge our marriage based solely on those factors I do believe that it will be a rough ride but one that we can over come, and the fact that he never married his kids mom makes her irrelevant in the situation as well

Well I really don't think that they have sufficient evidence to deny our marriage when we married is fake , for one there are many reasons why it didn't work out with him and his kids mother they just didn't get along and also the unborn child does not need to be declared until it's actually born so I don't think they can judge our marriage based solely on those factors I do believe that it will be a rough ride but one that we can over come, and the fact that he never married his kids mom makes her irrelevant in the situation as well

But is he willing to stay with you if you can't get him a green card?

our relationship isn't based on the green card he didn't even ask me to marry him I was the one who asked him especially speeding it up because I want to do whatever it takes to make sure that we are together

I want to suggest something but I really don't want to hurt your feelings. I want you to be as protected as possible and this has been suggested to others in a similar situation (multiple ex's recently split and young children in the mix) , though they were looking to bring someone here not keep them here.

Tell him you want him to go to the removal proceedings and if he does get deported you will move with him to his home country because you love him that much you will give up living in the US for him. See what he says. If he only wants you for the green card it will become very apparent very quickly.

Thank you for your concern, he does plan to go to the hearing and i do plan to do whatever it takes to be with him I just hope they will give him a chance to get it straight

So than you have already married him than? Yo keep saying your marriage?

But he didn't marry the mother of the children so that's a none issue when they parted. And honestly it looks suspect why he didn't marry her. Was it because she was not a citizen and couldn't help him get a green card? See how this gets more and more gray and suspect.

Yes we are aware of how it comes across and that is why I am seeking advise so as to know the best options, they parted right after he and I met he just didn't love her anymore and they were having lots of arguments

He was married with the us citizen wife for 4yrs his baby girl is 16 months old and like I mention before the other child will be born in February of 2015 so not yet born I love him and I do believe if there is a chance of him staying and being deported we will fight to the end

To answer the question he was never married to the mother of his kids, he was married to a us citizen he got his conditional. Residency and when it was time to remove conditions the wife bailed on him so his petition was denied

Now he needs to start over with me so yes I guess a good lawyer is top of the list now but does anyone think there is a chance??

She wasn't a citizen but she sent in a petition for him to get a green card. There was nothing for her to cooperate with she can't petition for him within the US she has to be a citizen.

To answer your question. No you marrying him doesn't stop deporartion proeeedings. You two need a lawyer badly. You marrying him now as you say he just separated with the mother and the kids are young. It will look like he is marrying you just for green card.

Don't you think during his deportation proceedings it would maybe benefit him to disclose he has children here. Right now he looks like a single guy with no ties to US. But yet he does. Matters not about the mom he has children here.

He needs a lawyer fast.

He was never married to the mother of his kids he was married to a us citizen, got his conditional then when it was time to remove conditions the us citizen wife bailed on him hence the denial

Why doesn't he want Immigration to know about his children?

He loves his kids he is just scared that they will scrutinize our marriage since the kids are so young and he only separated from their mother recently she is not a us citizen

**** Moving from AOS from Family Visa to Effects of Major changes, which seems the best fit *****

How did he come here?

He came here legally 7 yrs ago on a work visa he was married once got his 2 yr residency card but was later

Denied the permanent residency his wife would not cooperate

He will have to declare the children. You cannot lie as part of immigration process. All decisions after a lie has occurred can later be revoked. http://www.uscis.gov/sites/default/files/files/form/i-485.pdf this form requires that he lists all children, us citizen or not.

i figured as much but got him he thinks declaring the kids will put immigration to question our marriage even more

He came here legally 8 yrs ago on a work visa been married once but was denied the permanent residency card so he divorced his wife

Hello guys I am new to the community and I have a very concerning issue going on I hope I can get some advise on.

My fiancé and I have been together for 2 months he is to appear in immigration court in January and he is worried that he will be deported, he has a domestic violence charge which has been reduced to obstruction of services and also a dwi charge he also has 2 us citizen children who are pretty young this he does not want immigration to know about has he already broke up with their mother all this is very concerning to us and I was wondering if me being a us citizen marries him if this will stop him from being deported .

Looking forward to your replies thanks.