butterfly118

Thank you so much. This has calmed me a lot. Talking to a lawyer Thursday hopefully we can figure this out. Thanks again for your advice!!

Hi Nich Nick, you mentioned there were others in similar situations. Do you know were I can find threads from those who were in that situation. Thankyou so much for your reply it has made me feel a bit better. I'm a good and usually very honest person who did something stupid in a moment of being pushed to the limit. I just hope it doesn't affect the rest of my life.

Hi there,

this may be a long email, I really need some advice, I'm super scared and non judgemental and honest answers would be appreciated.

I am from the UK. About 6 years ago I was engaged to a guy who seemed wonderful in my home country w were about to build a life together and he cheated on me, leaving me with nothing. I got mad and took revenge on the scumbag stole his precious playstation games and sold them and used the money to try sort my life out. I was arrestd for dwelling burglary and was given a caution by the police.

Skip to 4 years later, I am now engaged to an american. Totally forgot about that other guy and my fiance moved back to USA and i went to visit him with the intent of coming back home. On the vwp form i ticked that I had never been arrested before as well I was not thinking about it, I didn't do it on purpose, I was told I didn't have to disclose cautions to anyone after they were spent so I didn't even think about it.

I ended up not wanting to go home and now we are married and are about to file for adjustment of status. I have overstayed my vwp by over a year now and I'm so happy and we have a newborn baby . It took us a while to get the money togethr for the AOS I know this wasn't the most responsible thing to do, but I couldn't bare to be parted from my husband and baby I have spent the last two days freaking out big time about my past caution.

How can I get round this? I don't want to be deported and I'm freaking myself so much its unhealthy. Any advice would be great. Will the USCIS understand? I really didn't mean to lie on the vwp application I seriously wasn't thinking.

Thanks for taking the time to read my story.