RN1234

Firstly I wasn't looking for any tips on how to come to America illegally. I just wanted to know if people on this website have gotten the parole in place.
Secondly, I really don't like the UK, no offense to the British people but I absolutely hate it. I won't go into detail why, but I do. I don't get the feeling of home there, it's too different and it's just so foreign. I don't want to offend British people so I rather not talk about it. Let's just say it's very backwards.
Thirdly, I do love my husband but due to all the years apart and immigration drama, I did build up a lot of anger towards him, I can't seem to let the pain go. Even when I am with him im angry and I don't even want to talk sometimes because I'm pissed off all the time with him. I went through a lot by having to raise my child alone and work full time and do literally everything by myself!!
I know most if not all of you would get up and move but it's easier said than done.
I have a life, an amazing career that I have always wanted, its so hard for me to move, the only reason I would do this is for my child. I will give it a shot and hopefully things work out. I hate hate hate having to leave my home.
But if it does not work out then I want my child to know that I tried for her sake. I rather loose it all for my child then not ever have tried at all.

Boiler- so the idea behind HP was because I actually was approved for a uk spouse visa and I only have 30 days to move which the uk lawyer didn't tell me. So when I got the approval and found out it was nearly impossible for me to quit my job and move in 30 days, technically I had less than 30 days because it took 9 days from the uk to California for me to get the visa in the mail. So I filed the hp months earlier to allow my hubby to come for even a month and help me sort out my parents living situation because they are separating and assist me in my potential move. Emotionally having to leave my home, is going to be beyond difficult and having that support will be critical for me but once again it was a denial.
Both my parents are in there 70s now and my dad has had a couple of strokes he's handicap and my mom never worked in her life, my dad lost his business last year they both have no income except for my dads social security and the house they own. My dad filed for divorce from my mom, since his last stroke mentally he is really unstable and both of them cannot handle one another anymore. So it's been really hard because I'm practically the only real bread winner in the house. And I am assisting them to sell their house this summer so they can each have some money and part ways. It's really hard because my mom has no income and she can live off of so I was mainly supporting her financially.
Now to have to get up and leave to the uk and leave my parents behind and chances of me finding work before a year is slim simply because it takes 1 year to even get your uk nurse license and what's the chances I will find a job right after!?!
Those were all my humanitarian reasons and I had really good supporting documents from my dads doctors and physcholosist and I had their divorce papers in there and all of this has taken a big toll on me as well.
I have been living in depression since I have birth. I have completely changed mentally from the person that I used to be. I don't talk to anyone at work about my personal life or anyone in general. I have cut out all my friends because I can't stand the pain anymore. I just can't deal with this anymore. I am so mad at myself for getting in this situation.
The only reason I even did this uk visa is because my husband begged me to do it. He talks to our daughter on skype everyday and she misses him a lot and she loves him a lot and wants to be with her dad, so I can't keep on being selfish and keeping her here with me.
My husband has an ok job in the U.K. But he doesn't make enough money to support an entire family on his own, so clearly I need to work and earn money in the U.K. And that's one of my biggest fears is that I won't be able to find a job. A lot of Brits don't like Americans and there's not much I can do about that. Additionally the salary in the uk is so low. People in the U.K. Slave away at their jobs and make no money (as in my husbands case). It's sad cause as an icu nurse here I can completely support my child and husband just on my salary but he cannot.
It makes me mad that the US rather take out someone from the own country where they work and earn money and make them move to a place they cannot work.
You know what else makes me mad, the fact that there's all these illegal people that cross the boarders come to the IS and live happy in the US and some how eventually become citizens. I mean what the heck is that all about!! Here is my husband honest as hell about his past and look how it back fired against him!! Had he known, he should of just come on The visa waiver program and lied on the questions like everyone else does. Sorry for the rant.
jawaree- trying to go back and remove or lower the charge in the uk is not an option. I have lost thousands of dollars that way also. Because in the U.K. His conviction is already considered "spent" but in USA immigration it will always be there. Plus the U.K. Laws are dumb they have no post conviction relief.
I have never heard of D3 visa, but from what I just read about it, it seems like you have to go back to the embassy in your country and have another interview and the counselor has to recommend it again. Well if you have ever heard anything about the US embassy in London you should know what a bunch of jerks they are. So I have no hope in that either.
Basically what you all are saying is that even after 15 years we then cannot file the I-601 waiver? Even after 15 years he cannot come to the US?
I am asking because I don't want to move to the uk and up root my entire life and my kids life if he can't come ever in my life time!! I rather move on with my life as hard as it is and find someone else because I could possibly handle A few years in the uk but NOT the rest of my life. I'm American and this is my home not the ##### UK!!