mzbutter

The only reason I don't think he would try to do that to me is because of our child. He knows he would be making his childs life worse. He is ###-backward in a lot of ways, but at the end of the day he wants what is best for his child.

Thank you for the information!

Thank you for your responses. I truly appreciate them.

I will file for the divorce and he can file the ROC on his own and what will be will be.

It's not that I don't care--I hope he can stay in the country and work & become a better person. Jamaica is a death sentence.

I don't think he will file for any assistance.

We never co-mingled our banking. I actually had him get his own bank account which he somehow overdrew by $1000 and of course has been turned over to collections for. Damn. I feel like I am just stuck.

I guess he can file ROC on his own because it looks like either way I am stuck holding the bag.

He/she becomes subject to removal, but applies for and obtains in removal proceedings a new grant of adjustment of status, based on a new Affidavit of Support, if one is required;

**I guess this would be the only option, but I don't think anyone else will step up to do this...and he does not make enough $$$**

Hi all...

I immigrated my childs father here last year and we got married May of 2015. It was a living hell. He lied about really wanting to be with me. He did not spend time with our child. When he did work he did not help out financially. I found out he was telling everyone we only got married so he could come to the states. This is NOT what he told me. He left to another state at the beginning of this year *mutual decision as we were both miserable.* He has his 2 year green card and work visa.

I am in the process of filing bankruptcy because of all the expenses of bringing him out here and trying to buy him everything he wanted and paying for our wedding by myself. The stress has caused me to go on medication.

I want to file a divorce. I don't care if he stays in the states~if he goes back to his country he will most likely be dead within a year. I don't hate him, but neither one of us want to be together. I don't want to be responsible for anything he does because he makes horrible choices and I know it will cost me financially somehow.

If we file/get a divorce prior to the filing for adjustment of status, can he still file for ROC on his own?

Am I still responsible for him financially after?

Should I just wait until he files next year and then divorce?

I will retain sole custody of our child as he is NOT fit to take care of said child.

Any clear answers are appreciated as I am just at wits end as to what to do.

Ok..thank you.

So how can we prove that he had his immunizations?

We will never get his original birth certificate back? (that was in that packet)

disregard #4 not a question but rather a statement.

Hi Everyone!

We got married in Vegas a week after entry. I want to get start the aos process. Here are my questions:

1.Does his name need to be on a utility bill?

2. No photos yet as we are having a family ceremony next month.

3. At POE they took his packet with birth certificate and medical info...when will we get that back? His POE was Feb. 19.

4. He applied for his SS# already.

5. Is it easy to file on my own or should we use a service?

6. What do I do????

Thank you in advance..

If you are already signed up you should not have to sign up again...go back online to dhl and check your status there.

DHL Registration:(updated 08/25/13)
Go to https://usvisa-info.com/en-jm/selfservice/ss_country_welcome
to set up the DHL process and register immigrant's passport. You'll need the case #, passport number, TRN, and standard bio information. You'll create an account with this information. Once the account is set up you'll then have to go to "Immigrant Visa" and click on the link in the 2nd bullet point and continue on. Remember fee for DHL is now included in $265.00 embassy fee so you don't pay anything online. You'll have the option to choose between DHL's Kingston or Montego Bay pick-up points. Once you have completed this step you'll take a screenshot or copy the entire page and pasted it into a Word doc, scan and email it to kingstonIVappointment@state.gov with proper email format to communicate with embassy.

So my fiancee just had his interview. He said they did not ask many questions..just how we met and when I last came to see him. They asked him if he was registered with DHL and he said they took his documents and passport. That means he's approved right?

Best of luck with that..it seems if he was honest and his test comes up clean it should not cause problems, but the government might think differently. They are decriminalizing it this week aren't they?

Congratulations

wow....so excited for you!

_{thank you for the information!}

Can someone tell me how long it is from the time Kingston gets the paperwork to the time they send the packet to the beneficiary? I am trying to determine when to send him to the post office. Also, I guess I must wait for the letter to arrive before we can go online and do the ds260/261 (i forget which one it is). Thanks

It's still doing it. Just keep calling it and you will eventually be able to hold without being disconnected.

I checked CEAC and it says it is in transit to JA. wow...

Yes, it was pretty ridiculous. I had to call and speak to an immigration officer & that was back on Nov. 20th at which time they said "we have located your file and will forward to NVC."

Thank you...keeping excitement to a minimum due to the fact that while I see wonderful success stories & things running smoothly, I also keep in mind all the bumps in the road that people experience. A friend who is not on VJ just found out that a doc that was sent via DHL was never sent supposedly. I am remaining cautiously optimistic and will call NVC next week to see where they are at in the process!

I received my NOA2 on October 8. NVC FINALLY received it on Dec. 16th! I guess one step closer....Now I can only wonder how long before the next step happens.

Congratulations...so happy for you. What a wonderful Christmas gift!

Yes, it's very frustrating; however I realize that there are many people waiting longer than myself so I am trying to stay upbeat and remember that everything happens when it is supposed to (according to the universe)

the officer said the same thing....so now i have to wait again. will call nvc in 2 weeks though to see what's up.

the officer said he same thing as the email. will call nvc in 2 weeks to see if there is any update. fingers crossed.

My noa2 was october 8...the nvc still does not have it. i had to request research and got an email stating my file was located and would be forwarded to nvc......and to give them another 45 days to receive it. Ummm...yeah.

oh...i got an email from them saying that they will be forwarding it to nvc and give them 45 days. i am still going to continue holding to speak to an officer. I know I need to have patience, but then again....a squeaky wheel gets oiled.