kingneptune1

well..i don't know how they knew but they did. And I'm fine with it. did me a favor and I have nothing to hide. Sorry for you posters who are skeptical, I can only tell you again that I received a call from the embassy, she left a vm with the embassy number, her name and extension. Upon call back she informed me this was in regards to my visa...she confirmed my name and my fiance's, she said they saw my post here dated April 9 and at this time would I like to close the case. She then told they confirmed she had not left the country. She then provided me with the correct email to send my cancellation letter, and gave me my mnl# in case i didn't have it available. What else do you want to know? I didn't make this stuff up, I have no reason to. I come to this forum for help with and advice and seem to now get a dose of skepticism and criticism..along with some uninformed ill-advised advice on the "correct" way to search for a mate. If you live in a glass house please don't throw rocks at me

well..i don't know how they knew but they did. And I'm fine with it. did me a favor and I have nothing to hide. Sorry for you posters who are skeptical, I can only tell you again that I received a call from the embassy, she left a vm with the embassy number, her name and extension. Upon call back she informed me this was in regards to my visa...she confirmed my name and my fiance's, she said they saw my post here dated April 9 and at this time would I like to close the case. She then told they confirmed she had not left the country. She then provided me with the correct email to send my cancellation letter, and gave me my mnl# in case i didn't have it available. What else do you want to know? I didn't make this stuff up, I have no reason to. I come to this forum for help with and advice and seem to now get a dose of skepticism and criticism..along with some uninformed ill-advised advice on the "correct" way to search for a mate. If you live in a glass house please don't throw rocks at me

So...on the way home from work today, I get a very interesting phone call from a very nice lady at the US Embassy in Manila. She tells me they read my recent post here on VJ, and at this time would I like to close the case. I of course said yes. She also said they had confirmed that my X-fiance was still in the country and hadnt attempted to leave. She told me to just email a signed letter from me confirming my decision and they will close the case and request her to return the visa them. I thought this was great, Now I'll have a paper trail with them and a record of what actually happened, in case again I get serious with someone. God works in strange ways but he seems to know what he's doing. He likes to test us..but our strength in life faith in love will always shine through. Its part of the big plan...this wasn't meant to be and it was better to find out now than later, as a couple of posters have touched on. Better days are ahead, there is no doubt in my mind, This was for a reason..it wasnt right yet. My time will come, along with the happiness and love I've earned from the pain and grief I've endured. Damara put a fantastic perspective on this whole thing above.. thanks again everyone. Hopefully I can use my experiences to help others here.

So...on the way home from work today, I get a very interesting phone call from a very nice lady at the US Embassy in Manila. She tells me they read my recent post here on VJ, and at this time would I like to close the case. I of course said yes. She also said they had confirmed that my X-fiance was still in the country and hadnt attempted to leave. She told me to just email a signed letter from me confirming my decision and they will close the case and request her to return the visa them. I thought this was great, Now I'll have a paper trail with them and a record of what actually happened, in case again I get serious with someone. God works in strange ways but he seems to know what he's doing. He likes to test us..but our strength in life faith in love will always shine through. Its part of the big plan...this wasn't meant to be and it was better to find out now than later, as a couple of posters have touched on. Better days are ahead, there is no doubt in my mind, This was for a reason..it wasnt right yet. My time will come, along with the happiness and love I've earned from the pain and grief I've endured. Damara put a fantastic perspective on this whole thing above.. thanks again everyone. Hopefully I can use my experiences to help others here.

It's because I love that country,,the culture and the people..the climate. Im comfortable there...i want to retire there at least part-time. I still think the woman there for the most part are special..smart, intelligent, loving, beautiful and kind. Thats who I'm attracted to. I know some guys that have had great success fiding their partner there. there are good and bad everywhere. Sometimes it takes awhile and maybe a few tries to find the right one
Thanks for the kind words Hank

Hi everyone,
I've been to this site so many times since I started my journey and it has been invaluable and I once again thank everyone for their support.
To make a very long story short,,,after a lengthy and sometimes painful 15 months spent to get my fiance here, i was shocked and saddened to hear her confess that she was unfaithful and fell in love with another man in the Phils. I'll spare you the gory details but suffice to say there was a great deal of lies and deceit involved. What made it even sadder is we had finally crossed the finish line. She had finally received her visa and just needed CFO sticker and get on the plane. I caught wind of the affair about a month before her last trip to manila to get the visa. I could tell she had lost interest and the love was gone, she was just going through the motions..,maybe in case it didn't work out with her new bf, I'm not sure. So...a year and half of total devotion of my life to this relationship and bringing her here all down the drain, just like that. Not to mention a few hard earned dollars burned as well.
Before I ask my next questions...a word of advice to potential suitors of a foreigner: I stumbled into a skype conversation between my fiance and another visa applicant she met at the embassy one day. This woman went on to coach my fiance on the fact that even if she had her boyfriend there, she should still come to the states, and once she got here and got her green card, she could leave me and bring her bf here. She even went on to tell her she could chat with him while I was at work. Just tell him to be patient and wait for her. Nice huh? I feel really bad for the poor guy that petitioned the visa for that monster...SO, JUST BE CAREFUL.
OK..enough of that, My heart is strong and I'm moving on, searching for true love. My question today is, I've met someone I am very interested in, from the same vicinity as my x-fiance. If things go well and after some time we get serious enough, what are my chances of petitioning for another k-1 visa. It would be my third, My x-wife (married for 7 years), my x-fiance (never used the visa), and my new love. I hate to get too involved if there is no chance. Also, would it maybe be easier to marry in the Philippines..then bring her here eventually? I also thought if I should maybe contact the embassy and explained what happened to this last one, to avoid maybe having to explain it in the future if the need arises.
As always, thank you for your advice and support

That's only 5 business days. Your's is coming soon. We recently waited 11 business days to get issued. K-1's seem to take a little longer than the immigrants and those pregnant or with children from what I can tell. I know the frustration of going into another weekend of what seems like no action, we did 3 of those after the interview. Not to mention 8 months of DOT process. All I can say is that it's going to happen for you soon.