bitterbeans

I'm sorry you are going through this ! But karma is a bi*ch and it will bite him in the a$$! So don't worry! The right man will come along....and one that you won't have to Skype with for a year....

Oh, yeah.. it's not the outcome anyone ever hopes for in this journey, but it's not the end of the world. As I calm down a bit now, I feel less panicked about the affidavit the more I read up on it (better late than never) I know the obligations are real and are enforced when necessary, but if there's one good thing I can say about the guy it's that he was exceptionally hardworking and managed his money well. He never asked me for anything ever in all this time we've known each other. The divorce I foresee as imminent, then I'll just get on with it in the rest of life. He was splendid company while it lasted, and I don't regret having known him (only marrying him)

So then if he returns to the US and, at the appropriate time,files for removal of conditions by himself on a divorce waiver, the burden of proof is upon him to establish that he entered the marriage in good faith, correct? I assume that requires at least some evidence of a shared life or co-mingling of assets, of which we have absolutely none. It turns out that even his own family does not know he's married (as I also discovered... little awkward!)

I think he'd be hard-pressed to establish proof, I mean all this taken together. In which case, would not his LPR status cease if he cannot prove good faith?

That's not possible since he already has a green card. All you can do is divorce him and move on; the affidavit of support will remain in effect.

He left the US.. he is outside of the country. And it is a conditional green card. What praytell then are the conditions?

Hi- my husband has a conditional green card. He recently left to visit his home country for a month and I have discovered he has been seriously dishonest with me about several significant matters as well as possibly unfaithful and/or has behaved highly inappropriately at best. Not at all like who I believed he was.. whole standard trope you read about on here all the time. Anyway, I'd like to cut this loose before he tries to re-enter and I end up on the hook for 10 years on the affidavit of support. Can I withdraw the I 864 since he's out of the country right now? Do I have to file for divorce first? We have no joint assets and only married for a year.