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    Would you?

    in General Polls

    Posted

    I would let my kid sell the toys, yes.

    And would give him/her the money he/she made to buy something else. Even if it is just enough for candy... and would tell them I really appreciate their help and that it was definately important to our family.

    Toys come and go....

    Knowledge about something or a situation is eternal...

    Update on wife who filed for divorce after receiving green card

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    Where she is from doesnt matter, how old she is doesnt matter, how old he is doesnt matter.... we are all people with feelings and wishes and that is what matters.

    The marriage failed in between two people, not in between two nationalities. You do not marry a nationality, you marry a person...

    Saying that she did what she did because she is russian makes no sense, at all. How many posts do we see here about Filipinas, Colombians, Australians, Brazilians, any Europeans bla bla bla that left, ran away, are gone without a trace and other things??? So why offend many others that are here with these type of mean comments that do not even fit on this "conversation"?

    What matters here is this man's heart and what he is going through. And I am sorry for your pain, but as it was said before, maybe it is a blessing... it happened for a better person to show up in your life and bright your days... a thing that could not happen if she was still with you.

    Now it is just time to move on... Go on a trip, reach old friends, spend time with the family, start making up time for old hobbies and forget the past...

    Wish her happiness, that better things will come to you. What you wish comes around, so just wish her to be happy and you will be too, i am sure.

    I just wish the best for you! And the kids.

    Make sure to separate your financial life from hers as it was advised before, call some friends to go to your house to a poker night or whatever you like to do, movies, talk, (...) and be happy in this one life we get!

    Old things go for new things to come.

    Good luck!!!

    Package lost somewhere between USCIS and NVC

    in K-1 Fiance(e) Visa Process & Procedures

    Posted

    That happened to me. They lost my petition in between CSC and VSc and it took 4 months to be "found". But to be found, my husband had to contact the congressman and wait another month for them to send the petition to Brazil. He just contacted the congressman on the 4th month... Maybe we could have "found" it earlier, but it didnt work that way...

    So be on the top of your game and give them the time they ask for, if it is passed that, contact whoever you need to contact for your petition to be sent to the embassy in the home country.

    The whole process on my end took about a year to be processed.

    It was tough...

    Anyways, good luck, and I truly hope they do not lose your petition and its just a matter of one more week to be sent there...

    I-175 (removal on conditions)

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    For what i have seen here you have to have the divorce decree to apply on your own, but you can apply on your own.

    Now, in order to support your marriage in good faith, it would be good to have some affidavits from people that have known you both since before the marriage. Do you think anyone from his family or friends could write these affidavits??

    I wish you the best of luck, and now its time to live your life with happiness.

    God bless you

    Hullo, NArocks, thanks for your kinda reply, No. the divorce papers haven't been filed yet.i spoke to an immigration lawyer who said there's no need to file for divorce yet as it is a personal choice between my husband and i.Also do i really need an immigration lawyer to file this paperworker, if doing by myself is fine it would save me a whole lot of money.

    hes gones hes actually gone

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    Best thing to do now is to get better and feel better, that is step one.

    You can not resolve anything or think straight if you are not feeling good in your spirit, with yourself.

    I can understand the frustration and believe me, I know it is hard to get over it, but when these confused feelings hit you, do something that makes you feel good. Put some loud happy music on, dance on the living room, call a friend that you dont see for a long time, pray if you are religious, feed the birds, do something to dont think about these things while they insist in being in your mind.

    I believe when you are feeling better and in peace with yourself, you will see through this and see the solution for this more clear.

    Have faith in yourself and that maybe if that happened now, it is to bring you better things and better days.

    Stay good, and God bless you!!!

    For Those Whose Fingerprints Do Not Recognize On The Biometric Machine

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    That is a great advise for those who will go through this process.

    Some of my fingerprints were not being recognized, but it ended up going through!!

    Thank you for sharing!!!

    Hello All:

    We went to the Biometrics appointment today and disappointingly enough, my wife's fingerprints were poorly recognized by the machine (as happened in the I-485 process).

    For those select "lucky" few that have encountered this problem, the technician recommended that if the fingerprints are not recognized, that upon receiving the notification to re-do the biometrics, to go out and buy corn huskers lotion, which is supposed to be a heavy duty lotion that moisturizes dry skin and can enhance the ridge detail of fingerprints (which was the problem here). Supposedly, as soon as that notice is received, start the lotioning up 5 times a day with that stuff and the night before, lotion up your hand and sleep with a glove on to ensure that the fingerprint takes.

    Seriously worth the effort. At this point in time, if the second fingerprint fails, I have read here that it involves getting the police clearances all over again from all the places of residence (I am assuming this means overseas too) - a real fun endeavor last time... :wacko:

    Hope it helps whoever has this problem.

    Green Card Received

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    Awesome! And Happy birthday :star: !!!

    Hi everybody!

    I just got my GC today (: hehe what a great Birthday Gift for tomorrow! (expensive but oh well it is usable for 10 years) lol

    Next step Naturalization...again $$ spend arghh

    Thanks to every person who helped/ supported me and answered to my questions!

    Good Luck to those who are still waiting, I know how hard and stressful it is (don't take it on your spouse lol)

    C u guys at the next forum!

    VSC Approved!!! March 2009

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    It was by email

    I didnt check the mail yet, because I came home for lunch to check if it was my application for real...

    Immigrant2009, I am crossing my fingers for you!!!

    From my heart, I really am

    Today I got the message that they ordered my card and I should receive in 30 days.

    That was the only update after my biometrics...

    I didnt even get an approval email, it was straight to the card being ordered!!!

    To all of you, good luck and God bless every single one of you!!!

    Congrats!! Can you tell us did you how did you get the approval message via email or snail mail.

    Thanks

    VSC I-1751 Status List

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

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    Baunzerbrudi ........05/11/07..........05/19/07........06/14/07........--/--/-- (<TSC 02/22/08)

    RAK..................05/17/07..........--/--/--........06/21/07........--/--/--

    Ree..................09/13/07..........09/17/07........04/16/09........04/23/09

    October07-i751.......10/12/07..........10/27/07........11/24/07........--/--/--

    Peter&piper .........10/15/07..........10/23/07........03/11/08........--/--/--

    dnaleri..............12/04/07..........12/19/07........01/12/08........06/05/09

    Jodyangel ...........12/12/07..........12/23/07........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Kingofdallas ........12/14/07..........01/11/08........02/14/08........--/--/--

    Gaijin ..............12/17/07..........12/28/07........02/07/08........--/--/--

    Erica&Terry..........12/20/07..........12/26/07........02/21/08........--/--/-- (<TSC)

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    Tjones298............01/10/08..........01/22/08........02/02/08........05/07/09 (<TSC)

    Edall................01/28/08..........02/16/08........03/01/08........04/09/09

    Daisy16 .............02/05/08..........02/14/08........03/22/08........--/--/--

    Maryces21............02/15/08..........04/15/08........03/26/08........04/22/08 (<TSC)

    JndAmd...............02/18/08..........03/??/08........03/??/08........--/--/-- (<TSC)

    ana751................02/25/08..........03/01/08........03/13/08........06/19/09

    Gemini12nj...........02/29/08..........--/--/--........03/11/08........--/--/--

    Rajthebam ...........03/03/08..........03/12/08........07/08/08........--/--/--

    Tex'n'Brit ..........03/07/08..........04/03/08........04/17/08........--/--/-- (<TSC)

    MandR................03/14/08..........--/--/--........04/17/08........--/--/-- (<TSC)

    CanGal...............04/06/08..........04/15/08........05/03/08........--/--/--

    Daveanddaisy.........04/21/08..........05/02/08........06/27/08........--/--/--

    KingCan..............04/21/08..........05/29/08........06/17/08........05/06/09(<TSC and >VSC)(RFE 04/13/09)

    Jesti................05/01/08..........05/21/08........05/28/08........04/08/09

    Bonny................05/05/08..........05/12/08........06/17/08........--/--/--

    Cliff_Ksenia.........05/08/08..........05/13/08........06/12/08........04/08/09

    Abdirashid...........05/09/08..........05/29/08........07/03/08........04/09/09

    PAUL.................05/12/08..........05/13/08........06/18/08........04/08/09 (<TSC)

    Rigoletto............05/20/08..........05/29/08........06/14/08........04/05/09

    J&js.................05/25/08..........06/09/08........07/26/08........--/--/--

    Bdsmusa..............05/28/08..........--/--/--........06/04/08........04/20/09

    Jenn!................05/30/08..........06/06/08........07/15/08........03/11/09 (>CSC 02/11/09)

    KikiDoug.............06/02/08..........06/10/08........07/24/08........04/12/09

    Forever in Love......06/03/08..........06/10/08........07/15/08........04/16/09

    Peggy................06/03/08..........06/10/08........07/15/08........--/--/--

    Gerard...............06/05/06..........06/13/08........07/17/08........03/16/09 (>CSC 02/11/09)

    Anyta Holland........06/??/08..........06/20/08........08/09/08........03/18/09 (>TSC and >CSC 02/11/09)

    Wannabe_Texan........06/10/08..........06/17/08........07/22/08........03/18/09 (>CSC 02/11/09)

    S.vincent............06/11/08..........06/23/08........08/07/08........03/03/09 (>CSC 02/11/09)

    Siddharth18..........06/11/08..........06/24/08........07/23/08........--/--/-- (>CSC 02/11/09)

    Cheeky^Wolf..........06/17/08..........06/30/08........08/09/08........02/28/09 (>CSC 02/12/09)

    Lovelysummer1982.....06/18/08..........06/24/08........07/31/08........--/--/--

    Dara.................06/21/08..........--/--/--........07/31/08........03/16/09 (>CSC 02/11/09)

    Canuck Carrie........06/30/08..........07/15/08........--/--/--........03/09/09

    Steph1010............07/01/08..........07/10/08........08/12/08........05/04/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Liz10976.............07/01/08..........07/08/08........08/21/08........04/13/09

    Cherr1980............07/01/08..........07/03/08........08/02/08........--/--/--

    Charsiimogen.........07/05/08..........07/09/08........08/14/08........05/11/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    LastSurvivor.........07/07/08..........07/12/08........08/13/08........04/30/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Craig2006............07/09/08..........07/11/08........09/16/08........03/20/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Keltic/Tobester......07/11/08..........07/15/08........08/21/08........--/--/-- (>CSC 02/27/09)

    Annie Pie............07/1?/08..........07/22/08........08/26/08........04/29/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Cartman08............07/16/08..........07/22/08........08/26/08........03/20/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Roi_aggie............07/21/08..........07/25/08........08/27/08........04/17/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    CherryXS.............07/21/08..........07/25/08........08/22/08........06/18/09 (>CSC 03/18/09)

    Isleta521............07/24/08..........07/28/08........08/25/08........05/01/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Bahamas124...........07/24/08..........07/29/08........08/26/08........04/24/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Zauberblume..........07/26/08..........07/30/08........09/09/08........03/16/09 (>CSC 03/12/09)

    Twellspeak...........07/28/08..........07/31/08........08/28/08........05/07/09 (>CSC 03/12/09)

    Italian_in_NYC.......07/30/08..........08/06/08........08/26/08........04/23/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Birdlover2008........07/31/08..........08/05/08........09/11/08........--/--/-- (>CSC 03/02/09)

    Triniwaiting.........07/31/08..........--/--/--........08/26/08........04/28/09 (>CSC 02/25/09)

    Shakysgirl...........08/05/08..........08/08/08........09/10/08........04/??/09(>CSC 03/03/09)mail 04/08/09

    R&W..................08/10/08..........08/13/08........09/10/08........04/17/09

    Blessed N Favored....08/11/08..........08/15/08........09/13/08........05/29/09 (<TSC and >CSC 03/02/09)

    hope.................08/12/08..........--/--/08........09/--/08........06/03/09

    Silver...............08/15/08..........08/19/08........10/01/08........03/31/09 (>CSC 03/02/09)

    Gatorfan.............08/16/08..........09/05/08........10/02/08........--/--/-- (<TSC and >CSC 03/04/09)

    AntandD..............08/18/08..........08/22/08........09/24/08........04/15/09 (>CSC 03/02/09)(Walk-In Bio)

    Bilson4real..........08/19/08..........--/--/08........--/--/09........04/16/09 (>CSC 03/04/09)

    Mavie_77.............08/19/08..........08/26/08........09/16/08........--/--/--

    Rebelheart...........08/20/08..........08/26/08........10/03/08........05/13/09 (<TSC and >CSC 03/11/09)

    TheGman..............08/20/08..........08/21/08........09/25/08........02/18/09

    Ivancho1231..........08/25/08..........09/05/08........10/02/08........--/--/-- (<TSC)

    GinFar...............08/27/08..........09/04/08........10/04/08........--/--/-- (>CSC 03/05/09)

    KiminON..............08/27/08..........09/03/08........09/29/08........05/12/09 (>CSC 03/10/09)

    Mandy2008............09/02/08..........09/11/08........10/04/08........--/--/--

    Litlemo-nosleep......09/02/08..........09/10/08........10/01/08........--/--/--

    Legolas..............09/03/08..........09/09/08........10/02/08........04/16/09

    PrinceandPrincess....09/04/08..........09/08/08........09/30/08........--/--/--

    Mandy2008............09/04/08..........09/11/08........10/04/08........05/07/09 (>CSC 03/10/09)

    Pri..................09/11/08..........09/18/08........10/28/08........--/--/--

    Shauna...............09/12/08..........09/16/08........10/29/08........--/--/--

    Beccaogingi..........09/15/08..........09/19/08........10/28/08........--/--/--

    Sukimi...............09/20/08..........09/26/08........10/31/08........05/13/09 (>CSC 03/10/09)

    Aidan80..............09/22/08..........--/--/--........11/25/08........--/--/-- (>CSC 03/10/09)

    Boaz.................09/23/08..........10/03/08........10/31/08........--/--/--

    MrsAmera.............09/23/08..........10/31/08........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Lawrencetoland.......09/24/08..........09/30/08........11/28/08........--/--/-- (>CSC 03/05/09)

    Milka................09/24/08..........10/01/08........11/05/08........--/--/-- (>CSC 03/10/09)

    Antoniostar..........10/04/08..........10/15/08........11/28/08........05/12/09 (>CSC 03/10/09)

    Frenchie.............10/06/08..........10/21/08........11/24/08........05/20/09 (>CSC 03/20/09)

    Staphros.............10/07/08..........10/??/08........10/28/08........05/22/09 (>CSC 03/10/09)

    1daysoon.............10/14/08..........10/18/08........11/28/08........02/23/09

    Dorothy..............10/21/08..........11/01/08........12/02/08........04/22/09 (>CSC 03/23/09)

    Girl37...............10/25/08..........10/31/08........12/06/08........04/22/09 (>CSC 03/23/09)

    KRS..................11/01/08..........--/--/--........--/--/--........05/20/09 (>CSC 03/10/09)

    Maya62(K2)...........11/03/08..........11/08/08........12/09/08........05/05/09

    Rosana...............11/03/08..........11/12/08........12/11/08........--/--/--

    Cooper ..............11/05/08..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Lisax................11/10/08..........11/19/08........12/12/08........06/08/09

    ToLoveAndBeLoved.....11/05/08..........11/20/08........12/17/08........05/19/09

    Trinity16............11/12/08..........11/19/08........12/15/08........04/28/09

    Martinmd.............11/15/08..........11/22/08........12/06/08........05/01/09

    Lewis................11/17/08..........11/21/08........12/28/08........04/23/09

    Wrumug...............11/26/08..........12/02/08........01/10/08........--/--/--

    tachy................12/--/08..........--/--/08........--/--/--........05/--/09

    SherMike.............12/07/08..........12/09/08........01/06/09........05/17/09

    Ecuaciones0809.......12/10/08..........12/12/08........01/08/09........05/12/09

    MoroccanInTexas......12/10/08..........12/12/08........01/08/09........05/27/09

    SHAr.................--/--/08..........12/12/08........01/17/09........05/12/09

    Jo&john..............12/15/08..........12/18/08........01/13/09........06/17/09

    Roosterwife..........12/23/08..........--/--/--........28/12/09........--/--/--

    Billsgirl............12/26/08..........01/22/09........02/03/09........05/15/09

    Jiten................12/26/08..........01/06/09........03/31/09........05/13/09

    HappyOne.............12/29/08..........01/12/09........02/06/09........--/--/--

    TracyLuis............12/31/08..........01/06/09........01/31/09........05/20/09

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    Amarceau.............01/05/09..........01/09/09........02/05/09........06/10/09

    M....................01/08/09..........01/12/09........02/06/09........--/--/--

    Miker32us............01/10/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Tmma.................01/10/09..........01/14/09........02/06/09........05/29/09

    STL_HCMC.............01/12/09..........01/17/09........02/20/09........06/10/09

    Homeland.............01/15/09..........01/27/09........02/20/09........05/26/09

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    Luis&Laura...........01/26/09..........01/29/09........02/26/09........05/29/09

    Rebeccajo............01/26/09..........01/29/09........02/20/09........06/17/09

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    xjennyinstereox......02/06/09..........02/13/09........03/06/09........06/26/09

    Fianceeinwaiting.....02/09/09..........02/13/09........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Immigrant2009........02/11/09..........02/13/09........02/28/09........--/--/--

    Rebster..............02/16/09..........02/23/09........04/10/09........--/--/--

    Mark UK..............02/16/09..........02/20/09........03/20/09........06/23/09

    milesinfront.........02/18/09..........02/20/09........03/20/09........06/22/09

    Rizthomson...........02/19/09..........02/20/09........03/24/09........06/30/09

    Taurean..............02/19/09..........--/--/--........03/21/09........06/23/09

    AbeandDeb............02/21/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Emancipation.........02/27/09..........03/08/09........03/31/09........--/--/--

    Knorcster............03/03/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Mike1972e............03/05/09..........03/09/09........03/30/09........--/--/--

    Ken&Barbie...........03/09/09..........03/12/09........04/08/09........--/--/--

    KarenCee.............03/10/09..........03/16/09........04/15/09........--/--/--

    MaydayDas............03/12/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    tapskap..............03/09/09..........03/12/09........04/14/09........--/--/--

    LiszyandKenny........03/16/09..........03/23/09........04/14/09........--/--/--

    seldommseene.........03/16/09..........--/--/--........04/08/09........--/--/--

    AnaFoulds............03/21/09..........03/24/09........04/21/09........07/08/09 :thumbs:

    Meriem_setif.........03/25/09..........04/04/09........05/28/09........--/--/--

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    Lexx.................04/14/09..........04/17/09........05/26/09........--/--/--

    venusfire............05/01/09..........05/14/09........06/12/09........--/--/--

    scooby06.............05/01/09..........05/05/09........05/29/09........--/--/--

    mozplay..............05/04/09..........05/07/09........06/11/09........--/--/--

    Uk2usa...............05/04/09..........05/06/09........06/12/09........--/--/--

    Fozzie...............05/08/09..........05/13/09........06/12/09........--/--/--

    Steve-n-Ana..........05/15/09..........05/18/09........06/17/09........--/--/--

    Allie&Leo............05/26/09..........06/01/09........07/07/09........--/--/--

    LisalovestheUSA......05/27/09..........06/01/09........06/30/09........--/--/--

    Little4ele...........05/28/09..........05/29/09........07/06/09........--/--/--

    chizkeyk.............05/30/09..........06/02/09........07/10/09........--/--/--

    J&K..................06/03/09..........06/05/09........07/01/09........--/--/--

    ilovedram............06/05/09..........06/09/09........07/21/09........--/--/-- (bio. delayed, orig. date 07/08/09)

    gurge................06/15/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    Birdysboy............06/15/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    yeiser...............06/15/09..........06/18/09........--/--/--........--/--/--

    NArocks..............06/30/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

    wexford65............07/06/09..........--/--/--........--/--/--........--/--/--

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    Brazil Police Certificates

    in Mexico, Latin & South America

    Posted

    I hope everything works out good!!

    Thank you so much! I also think They are telling the truth!! I just wanted to know if someone tried it...We decided send them, we think they will be fine, but getting the other papers just in case we need them is a good idea as well!

    We already sent them, so I will let you know what will happen! Thank you again :) !

    God bless you,

    Patty

    want to send her home while i can

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    I think you wrote it wrong....

    I think you meant she has a demon living WITH her...

    in short want to send the crazy,immature,selfcentered woman home before she betrays me,her 2 year green card is going to expire and i and going to let it...i have tryed everything marrage counceling,having family members talk to her but she continues to have these crazy mood swings,honestly i think she has a demon living in her..

    now here is the thing we have 1 year old twins and i would freely let them go with her to the phillippines,,,now what can she do if her green card expires and i refuse to go any farther with the visa process???

    No touches, no feed-back

    in Removing Conditions on Residency General Discussion

    Posted

    Same here, I have not had any touches or anything, but most people do not have any touches or updates either.

    I am sure everything is ok.

    If it was not, they would have contacted you, I believe. :star:

    I applied for removal of conditions in late march, USCIS received my documents in April 9th, and since then, no touches, not even after biometrics.I started to get anxious here...Should I be worried?

    Just saying hi

    in Effects of Major Family Changes on Immigration Benefits

    Posted

    That is great! Awesome news!!

    I hope you can be always happy and with a big a$$ smile on your face!!

    =D

    I don't know if anybody here still remember me but I used to be an active member. Anyways, I have finally moved on to my life. Got my own place, got my driver's license and not so best car. My ex-husband finally filed a divorce after finding another Filipina online.

    I just got laid off on my last employment about two weeks ago but I also got a job offer yesterday from a mortgage/banking company here in my new area. I've been through a lot but with God's help and guidance, I am proud of what I've done so far. I'm planning to go back to school next year and hopefully somewhere down the road, I will meet the right guy for me. Just wanted to let everyone know that I'm still alive and breathing and will kick someone else a$s if I have to. LOL! I am just feeling happy today.

    Thanks and I wish everyone to have a great day ahead!

    baby_a

    Have tourist visa and intend to marry in US while visiting

    in General Immigration-Related Discussion

    Posted

    If you are going to Israel in january, why dont you apply for the fiance visa, as you are going to wait until january anyways, and then bring her here and get married? You can not legally get maarried while on the K1 visa, but it might work out to you better than go there - get married - apply for K3.

    If you will wait until then, it might be easier to send the paperwork for the K1 now and when you go there, you already have things lined up to bring her here and get married here...

    I hope you can find the best solution for yall!!!

    Hug,

    Do you think the statistics is right - 7 to 8 month to complete the fiance visa?

    The problem is - we will get married in Israel in January and I want to take her to US right after marriage.

    Religion - how big a load of bollox is it?

    in General Polls

    Posted

    My point of view is that religion is pure politics. All of them think they were right, and face this as a competition...

    I believe that every religion lost the sense of what and who God is to try to get people inside, prove to them that they are right, and raise money. So much that some churches give house to theirs priest for free and pay their bills... and I ask myself "why"??

    So if it is that easy, I will create a religion, say a bunch of things, make people believe in me, get their money and booom, my life is pretty much taken care of. That is not what it all shoub be about.

    Not that everybody that goes to church is like that... but that is what I think about religion.

    I see that some people go to church to know about the neighboors life and spread comments around the city, they are not looking for God. I can see that some people go to church with the hope that God will see and will reward them for going to church, but in their hearts they are rotting, with a lot of envy, hate, and bad energy, bad feelings.

    Some people go to church to find husband/wife.

    And some people go to church to find God. And I believe, honestly, that those people do find God.

    I dont like to see these posts about God approving them.

    As it was said, God doesnt work at uscis.

    I do believe though, that throughout the process, God can give us strenght to go on, spiritual strenght, can give us his hand when we need, but never do anything for us.

    If you dont go look for a job, God wont give you one and it will fall on your lap --- eeehhh - wrong. If you go look for a job, God will guide you somewhere, somehow to meet with people, and put you where you should be. I believe God will give you spiritual growth, but wont give things to you that easily.

    "Oh he lost his job, god will give him another one" - No he wont. If there is no effort by our part, God wont give it to us. God is not gonna knock on your door with an application, with a NOA or an approval.

    God will give you good energy, strenght, will hold you before you fall, like a father would do.

    My dad doesnt live my life for me. He told me what was right or wrong, and never gave me a job, a car, he never went to school and did my tests for me, he didnt go to my university to get my degree for me. I did it myself. My dad was right beside me, and still is, he supported me, gave me strenght, gave me wise words, taught me most of the things I know, but I used all this and did it myself.

    That is how I believe that God works. Exactly the same way.

    Some religions make people crazy. The other day I was reading a Jeovah paper throwing stones at the Kardec spiritism. Err, I think God told us to dont judge... but oh well... These Jeovah papers were saying that only I dont know how many people will be saved... So not even them will... because its not more than 300... not even their own people will be saved? How come? It is crazy to think like that... God wont be choosing people he like more or he thinks its more interesting, will he? If so, the whole world is screwed up, but not some couple hundred people.

    One day a mormom came to talk to me - Caffeine, coke, tea, coffee - all bad. Am I gonna go to hell because I drink coke? Coffee? The whole Brasil is gonna go to hell then... You cant stay in a house with a man if you are a woman and you are not married to this man. You cant have sex before marriage. I knew a mormom that did this all - lived with her boyfriend, had sex with him, used his money, his food, his house, then, when she got tired of it, she said she couldnt stay anymore if they were not married, that if he wanted her, they had to get married and have five kids, and that she couldnt do this and this and that... oh come on... really? When it was interesting, you were doing, now you got desperate to get married, you cant? This girl was the worse, ever... not that all mormons are like that, I hope not, but if you believe in something, stick with it and honor it. not even that, she did.

    I believe in spirits, I believe in life after death, I believe in reencarnation (or however you write it), I believe in Jesus, Mother Mary, I deeply believe in God, but I do not go around telling people what is right or wrong because they are responsible for their own life and actions.

    God is in my heart? Yes!! In my life? Yes!! And I try to be the best person I can be, everyday, throw away bad feelings, envy, laziness, throw away bad energy and try to act the best I can. God will be there for me, giving me the tools I need to get where I want to get. The rest, it is with me.

    Sorry for the long post. I did not mean to offend anyone or teach anyone anything. I just think spirituality is more important than political religion, and I believe that the world is just gonna get worse and worse if people continue to try to prove that their religion is the right one and make a war of it, instead of respecting who believe and te ones that dont believe in anything.

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