Jaeden85

You guys honestly think they woul let me threw fine with no proof of ties to Canada, I've just read some of the posts of threads here about visiting durring the visa process and everyone says it's a bad idea unless you have a bunch of paper work. Ideally we would like for him to fly here and then drive down with me, for safety and so at the boarder I for have to have a notarized letter for the baby. But I felt like that would look really bad on our part, I saw a post on here somewhere explaining the same situation (trying to drive across boarder with spouse) and they were denied. I just can't risk getting denied and not being there for these milestones in our babies life, so just looking for safest way to get across atm.

Parole into the us? Is that cause he's in the army, I'm unfamiliar with what that is

I plan to get married within the month, probably on a 4 day weekend for him. We will be getting married here in Canada, unless there is a better way of going about everything.

I am a Canadian citizen, currently engage to an American soldier and we have 9 month old baby boy. We have know each other for 5 years or more and been together for two, we plan to get married with in the next month. Since the baby was born it has been my fiancée coming here to visit, but being in the military his vacation times are obviously limited. Our sons birthday and Christmas is coming very soon and we want to be together for that. I feel like our best option would have been to apply for a fiancée visa, but he can not get his housing in the army for our family until we get married making this impossible. So that leaves a spouse visa, our issue is I would like to go down to visit him from approx. Oct.25- Dec.30. But am very concerned they will not let me across the border, I am a stay at home mom living with my parents right now so have no proof of ties to my country, even though I have every intention of returning to canada after the two months. I just really don't want my fiancée to miss more of his sons life (birthday,Christmas), it would break his heart, and because of his attachment to the military he can't come here. So my question is would it be best to wait on filing till I've gotten to the states, tell them I am just coming to visit friends/vacation? File once I am across the border, and then head back to canada after Christmas and take care of my end of the paper work? I know this is a little shady, but it would destroy my partner to miss these events in our child's life an I don't see any way around it? I'm convinced if I show up at the border w an I-130 pending, an American baby and no ties to my country, they will turn me away. Is there any other route I can look to take? Thank you