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Btw, thanks to whoever moved this post to the correct forum. I'm new here and have no idea how to post on other forums, they only let me post on the newbie one

Well, I have the original marriage license, divorce petition, divorce degree. Credit card bills w both of our names, health insurance card w both of our names, traveling benefits w my work had his name on it as my husband, bank statements w our name n address on. I really can't remember exactly what I sent in anymore, only remember I sent in a lot, I just wanted to be sure to get as many as possible, because I didn't keep all the hallmark cards between us or any of the photos I don't think. Thanks again!

Thank you guys for your response!

Well, it is true that different IO could be very different when it comes to the case and person they are reviewing during the interview. I'm usually a pretty brave person, yet I worked too hard and long to get to this point, especially all the emotional ####### I had to go through just so my ex could find his true happiness through an unfaithful relationship and I could find more complication in this process after all these years, but I guess that's just life

I am currently in a very happy and stable relationship myself w a natural born citizen, and he is thinking about proposing and being engaged with me soon. I'm thinking maybe it would be "safer" to wait till after we are married. I was also thinking about requesting all my previous evidence filed in 2009 on the I751, just in case they get picky with me on the interview day, at least I would be prepared.

Hmm....yeah, I guess each field is different...in our field they highly advised us to do our PhD as a MAXIMUM of 5 years. In our field if you stay longer than that university employers/companies think you were not competitive and just took the easy way for economic reasons. But I guess this view differs from fields to field. They scared the c.r.a.p. out of us, so I quickly did mine in 4 years. LOL

Hello all!

I'm getting more frustrated and stressed by the second here.

He's an citizen through his parents when he was young. I haven't been married ever since, no children either. We sent in all of our proofs back in 2009 to have the condition removed, and i do not have anything with me anymore to prove such bona fide marriage for that long ago. I came here in 1998 to become a J-1 student, got into college to become a F-1 student for 7 years, graduated, had my OPT card valid for a year, dated my then husband through out most of my college years, and decided to get married after graduation. I have always paid my taxes on time ever since the PR status, always had a nice job, and never even had a traffic ticket in my life. I personally think i'm more than qualified to be a citizen now. I just really hope that the OI would see the bigger picture and weight out the good I would do to the country if i was approved