megamibear

I just wrote a long paragraph and it was deleted. I can write it again when I have time.

I AM SAFE. THE DOGS ARE SAFE to be clear. I should have added that in the beginning.

Thank you for all of your advice.

No, he has moved out.

I will try to not make this lengthy. My husband came here on a K-1 Visa and arrived October 2014.

We married in January 2015, that late, due to his temper. I should have listed to my gut and just forgot about everything and dropped it. But I really wanted to make it work and thought he just needed time to adjust.

Well it's been a year now. That includes over 5 domestic abuse reports against him, him being in jail once, and abuse against my animals.

I have no proof of him hurting my animals but they run for cover every time he walks inside... and the BRUISE on my dog's belly and giant bump on his back.

I CANNOT take this!! I need advice.

He was sent a letter that said he may or may not have an interview for his green card. This is where we're at in this moment.

Of course get a divorce. But wouldn't that just be letting him off the hook? Then he could fill out more paperwork that says it didn't work out?

If I remove myself as a petitioner - can't he just find someone else to petition for him?

Any insight would be greatly appreciated. At this point he rubs it in my face that he is in the United States.