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Thank you all for your fast response......I understand what you are all saying Jawi, Jomo'sGirl, pushbrk, DM and Jengles........Thank you all. I guess I will tell him to forget it, as you asked DM in the USA one can find an immigration attorney that can "work it out" for less than $470.00? I guess I didn't thiink about that I was basically thinking about the quickest way to get him here is to use his 10 year visa. I would like to go and see him regularly but th etickets are not the cxheapest and wiht my son's father giving me the hardest of time with getting a passprt for him.and I doubt I would be able to pull away from him if I was to spend only a weekend with him....

Jomo'sGirl.. I will look at those threads you sent me.....Thanks

Ms.Kimmy, I see you......

Thank you all very much ...I do not know what I would do with out you guys.....

Hi VJers, Iknow Ihave not been onin a while andit seemed like I have forgotten you but I had some things to deal with and now Iam back...

I have missed out on so much I feel lost going through the threads....

I do need your assistance once again..when in a bind if you can't turn to family who else can you turn to.

Have you ever heard of any one who after filing waited too long to finish up ( I started filing back in 06, it was approved the K3 went down and he, Jamaican spouse, let it expire, well the I130 which was at the NVC expired after one year of being there without payment but back in Feb 08 the husband sent off the Choice of Agent and they reopened it) well we are at the point where they are asking for the $70 and the $400 but I refuse to pay it and he said he is working on it but still cannot come up with it yet. I could pay it and struggle harder than I am right now, temporary, but I wanst him to make a contribution to the filing...more than just signing a piece of paper.

Well he found out that he still has his 10 year visa.....My question: Do you think he can travel on it and then when he comes here he gets a lawyer and work it out? Or do you think I should just let him keep working on getting the money to pay for the $470????????? I am at my wits end and just wanst him home...

Help me out would you!!!!!!!!!!!!

I know it will be said well I should wait it out but I really need to have him come home and after 2 years apart I realize it more than ever that I truely do love him and he truely does love and need me, well i need him too but he needs me more ( the whole good woman thing...no need to get into that )

Gill, I know this is late, but I just wanted to say CONGRATS to you and Ken........ ans May god bless you and your kids.

love

Marsha

Hello Ladies,

Yes Kimmy, mi a vet now....

Gill...srry hon, I have been busy but check you PM.

You know all this time I did not realize I got a heart............ MI REACH :dance:

Hey Kimmy, mi dung de wid u look ovah you see mi.... :lol:

How r you today ? and the babies (well one baby and a diva)?

A page 6 mi get this pon. A wah a gwan...........mi nuhgone dat longggggggggggggggg

Jawi that is big enough for the whole site to see, the blinking panish dem tek ovah, like in work place. :lol:

Hello ladies, I know I have been gone fo ra while but things a gwan ( no it no good)......

I have missed you all though.

Awakening good luk on you journey.

Jawi , welcome back. glad things looking up at work, congrats on getting rid of that "itchy skin" of yours.

Gill Kimmy how yu ladies doiiigggggggggggggg????

All other memebrs of the family hello and good luck, congrats best wishes ( just choose yours) to you .

Marsha

one word for you Jawi.......WOWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWWww

:thumbs:

Gill how are you hon.

Hello Ladies,

What happened here Sonsyne you are right what is going page 2.........

Jawi hon I hope you are fine .

Gill, Kimmy, Jonesie, Jengles.... how are you ladies doing. Who did I forget....Srry If I forgot your names,,,,,

much love to all you ladies.

Marsha

:lol:

Morning ladies.

Srry Kimmy..things will get bettter once you out of this trimester.

The Haitian friends that I have told me that people in Haiti want change, but the government is not willing. Because her and her sisters were going to school and they were very outspoken about the conditions of the country, their families were easy targets. My friend received aslyum from the US, becuase she watched her mother, sisters, and both grandmothers get rapped repeatedly for several months (during Aristide's rein). The only reason they did not rape her was because her family hid her in the hiding space between the walls of the house. When they went to file charges or complaints not a damn thing was done. So, her family packed up what they could, ran to Dominican Republic and got on a homemade boat. She was the only one that survived in the boat. Two homeade boats left Dominican that day and the other boat only had 2 surviours. I can't begin to imagine. During a protest in DC she told the people in the crowd that she would rather die than return to Haiti. To this day, she says that Aristide still has power in Haiti.

sniffle........sniffle........snifflethis is something,

During a protest in DC she told the people in the crowd that she would rather die than return to Haiti

srry to hear Jengles... but like Gill said just tour and you will find the right place........

I had my boy at Kings county right whenthe changes were starting..........

Epidural.......I had that twice.........my thing was the pitocin they had to give me.......I went fo a stress test in teh morning, while there the nurse asked me if I was in pain or anything, so of course I said ( I was not in pain) , I was just waitng for them to finish up so I could go to GK and get a patty and cocoa bred and a gingerbeer( I knew it was gonna burn the ####### outta my chest-acid reflux, but I just had a craven......di likke facety nurse look pon mi and seh you nah go no whey, you inna labor......, I just laughed and told her to hurry up cause I was hungry..... I couldn't go anywhere cause they started my admittance papers.......so there is me sitting in teh L&D room waiting from about 12 noon until about 6 when I finally get someone come and check me again...of course I did not move an inch from the 3 cenitimeters....so they gave mi Pitocin..and that made the pains kick in.........lawd if you whan hear smaddi whay dis come offah di boat ( plane) you shodda deh inn ami room, likke china doctor wah did deh pon call run outta mi room and send in one a de doc in training......I screamed " if you push u bloodcl@@t hand inna mi one more time I gwan vhop eh off".she was like " ms, I am sorry I don't understand what you saying, could you not speak taht language to me" I was like hey dutty gal nuh tell mi wah fi do, just get the likke chiny ooman back in yah so she can tek dis likke sinting outta mi.......before I could finish she was gone...............my mom and sister in the corner laughing..........then my mom asked does it hurt, " NO OOMAN SMADDI INNA MI STOMACH A TICKLE MI......YOU DAMN IEDIAT U ( my mom let me slide there but she got back at me after the delivery ) :lol: :lol:

but I still can't remeber the torcha I went through do, my sis said I was crying for my dad ( mind I despise that man) and that I flung the bed pan at my son's father.......serve him right fi deh pon di pon wid him new ooman........... ( really it should have been one of the docs knife and it shouldda catch him too)

soon it will come for you

I just read the article and I feel soooooo bbaadddddddddddd for this country.........wow I am speechless............

I don't remeber who said it , I think it was Trelawny but yes if the people in charge was to try and fix Haiti up get it out of the stage of despair it is in then it would flourish.

"The thing about Haiti, as in most places, is that if the people who pull the strings, namely Washington, Paris, and Montreal, who planned, orchestrated, and financed President Jean Bertrand Aristide’s kidnapping and coup d’etat in February 2004 , really wanted the violence and instability to be eradicated, it would be. However, that is not the case and the most money is made when the country is kept in a perpetual state of chaos and the poor are kept poorer and without a voice and a means to mobilize and organize Aristide".

Jengles you're right though growing one's food and passing that knowlege down is priceless. "Give a man a fish he eats fo a day, teach him how to fiish he eats fos a lifetime......"

Back in 05 they had an electionheld first on Oct. 9 for prime minister Gerard Latortue, but voters in Port-au-Prince had not taken part due to security concerns amid the heightened violence. That is another issue there, how are people to live when while thugs, thieves and hooligans wrestle control from officials, who are probably just as corrupt.

If this island could somehow realize its vast potential as a Caribbean paradise, tourisim is not welcome in that country due to teh violence .................this just sadden me..we all take things for granted ( I try not to, I try to remeber where I am from, carrying the buckets of water on my head top or in jugs for miles so I could get some clean water to drink or even to bath--yes there were rivers ( which I love) but some time the water was so dirty or too dang cold for human )...amidst all that though i can say my family did use the land to their advantage, we always had food.......even if it was not food, there was always some sort of fruit......I am tahnkful everyday for my up bringing.

Mek mi go drink a cup a tea an relax before "massa' come and start crack de wipe :lol: .....I just had to do that it was getting kindda serious.

Ladies the joy of pregnancy.just imagine 9-11 months done the line you will be holding you little precious one and all teh morning sickness memory will be goneeeeee :yes:

Morning ladies (L)

Kim.Kim, how you amnd the baby? How Kimora?

I am good.......had to rush out of this office to deal with something...............

How you ladies holding?

Jawi tanks mi der..............if me nuh say it enough mek mi seh it again.........tonks.

Lawd!! Too much happening ere! i kinda started feeling bad for Delmar when im bredda kick im inna deh face. Ohhhh, mi nah like deh violence, so me get scared feh Delmar. Den Fitz haffi comfort im ded bredda.....Lawd mi cyaan tek ie! Den, ian ah show hup agen!! All mi haffi seh is, mi fadda would not let mi guh tuh Ian alone!

All this foolishness cause crazy rass Mya wan feh rooks deh twins dem! An har still nah kno who har baby daddy do she?

I feel you on the violence...but I'm trying to touch on a little of everything. Hush puttus...ie soon gwaan. Remember Melodee just got pregnant by Ian. She and Delmar thought that she was the reason they couldn't have a child together. Melodee got rid of Tradee's baby, not Delmar's when they were in school.

*Hint* Delmar is shooting blanks

good looking Jawi..

double post.....srrry

Toya spots Mya and Tradee getting out of the car. Fitz remains in the car, staring straight ahead. He is covered in blood, and his face is streaked with tears. Toya picks up the hem of her wedding gown and begins running toward him, screaming. Tradee stops Toya, and holds her still.

Tradee: Toya, I need you to calm down. Fitz is not hurt. I have to tell you something very serious. Where is Fitz’s family?

Mya: T…calm down please. Fitz is okay. I promise. Baby, I’m so sorry.

Toya: Mommie…Daddy. Grandmummie! Come quick. Let me go Rasta. Fitz needs me.

Toya and Fitz’s parents and family run outside from the commotion.

Tradee: Fitz is okay. It’s Frowzy. Frowzy didn’t make it. He-he…Fr-Frowzy got shot. Im nuh mek ie!

Grandmummie: Dear Father GAWD! NO! No Father. Jesus Savior pilot mi!

Fitz and Frowzy’s mom: NOOOOOOOOO…nuh mi baby! Nuh mi baby! Where is my baby? Dear GAWD..whe mi pickney?

Toya’s mom runs to comfort Fitz’s mom, and Toya’s dad and Tradee run to catch Frowzy’s grandmother. Mya holds on to Toya.

Toya: Let me go Mya. I have to see Fitz. He needs me. He needs me. He needs me. Oh God, what happened My?

Mya: Fitz is not ready right now honey. He hasn’t said two words since…since…since it happened. He wouldn’t talk to the police, he wouldn’t talk to the ambulance staff. He has just been sitting in the same position. Let me help you change clothes honey. Then, we can go over and help Fitz. There is a lot of blood.

Toya: NO! I don’t give a damn about this dress! I need to get to my husband! LET ME GO!!! Fitz, I’m coming baby. Please let me go Mya. I don’t want to hurt you.

Mya releases Toya, and Toya runs to the car. Mya walks behind her, being careful not to interfere. Toya yanks open the car door, and she grabs Fitz’s hand.

Toya: Fitz honey. It’s me…Toya. I’m here. I’m here baby. I love you so much Fitz. Ba-baby can you talk to me? Come on, it’s okay. I love you. Oh baby…please talk to me.

Fitz: To-To-Toya. He killed him. He saved me and Rasta and Mya. Toya. I need my wife. I need Toya. Mummie…whe mi mummie? Doan tell Grandmummie. Ssshh. Granmummie tek wan rass cutlass tuh im headtop. Betta har nuh fe knoa.

Toya: I know honey. I know. Baby, do you think you can get out of the car now? Come on Fitz baby. Let me help you.

Fitz: I love you Toya. I miss my brother so much. Why did he leave me? Why did he leave? Toya, I never got the chance to tell him that I loved him. He saved my life. He saved all of our lives. Frowzy was a warrior baby. Toya, I need you. Damn baby, I need you to hold me. Just make it go away. Make it go away.

Toya: Okay baby. I love you too. I know you loved him. He loved you too. Frowzy knew you loved him Fitz. He knew it. Remember that. Hush baby. Come on, let’s get you out of the car. I’m going to hold on to you for eternity baby. I’m here. I’m here now.

Somebody help me get him out of the car! Rasta! Daddy!

Tradee: Mi got im sar. Please stay wid de oomen dem.

Tradee runs over to the car, and helps Fitz stand. Fitz blinks for the first time, seeing Toya in her white gown. She wipes at the tears flowing down her cheeks.

My heart breaks for Fitz and his family....... ( wait Marsha remeber itis just a storyy)

Toya spots Mya and Tradee getting out of the car. Fitz remains in the car, staring straight ahead. He is covered in blood, and his face is streaked with tears. Toya picks up the hem of her wedding gown and begins running toward him, screaming. Tradee stops Toya, and holds her still.

Tradee: Toya, I need you to calm down. Fitz is not hurt. I have to tell you something very serious. Where is Fitz’s family?

Mya: T…calm down please. Fitz is okay. I promise. Baby, I’m so sorry.

Toya: Mommie…Daddy. Grandmummie! Come quick. Let me go Rasta. Fitz needs me.

Toya and Fitz’s parents and family run outside from the commotion.

Tradee: Fitz is okay. It’s Frowzy. Frowzy didn’t make it. He-he…Fr-Frowzy got shot. Im nuh mek ie!

Grandmummie: Dear Father GAWD! NO! No Father. Jesus Savior pilot mi!

Fitz and Frowzy’s mom: NOOOOOOOOO…nuh mi baby! Nuh mi baby! Where is my baby? Dear GAWD..whe mi pickney?

Toya’s mom runs to comfort Fitz’s mom, and Toya’s dad and Tradee run to catch Frowzy’s grandmother. Mya holds on to Toya.

Toya: Let me go Mya. I have to see Fitz. He needs me. He needs me. He needs me. Oh God, what happened My?

Mya: Fitz is not ready right now honey. He hasn’t said two words since…since…since it happened. He wouldn’t talk to the police, he wouldn’t talk to the ambulance staff. He has just been sitting in the same position. Let me help you change clothes honey. Then, we can go over and help Fitz. There is a lot of blood.

Toya: NO! I don’t give a damn about this dress! I need to get to my husband! LET ME GO!!! Fitz, I’m coming baby. Please let me go Mya. I don’t want to hurt you.

Mya releases Toya, and Toya runs to the car. Mya walks behind her, being careful not to interfere. Toya yanks open the car door, and she grabs Fitz’s hand.

Toya: Fitz honey. It’s me…Toya. I’m here. I’m here baby. I love you so much Fitz. Ba-baby can you talk to me? Come on, it’s okay. I love you. Oh baby…please talk to me.

Fitz: To-To-Toya. He killed him. He saved me and Rasta and Mya. Toya. I need my wife. I need Toya. Mummie…whe mi mummie? Doan tell Grandmummie. Ssshh. Granmummie tek wan rass cutlass tuh im headtop. Betta har nuh fe knoa.

Toya: I know honey. I know. Baby, do you think you can get out of the car now? Come on Fitz baby. Let me help you.

Fitz: I love you Toya. I miss my brother so much. Why did he leave me? Why did he leave? Toya, I never got the chance to tell him that I loved him. He saved my life. He saved all of our lives. Frowzy was a warrior baby. Toya, I need you. Damn baby, I need you to hold me. Just make it go away. Make it go away.

Toya: Okay baby. I love you too. I know you loved him. He loved you too. Frowzy knew you loved him Fitz. He knew it. Remember that. Hush baby. Come on, let’s get you out of the car. I’m going to hold on to you for eternity baby. I’m here. I’m here now.

Somebody help me get him out of the car! Rasta! Daddy!

Tradee: Mi got im sar. Please stay wid de oomen dem.

Tradee runs over to the car, and helps Fitz stand. Fitz blinks for the first time, seeing Toya in her white gown. She wipes at the tears flowing down her cheeks.

My heart breaks for Fitz and his family....... ( wait Marsha remeber itis just a storyy)

Mya: TRAVIS!!! BABY NO!! NO!!!! PLEASE TRAVIS! You are going to kill him. Baby think about me and our baby. Please Travis, he isn’t worth it. Come on Travis baby. Please don’t. Let the police put him behind bars. Don’t give up your life for his. Your brother needs help.

Tradee falls to the ground sobbing. He is breathing hard from the physical exertion that would permanently disfigure his twin. Mya kneels beside him, and cradles his head in her small arms. Tradee holds on to Mya as if his life force depends on it, and thunderous sobs rack his body. In what seems like eternity, but was in reality only 10 minutes, the police and ambulance arrive.

OOOOOOOOOOOOHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH, I can feel every little emotion they going through.

srry

Morning ladies

Thanks kimmy, with the help of the most high and my new found family I know I will get through it..... ;yes: