windancer

I started this journey in july of 2005.And went threw the amman embassy in jordan.We heard bad stories of this one woman there that no matter what proof you had she made your life a living hell.Well i can confirm this to be true.When my husband went for his interview she had him in there for 2 hours pounding the questions to him.He was denied for sponcer reasons but was sworn in before he left.And she smiled a devel smile as she did so as if to make his pain of being so close hit harder.We did sponcer after sponcer.Even once she denied us again because the sponcer was two dollars under what he was to make in a year.We didn't give up.I even sent an e-mail to this woman telling her she will not do to us what she had done to so many.IN the end he got the visa and she made him spend even more money and time getting new things we already did.She even waitied 2 weeks 2 tell him the visa was there for him.He will be here on tuesday and it doesn't see real to me.We won we think but in the end did we really win?Along the way we lost in real.We lost ourselves each of us went into deep depression and in the end it turned out to be a fight due to pride almost a war in a way.Now when he comes it won't be as it was when we first started this hard journey we are now differant people that need to get to know eachother all over again.We did realize that one thing didn't change and that was the fact the love was still there deep inside lost in blood and tears and way to many sleepless nights.I haven't been on this site in almost a year but was shocked to see that the support for one another isn't the same as when i was on. I can in a way understand this since i have passed such a hard road.But when i was on threw all my tears there was always others there for me to listen to all i cryed over and thats what this site is really about not who knows more about the visa thing than another.It's about pulling together with people who are going threw the same things as you to feel your not alone in this.For those who have been waiting what feels like a lifetime i understand and can feel for you but if your love is real you will finish your journey.And for those who are having there case sent back the the usa were there is love there is always a way.And if you really believe in that love you will be together in the end as ashraf and i will be in a few more days.Stand together everyone be kind to eachother you all are passing the same feeling in one way or another and may each of you always walk in the light.

she just tells us that the sponcers aren't good enough for her

Seems it has been forever that i started this visa journey with my husband and seems the one witch at the amman embassy is doing all she can to try and stop us.It's going on 2 years now and almost a year since i have seen my husband last in jordan.And how she is able to stop us is simple she can say no to the sponcers even if they are good.We sent her a sponcer that makes 80 thousand a year and again she said no.That just goes to show us that one wentch on pms all the time can change your lives forever.We are now doing another sponcer and i bet even if we find a rich one this b**ch will say no.I hate to use that word but after years of this it tends to kill ones spirit.It makes me sick to see what they not only do to me but to many many others.I wonder how that woman can sleep with herself at night.I am not even sure how to feel about any of this anymore not when your future depends on an evil woman that holds your future in her hands and it seems to make her feel she has great power.After all this now it also seems my husband and i have changed in many ways.I used to see things as if there is a will there is a way and he used to think god put us together that he can't keep us apart forever.But i see we both don't feel these things anymore.i stopped going on Vj because it was hard for me to see others that may have gone threw what ashraf and i have and we are still going threw.It's hard to go on in life when the man that holds your heart lives in another part of the world.So in a way its like i am the living dead just walking threw life because i have to.I just hope god ends all this pain soon.I knew we had to be strong doing this visa but i never in my thoughts ever knew it would be this hard or this painfull.I just hope no one else has to go threw all that ashraf and i keep going threw.And if anyone is well may god keep you strong because i know i have no more strength left But ashraf will forever be the air i breath and the earth i walk on just maybe it's not our destiny to breath and walk together.

many thanks to all you starting to freak out but holding on as best i can i will be on vj tomarrow night after i get out of work and as soon he calls me i will let all know how it is going.Mayny thanks to my great friend andrea for always being there for me even in the times i thought i wasn't going to make it.Because of you girl and us sticking together we made it!!!!! well i am hoping i made it anyway lol god willing anyway.To all the others all i can say is just keep on going then end will come soon for all.

ty to all yup ,we are crazy about it it has been so long and its hard to belive its almost done and we will soon be together again.My heart is filled with great joy.So hang in the the rest who are waiting seems good things are happening with the visas!!!!!!!!!!!

Yup great news baby girl again ty for sharing that with me.It's about time something good happens to one of the good spiritual sisters!!!!!!!!! And remember just breath easy if not know i am breathing for ya.Love ya girl best of luck.

best of luck

good luck to your husband amal i am sure all will go well!!

Jean i know the feeling.But ya know what cry girl it can be good.Hell i did that yesterday and then layed in bed and eat some things i am sure i will hate myself for later lol Hang tough.Sometimes i feel like i get like that everey few days but then i see ashraf and all thew sadness and stress passes.Its his sweet face that makes me know that things will be ok in the end.

congradulations LB way to go!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! May your future be a happy one

Wow thats so sad to hear .Always sad to hear when a child has died but worse when you knew them Sorry for your sadness he sounded like a great little boy

Best of luck i am sure all will go great

Yup it is saterday! And i have a house full of my daughter's little friends. Wow i am just not used to that many little people lol.So i guess my goal for the day besides not missing ashraf will be to survive with all the little ones.In a way watching them all play yesterday and hearing them all laugh was kind of refreshing.Always nice to see how kids see the world through there eyes.Hope all have a great saterday!

Wanted to say hi to all and that yup back again in the usa.The hardest thing as always was to say goodbye once again.And that the interview date is in january seems i will have to make one more trip to jordan.I miss him bad as always.But i am thankfull to god for being able to be with him again.We cryed together when we found out the date was so far off.He also was thinking about all the ones like us who have to be apart so long.But as i see it we seem to get stronger with all the things the visa process throws at us.I went to petra this trip and omg it was breath taking.Then i went to mount nebo that as well was something to remember itself.The weather there was great not to hot like the last time i was there lol.I also feel for the ones who can't fly all the time to the ones they love and miss.But as always one should keep the faith and hold on tight.I wish all the best of luck on there hard visajourneys.

Hello all!Just wanted to say hello from jordan.Good to see my husband but th bad news is we got our interview date for january 25th 2007 But what can we say at least it is a date.This is a bad thing but we just keep hangin on.Guess i will be back here again in october.Hope all is well with everyone

Wow no interview can we all get that lucky congrats!!!

Omg now i am really stressing to read a date 9 months away why is this like this now?So not fair for all of us>Now i am afraid to see what date we get if we ever get one

Omg Help!!!!!!!!!!!What is going on ????????Why can't i get the next dam packet from the embassy????not even the lawyer got it yet.We are so stressing What the hell do i do now??Do i go there and get it myself??Will they even give it to me when i am there.Omg god can anyone help me in this question??

Wow kelly thats so good to hear.Glad you will be able to come home soon.I hope you have a wondefull future full of all happiness.May your trip home be a safe one.

Well andrea as i see all think that is to long so maybe there was a mistake.I hope it will not be that long.Makes me wonder how far off ours will be.Hang in there still your almost done.As for me hell i am just happy right now that the lawyer will get ashraf's dam packet for him.Waiting just for that was stressfull.She told ashraf not to worry about the interview date.We don't know what that means but we hope it means something good.Right now i am just to excited about seeing mih in a few more days.Hope all here on Vj are doing well.

Well andrea as i see all think that is to long so maybe there was a mistake.I hope it will not be that long.Makes me wonder how far off ours will be.Hang in there still your almost done.As for me hell i am just happy right now that the lawyer will get ashraf's dam packet for him.Waiting just for that was stressfull.She told ashraf not to worry about the interview date.We don't know what that means but we hope it means something good.Right now i am just to excited about seeing mih in a few more days.Hope all here on Vj are doing well.

Well Angel we both tryed to call but not luck.Tomarrow he will call the lawyer to see if she can get the packet for us.Talking to ashraf now and he has a dam cold again lol.But he is just as upset with the embassy as we all are.

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Ty Angel!Things with ashraf and i are great but we seem to be having a problem getting the packet from the embassy.I e-mail and they terll me they sent it and it's well over a month now.I will be going back to jordan 14 days but so not sure if i go to the embassy will they give me the dam packet lol.This has been a hard road as all know but things like this make it worse when your papers are at the embassy and you can't move on to the next step.I even tryed calling them and was on hold for ever but still got n one.Any advice would be so helpfull.But yup we are still hanging on.

Good to see some of the same people that were here before.And yup i am still waiting like the rest.The thing that has me upset it that our papers are at the embassy now and it's been a month and no dam packet yet.I keep getting e-mails from them saying they sent it and the days they did.I am thinking this is all bull.Thank god i will be going back to jordan on the 29th can't stand to be away from him any longer.as each week passes it feels so does my strength as i know it's the same for many.Ashraf and i try to keep eachother going but dam this is the hardest thing i have ever done in my life oh well besides give birth with not drugs lol now nothing beats that lol.Well just wantewd to say yup still here like the rest.I hope all are well

Im very sorry to hear of your misfortune...are u sure there is something your not forgetting that could be a possible reason for denial? Did he recieve a 221? i am not sure about DCF thru Morocco, but maybe this isnt a flat out denial, you may be able to fight it. dont give up until u have tried...maybe the lawyer will bring u some uplifting news...best of luck

Wanted to say yup i am still around ashraf's papers are now on there way to amman.But as i hear this will take just as long as it did here to finnish.So that means we are only half done.I will be going to jordan to see him again at the end of march.It's been 6 months since we were last together.I am just hoping all will go well with the embassy as all did with the uscis and the nvc.Wishing all good luck in the journy.